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Is there a person you can remember you have felt the deepest attraction for?

Master Yoda

“Your path you must decide.”
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In the past 15 years of my life I have felt deep attraction for a number of special ladies. Some of them WLs, but most are not. In the past 5 years I have met a few that held angelic qualities. But there is one that is most memorable. She was a waitress in a humble restaurant. There was instant mutual intrigue and attraction. Now I do not have enough words that can do justice in describing everything I saw in her. But here are a few things I remember most about her.

- Is willing to walk to meet you when she misses the bus.

- Brings lunch when she knows you haven't eaten.

- Demands to know you got home safely.

- Whose beautiful smile shines perfection that overrides all superficial imperfections.

- When parting will stand and see you off until you are out of sight.

- Chooses to be kind instead of right.

- Is a Go Giver more than a Go Getter.

- When there is something to say. The other person's feelings are more of a priority than satisfying a need of wanting to say something.

- In my case...represents the kind of person I am trying to be.

- On a lunch date she prefers sneaker over heels.

During our time spent together we did not need to be doing any particular activity as being together was what we wanted. And we would find ourselves circling the streets of northbridge over and over again with no destination as just walking together was the destination.

Sadly....as we met she was already scheduled to leave this place for good to care for family member in need, So we shared 11 days together that I very grateful for. She is one of a very few that inspired me to write a song for.



Does anyone else have a story to share about a person that touched your heart at such a deep level?
 

Master Yoda

“Your path you must decide.”
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Mate, if a lady like that I would follow her to the ends of the earth rather than let her slip through my fingers.
Yes.....every fibre of my being wants her back. Yet my presence where she comes from and her current circumstances is not in her best interest.

I believe the best thing to do was not make it about me and let go.
 
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Raye@Langtrees

:( Poor Master Yoda, you no what they say, set it free blah blah blah, she may return to you ,or like Svengali said follow her, go get her caveman style if you have too, run.....
 

Master Yoda

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Oh....I appreciate the kindness. But there's no poor Yoda :)

Those 11 days changed my outlook on some very important ways of thinking.

We are still in touch. And with no attachments to any outcomes means no disappointment. Just glad we had that time and that we still talk.

Thanks again for your kindness.
 
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wr3xr

Probably 3 girls in my short life.

2 i had long term relationships with and the 3rd (well second) our connection was incredible but unfortunately its one of those times in life that you know walking away is the best option long term.
 

Dallas

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Wow Master Yoda, she sounds wonderful!! I met someone like that once and got married but sadly it didn't last. At the moment though I'd settle for holding hands at the movies :)
 

Master Yoda

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Wow Master Yoda, she sounds wonderful!! I met someone like that once and got married but sadly iourselvelast. At the moment though I'd settle for holding hands at the movies

Well when I say men are pretty slow I'm more speaking for myself. But most of us are not aware that we need to actively maintain the side of ourselves that good woman fall for. Most of us maintain our cars more than we maintain our relationships. So its no mystery that things go south.

And yes she is wonderful. I was once a man that had a big ego and neglected so many great women that were very good to me. Meeting one I may have called the one and having only 11 days taught me how to treat a woman everyday as though it was our last day together.

As much as it stung it was a necessary lesson. So I do not see this encounter as a bad thing.
 
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colzilla

Hi Mr MY. I'm well and I hope you are too.
As for women the less I try the more I get.
 

Master Yoda

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Yes yes Col......in whatever context the more we be chumps that chase them. The more they run......that seems to be a universal law.
 
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colzilla

No one is that special anyway so no need to chase. Just hand over Mr Ca$h and Bobs your uncle.
 

homer

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wow Master Yoda, that is every man's dream lady. If all women are like that, monogamy seems logical. lol...Divorce will be made history. No name calling, no bitterness. She sounds like the female Confucius.
 

Master Yoda

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She's no confucious. Just very kind and considerate. And most of all goes too far with not being selfish.
 

Master Yoda

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Thank you for your kind wishes Captain. But I do not believe in luck.
 

Justbe:)

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We met at Langtrees a little over two years ago. One booking became two, three, ten. Bookings then became a means to simply be in each others' physical presence. We had become companions, communicating daily, we had become best friends with a lot of love shared. An urgent and important issue arose recently. She is strong, she will see it through but she needs to be the only one working on it. She is a beautiful miracle. My attraction to her .. I would best describe it as a deep, soul fulfilling attraction to who she is, and how our innate connection made me feel.

..........light hearted aren't I ;)
 

Dallas

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Yes a few times and each time it was the absolute worst feeling in the world because the feelings weren't reciprocated.
 

bushbabe

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Yes Master Yoda...... one stands out, a little like the circumstances that Justbe described. She also has issues that only she can deal with......... only wish that I could help.
And of course our lovely Petite Angelina.... only wish I had spent more time with her.
 

Master Yoda

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As I said before this girl is one of a few that has inspired me to set a set of lyrics for. Below is the set of heart felt words she received as a gift along with vocals.





Season or Lifetime

When we met…………

My life was stuck in a dark place….

Fear was my focus of most days….

When you appeared girl..

Confusion quickly took its place..

I was lost…………

Not seeing angels in my space…

Neglecting people who loves me..

You made the difference… and somehow you opened up my eyes……………..


Chorus:

If we met in a different time……

If we met in a different place……

Would I stupidly be no different..

And treat you like you’re only taking up space…..


I’m so glad you are in my life……

I’m so glad I have seen your face……

If for a season, or for a lifetime……..

You’ve healed my heart and life in many ways……..

But memories are all…..that stays………




As we met……..

You’re on your way out of this place…

A loved one’s needing your good grace…

So you and me must end before a chance to begin…………



Chorus:

If we met in a different time……

If we met in a different space……

You told me things may be different…..

But I’m still grateful for these eleven days………


I’m so glad you are in my life……

I’m so glad I have seen your face……

If for a season, or for a lifetime……..

You’ve healed my heart and life in many ways……..

Yet memories are all…..that stays………


If there can be another time……

If there can be another place……..

I would cherish this chance of a lifetime…

To have an angel like you rest of my days….


I’m so sad that you have to fly….

Back to heaven where you reside……

If tears can speak they’ll tell me they wish that..

You’ll return to me one day again….


But for now we are….far apart…..

A mighty ocean between us…

Lets never forget……….our time……….


Know one knows....if we're meant to be.....

Just hope maybe sometimes.......you'll....think....of....me.......
 

Master Yoda

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Funny that....I have experienced what you just said word for word in one of the major relationships in my life.
 

Master Yoda

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Yes Master Yoda...... one stands out, a little like the circumstances that Justbe described. She also has issues that only she can deal with......... only wish that I could help.
And of course our lovely Petite Angelina.... only wish I had spent more time with her.
Hey Bushbabe. Long time no see. Yeah I'm pretty sure I know who yo are talking about. And it does suck feeling helpless. But I rather focus on doing good and staying strong and feeling good. Eventually these people may turn up and I like to be in peak condition to offer what I can.

And.....Angelina... yeah...distant memory. But always a fond one.
 
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