Long distance relationship are the purest test of love ...

[Aaron]

I'm wondering if any of our Forum Members have been in a Long Term Long Distance Relationship and what the secret is to making it work.

What's the Longest You've Been In?
What are some things you do to Keep Things Spicy?
Do you talk everyday? Once a Day?

All Advice Appreciated =)

 

[Claire M]

Been in a successful long distance (same state - 4hrs apart now, though was opposite ends of the country)... D/s relationship for nearly a year now... it all hinges for me (s) to follow a strict life and lots of phone calls and face time... our sex life is amazing and goes well beyond quantity encounters .. rather aiming for quality time.. also knowing that there is an end date ...

 

[ozwarlock67]

I've known my lady since 1985 when we were teenagers. Life took us in different directions with different people until she surfaced in Brisbane some 20 years ago and remains today.

She comes down here or I go up there. We didn't do the deed until 2013. That's a long time earning someone's trust

 

[Vineta Sexting]

Yes absolutely they work..
If there is a true desire from both side the relationship will work..I am in a relationship with an African professional Soccer player .We are in a relationship from more than 2 years ...We met thrice in a year. We talk daily on video call and we both are very happy .

 

[jopheer]

Long distance can work. Phone calls, face time and budget flights make things easier these days.

 

[Lacie4U]

I've known my lady since 1985 when we were teenagers. Life took us in different directions with different people until she surfaced in Brisbane some 20 years ago and remains today.

She comes down here or I go up there. We didn't do the deed until 2013. That's a long time earning someone's trust

What a beautiful story !!!

 

[Rock]

wowo ... very enjoy to read. NICE!

 

[ozwarlock67]

What a beautiful story !!!

Thank you. She's actually here as we speak.

 

[Lacie4U]

Thank you. She's actually here as we speak.

Even more Beautiful Thank you for sharing

 

[bitme62]

Like it, addict it and frustrated about it. good and bad

 

[WildGoat]

Never want to try. Mate around got hurt from this. That lady from Thai set up this. She has been dating few guys from different countries with different holiday schedules. Then she can meet them all few times per year separately. Guys sent money to her to keep her happy. She married one of them in the end. My mate lost money and wasted his time and emotions. She got money from all guys and bought few properties and married other guy.

 

[Bored L]

Not into it. Nothing fun.

 

[crashcrash]

Lucky I got girls here ...

 

[Phoebe]

Yes they can... BUT trust is the ultimate word, and never miss a day to call, sms, email etc etc... once you start missing days distance really happens. if both parties love each other then its worth it.. BUT never miss a day of communication no matter how triival the conversation may end up being, Hearing a loved ones voice can mean the difference of a normal day becoming a brilliant day! especially if that conversation happens at the end of the day. if the time zone difference is greater than 5 hours it gets rather hard, one party is up while the other is asleep!

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

Interesting story nice shirt and what a great van is that yours I was thinking of getting one of those vans for the Bon Scott celebration's in Perth in march.

 

[Irishbree]

I have been in a long distance relationship before and it is all about how much effort you put in and it has to be the same from your partner as well, like texting and calling each other pretty much everyday is essential once that stops it's true the relationship will fizzly out and you'll lose interest eventually.

 

[Phoebe]

I have been in a long distance relationship before and it is all about how much effort you put in and it has to be the same from your partner as well, like texting and calling each other pretty much everyday is essential once that stops it's true the relationship will fizzly out and you'll lose interest eventually.

Plus Trust!

 

[ozwarlock67]

Interesting story nice shirt and what a great van is that yours I was thinking of getting one of those vans for the Bon Scott celebration's in Perth in march.

I think that photo was taken around 2012. The van belonged to Apollo Campers. I was "reloccing" it from Melbourne to Adelaide for them.

We paused at the SA/VIC border to take those pics.

 

[ozwarlock67]

Even more Beautiful Thank you for sharing

You're a romantic at heart aren't you?

 

[Lacie4U]

You're a romantic at heart aren't you?

Very much so

 

[ozwarlock67]

Very much so

Me too. I don't know if it's a blessing or a curse. Bit of both, I suspect.

 

[Lacie4U]

Me too. I don't know if it's a blessing or a curse. Bit of both, I suspect.

Ozwarlock.
Your story reminds me of o poem “ Love Sonnet X1” by Pablo Neruda

“ I crave your mouth, your voice,your hair.
Silent and Starving I prowl through the streets.
Bread does not nourish me , dawn disrupts me , all day
I hunt for the liquid measure of your steps ......”

 

[ozwarlock67]

Ozwarlock.
Your story reminds me of o poem “ Love Sonnet X1” by Pablo Neruda

“ I crave your mouth, your voice,your hair.
Silent and Starving I prowl through the streets.
Bread does not nourish me , dawn disrupts me , all day
I hunt for the liquid measure of your steps ......”

That's intense.

 

[Lacie4U]

That's intense.

I guess so

 

[TJ Ruff]

I'm in a long distance (5.5 hour drive) relationship for around six years now. It has to finish though, the distance that is! We're both getting close to being able to make it happen due to changing family situations.
Distance sucks and I wouldn't really recommend it but love will prevail!

 

[Kodie VIP Canberra]

Must say I love the WildGoat story.... LLLLLllllooooonnnnnnggggg Distance he is talking about, like 24 flying hrs away.... Get a blow up doll!!!!!! don't think that's cheating...

 

[Vineta Sexting]

What do you think guys???

 

[dan60]

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

The post is pointless , you need to tell a story for a thread to work.
The question should be Have you been in a long term relationship?
Have you any advice for me, as I am in one and finding it is hard?

 

[TantraShiva]

Theres already been a long distance thread.

They dont last.