Men who can’t cum during sexual intercourse but do cum during masterbation.

[Terti]

Hi everyone, just wanted to know If you have any insights into this . There is a book on this does anyone know what it’s called . Thanks in advance . There may even be a thread about this already . Any help would be great . Thanks

 

[Tania Admin]

Hi everyone, just wanted to know If you have any insights into this . There is a book on this does anyone know what it’s called . Thanks in advance . There may even be a thread about this already . Any help would be great . Thanks

I'm not sure of the book.

But this is quite common..
A lot of the time the reason is because what is fantasized in their mind or watched (as in porn) is far beyond what they can realistically expect during an intimate moment with a sexual partner.

 

[Terti]

I'm not sure of the book.

But this is quite common..
A lot of the time the reason is because what is fantasized in their mind or watched (as in porn) is far beyond what they can realistically expect during an intimate moment with their partner.

Yes I agree. Fantasy and porn. Interesting .

 

[Terti]

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ this is the book. has anyone read it . Other recommendations

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

If you want good long sex it's always better to have a wank before usually resulting in not being able to climax during intercourse as the saying goes never see a lady with a loaded gun if you get what I saying.

 

[Terti]

If you want good long sex it's always better to have a wank before usually resulting in not being able to climax during intercourse as the saying goes never see a lady with a loaded gun if you get what I saying.

Yes I do, good advice , this man used to cum when he was in his 20 s but he is now 40 and he doesnt cum during sex at all.

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

Yes I do, good advice , this man used to cum when he was in his 20 s but he is now 40 and he doesnt cum during sex at all.

Well if that's the case he won't have to worry about any unwanted pregnancies.

 

[Terti]

Well if that's the case he won't have to worry about any unwanted pregnancies.

This is true, I guess it has a positive aspect

 

[dan60]

If you want good long sex it's always better to have a wank before usually resulting in not being able to climax during intercourse as the saying goes never see a lady with a loaded gun if you get what I saying.

i am contrary to that.
i like to go a few days without a wank before seeing a lady.
but i take my time, enjoy the tease, play with each other for ages until we cannot wait anymore.
i have learnt to control things (not always successfully lol) and experience some mind blowing orgasms.
the thought of just banging away for 10 minutes does nothing for me.
maybe terti should try something along these lines.

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

Had a mate we used to call him two-stroke because he learned that if he jerked off before sex he could last longer than two strokes.

 

[Fat boy]

I have heard of this before, from a WL. She told me this is due to having too many handjobs instead of sex.

 

[dan60]

I have heard of this before, from a WL. She told me this is due to having too many handjobs instead of sex.

yep, i think porn can desensitize the cock and the brain.
but i haven't wrote a book yet, as i'm still in the research stage lol
i think i was nearly addicted to porn at one stage, which seemed to coincide with me getting the NBN.
but seriously, try no porn, try to find the right lady, go fully charged and see if that works out.
instead of knocking one out, tease one out.

 

[SilverSurfer44]

So whart, a guy has to come to enjoying it, dick inside Vagina's. Women dont always cum or argasm isnt it whart sex is about, hard dick in fanny enjoying the stimulaton

Less man made spoofing can be more stimulation for women

Masturbation usually done alone for alone time huh

 

[Tania Admin]

So whart, a guy has to come to enjoying it, dick inside Vagina's. Women dont always cum or argasm isnt it whart sex is about, hard dick in fanny enjoying the stimulaton

Less man made spoofing can be more stimulation for women

Masturbation usually done alone for alone time huh

Wow. That reply was written in a pretty crass way.

In no way was Terti implying that.

Masturbation quite often becomes an addiction in itself and can result in poor performance in intimate moments.

 

[Joe Ozzie]

Age and medical conditions are a factor as well.
Eg. Ref: https://www.hardfacts.com.au/understanding-ed.html

There are several possible causes physical and/or psychological reasons for ED, some common causes include:

1. Prostate cancer treatment, trauma to the pelvic area can cause nerve and vascular damage
2. Diabetes, which can compromise the blood flow to the penis
3. Cardiovascular problems including high blood pressure and heart disease, can compromise the blood flow to the penis
4. Other surgery (prostate, bladder, colon, rectal), trauma to the pelvic area can cause nerve and vascular damage
5. The side effects of some medications,1, 9 including some for high blood pressure and antidepressants can interfere with blood flow to the penis
6. Lifestyle choices (smoking, excessive alcohol, obesity, lack of exercise, stress, lack of sleep), can also affect your performance
7. Spinal cord injuries
8. Hormone problems
9. Depression and anxiety

 

[Jimmy long]

Find that there are 3 types, and it makes a difference

• Great sex technique, cum in no time, need to hold back
• Poor sex technique, move to handjob, great technique, need to hold back
• Poor technique all round, need to take over, no need to hold back

Don't like laying blame, but if you pay for something its reasonable to expect you get something that is more than what you can by yourself

 

[Terti]

Find that there are 3 types, and it makes a difference

• Great sex technique, cum in no time, need to hold back
• Poor sex technique, move to handjob, great technique, need to hold back
• Poor technique all round, need to take over, no need to hold back

Don't like laying blame, but if you pay for something its reasonable to expect you get something that is more than what you can by yourself

You make some valid points

 

[Phoebe]

Had a mate we used to call him two-stroke because he learned that if he jerked off before sex he could last longer than two strokes.

Now he's environmentally friendly and became a 4 stroke instead!

 

[Terti]

Now he's environmentally friendly and became a 4 stroke instead!

At least he has a happy ending I guess.

 

[Phoebe]

At least he has a happy ending I guess.

Fingers X

 

[Madmax1700]

 

[SilverSurfer44]

Men that wank over porn all day might not be able to come during sex, all done, they should get hard ons. Must men would cum during sex

Seems odd post, I dont mind if I dont come, still feel great intercourse.

Myth or fact? Man need to be a first hydrant of foam cum when he ejaculates mountsins of sperm??

Myth

 

[SilverSurfer44]

If you want good long sex it's always better to have a wank before usually resulting in not being able to climax during intercourse as the saying goes never see a lady with a loaded gun if you get what I saying.

Just reload after the first show of cum, no need to wank, but will help some

 

[Phoebe]

Does it really matter.. if you remain hard and the lady you are with can keep going whats the problem. after all if her pussy gets sore, she has a mouth and an ass... so hey it's not all bad think outside the box so to speak!!!

 

[SilverSurfer44]

One of my exes needed to mastubate for an hour after sex, she needed it. She still performane well and didnt climax as much as her wanking

 

[Annoyance]

Hi everyone, just wanted to know If you have any insights into this . There is a book on this does anyone know what it’s called . Thanks in advance . There may even be a thread about this already . Any help would be great . Thanks

Such a easy answer Terti… compare how you orgasmed on your first few tries as a young girl to compared to now. It's not rocket science.

 

[SilverSurfer44]

Vagina are better at 'doing it for themselves,' I dunno how a aman can do a lady's job , I cetainly couldnt.......the pussy's a winner by a country miles and miles us men are the weaker race in bed

 

[Terti]

Such a easy answer Terti… compare how you orgasmed on your first few tries as a young girl to compared to now. It's not rocket science.

I guess age may play a part , I still think that it’s a combination of a lot of things .

 

[SilverSurfer44]

I given up watchin porn, except a few threesomes on talkin sex, not much difference.

Plenty of QUEEN BEES round on tv

 

[John Smithl]

Vagina are better at 'doing it for themselves,' I dunno how a aman can do a lady's job , I cetainly couldnt.......the pussy's a winner by a country miles and miles us men are the weaker race in bed

BS. If you don't know, find out and practice if that's what you want