I was at a party awhile ago & late in the night after many drinks a few of the ladies started complaining that their husbands/bf's were duds in the foreplay area, I asked them if they were not satisfied did they talk to their partner about it, the general reply was that they should know, so I asked them to write down what they enjoyed most & I would put it on a website, next day most of them phoned to say forget it, my thought were if you don't want to talk about it then don't complain.