It it just me??

[Arkmeup]

I am 30 yr old female, who loves sex any sex, & gets off on getting the other person off. I was a sex freak until 4 years ago when I ended my current relationship. I have been sexual inactive since then but now find I am hanging for sex all the time & I am to shy to go out & get it. i am not a super model but don't think I am that bad lol, just not sure where to start.
Lost my conferdents I think, worried about what other people will think of my naked body? Am I wired??:angel12:

 

[Elise Emerald Kitten]

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[Scottie1975]

No.....not weird at all.......I hate to think what people think of my naked body, best kept in a cool dark place !! I think from time to time we all lose our mojo for lots of different reason.

Cheers

Scottie

 

[Arkmeup]

Cheers Guys. I am so needing sex atm I dream about it, I day dream about I can't look at any one with thinking about it. lol

 

[naughtyjoker]

Its pur natural to have a feeling for sex. and being a girl women with not so bad body, you will be wanted by many.

 

[WRXXR]

, just not sure where to start.

Start by wearing some nice sexy, semi revealing clothes and going to a pub. You may not find anyone decent but after surely you'll get a few compliments which does wonders for confidence!

 

[Mary Anne PA]

Mojo on mojo off
life is a roller coaster you just have to learn not to hang on to the negative thought and develop a spiralling thought process that finds you hiding under your doona watching reruns of a crappy sitcom on a saturday night....when you could be out celebrating nakedness in all its forms!!!

Packaging is pretty but it is what is inside that counts.

love lizzie

 

[brittney]

Your not weird your only human you just need to get yourself out there and meet new people.Forget the past and look forward to the present these a lot of guys out there waiting to meet a luvly lady like yourself

 

[Laura Myer]

I think if you are feeling very sexual at the moment, guys will sense it and become attracted to you.

We all need to put ourselves out there. eg. get onto dating sites, or try newspaper ads (with a different sim card), or just find a buddy or a regular lover. Once you have guys attracted, your confidence will grow. Make sure you know exactly what you want and what you DON'T want. Even write it out on paper so that you are equipped with strong boundaries. If anything doesn't feel right, then avoid it.

Expect respect though.

There's lots of lovely men out there who will be happy to even have a no strings arrangement and some really insist on a commitment - yes the men want commitment. Just identify what you want and let the men know so they know where they stand.

It's hard if we are not getting 'it'. I go a bit nutty myself if I don't have a lover or a buddy of my own to just indulge in and take me away to another world. I know how I get so I make sure I have someone in my life now.

You're just being human.

Laura
lauramyer.com

 

[Arkmeup]

Thanks Laura, I think I am already at the nut' part lol

 

[cyphix]

Now you know what guys feel like all the time.... :laughing4

But seriously..... I would avoid bars etc..... probably just attract a bunch of dickheads that way.

 

[AnthonyJ]

I am 30 yr old female, who loves sex any sex, & gets off on getting the other person off. I was a sex freak until 4 years ago when I ended my current relationship. I have been sexual inactive since then but now find I am hanging for sex all the time & I am to shy to go out & get it. i am not a super model but don't think I am that bad lol, just not sure where to start.
Lost my conferdents I think, worried about what other people will think of my naked body? Am I wired??:angel12:

Hi Arkmeup,
You can try speed dating it is around Australia, u get to sit a talk to about 10 ppl for about 5 min each and then u can pick A person to catch up again..
Its great fun and u can start of as friends and go from there..
Ps i did it the other week and had a ball and got a few matches,there was so many Normal guy/girls there..worth a crack!
Or failing all that just P/M for some 'love'lol.
Enjoy!
Tony the ONE and only!

 

[Rochelle]

Hi girlie,
there are several dating web.sites around as well. You can sign up for free, put your profile up and pics if you like. 'Matchmakers' is the first one that jumps to my mind.......not really my cup of tea.......but there is a constant lack of females and whenever a new girl signs up she gets bombarded with messages.
Not sure about the pub scenario.......well can only say it that way.......great when you got your mojo back......go for it....live it but don't come across desperate.......lol.....i am sure you have experienced it as well.....there is nothing more off-putting than a desperate guy:nono:. I can only assume but guys might be putt off by desperation as well.

good luck....lot's of fun.....lot's of great experiences......celebrate the mojo. :thumbsup:

 

[Mary Anne PA]

look we all want the relationship stuff at some stage of our lives but while we are young and ...all available group sex is looking like a pretty fine way to pass the time
Blonde Sandwich any one!!!

 

[Lantana]

I think if you are feeling very sexual at the moment, guys will sense it and become attracted to you.

i think this is true too. you give off a certain vibe and you're not even aware, bu its the subtleties. i think you have to put yourself in the drivers seat, so to speak. take control and let the men come to you.

i actually found the best place to meet guys is at the casino. there's so much eye contact and flirtation going on at those tables, lol. great lighting, nicely dressed guys and a hotel room just round the corner, what more could you ask for :angel12:

 

[Mary Anne PA]

Are you not supposed to find such elusive things when you are least in search of them???
Being single is just so wonderfully uncomplicated... especially in my line of work!!!
Perhaps I am just selfish....

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy;- Arkmeup, so what do you think of the new forum? and how is life treating you these days?
Do not be shy.........we know you arrrrrrrrr there LOL

 

[TartanMan]

I am 30 yr old female, who loves sex any sex, & gets off on getting the other person off. I was a sex freak until 4 years ago when I ended my current relationship. I have been sexual inactive since then but now find I am hanging for sex all the time & I am to shy to go out & get it. i am not a super model but don't think I am that bad lol, just not sure where to start.
Lost my conferdents I think, worried about what other people will think of my naked body? Am I wired??:angel12:

Why don't you sign up to RHP. You can generally chat to people a little there and decide if you want to meet someone. You have every option available, from women to men to couples.

Good luck!