I’ve seen some WLs have a no go with fingering. Just wondering, if we’re going to have sex … is there a difference how it feels and what is the concern? Fingernails?
Everyone is different however for me
Fingernails is the main one. Being scratched internally is never fun but more importantly the bacteria hidden behind fingernails is the reason I say no fingering.
Many WLs say no so I have assume it does little for them, at least while working, or as Amelia says for health reasons. One time a girl had me use a finger condom, which supprisingly felt nice. Its disrespectful not to ask and anyway I generally just massage outside if its OK. Much as most massage girls ask before fingering up your bum. Both parties need to be comfortable.