Is sex toys cheating?
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My hubby is fine with it. I'm not quite sure how using an inanimate object to pleasure yourself can be classed as cheating.
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We buy cushions to make our sitting more comfortable, we buy steering wheel covers to stop our hands getting burnt, we buy salad dressing to make our salad taste better, how can a sex toy be any different, just adds variety, comfort,pleasure.
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No way Hozay
In my opinion your sexuality belongs to you and sometimes we choose to share it with others or sometimes we keep it just to our self. It is as indistinguishable from us as our very character, and it is ours to wield how we think its best
In my opinion your sexuality belongs to you and sometimes we choose to share it with others or sometimes we keep it just to our self. It is as indistinguishable from us as our very character, and it is ours to wield how we think its best
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No idea as being completely honest sex toys are not my thing. Toys hold to appeal but if I was in a relationship and found out partner was using them I would not be a happy girl as that if what I am for. So I guess we are all different
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Annoyance
He sounds very old fashioned in a sense anyone or anything else besides him is considered cheating. Self pleasure isn't cheating since your doing it solely yourself, but using something else is in his book. There are those worried how good sex toys are that the person might rate their toy pleasure better then the current partner they are with.
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No way , sex toys just add another amazing element to sex wether it be by yourself or used in a couple.
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Nope -because there's no way a person can be compared in any way to a toy.And i dont think using a sex toy counts as cheating...
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OK, so I will start this debate. the question to this thread is;- "Is sex toys Cheating."
We the above all say NO.
How about this argument.
If the sex toy was a life-size doll with sex organs and could vocalize common sentence`s.
Would having sex with a doll be classified as cheating??????
We the above all say NO.
How about this argument.
If the sex toy was a life-size doll with sex organs and could vocalize common sentence`s.
Would having sex with a doll be classified as cheating??????
stovo82
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I wonder how the sex workers will be able to compete against the growing popularity of sex robots that look life like? Sex robots will be able to mimic humans, look sexy, never complain and no risk of STIs.
Life size doll that looks like prime Hollywood actress from the 1950s or 1960s. Rita Hayworth, Elizabeth Taylor, Marilyn Monroe, Lauren Bacall, etc.
I want a life size doll that looks good and can sing and dance too and can be customised with different outfits and accessories.
Life size doll that looks like prime Hollywood actress from the 1950s or 1960s. Rita Hayworth, Elizabeth Taylor, Marilyn Monroe, Lauren Bacall, etc.
I want a life size doll that looks good and can sing and dance too and can be customised with different outfits and accessories.
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This reminds me of an ex I had that got so angry knowing I had toys for "me time" because he thought he wasn't " satisfying " me enough.
Firstly, lol correct
Secondly, why be jealous over a dildo
Firstly, lol correct
Secondly, why be jealous over a dildo
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SilverSurfer44
Surely toys should be sterilised between persosn, cant be shared can they
Terti
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I agree with your thoughts
John Smithl
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I feel it's more complex than a yes or no.
As devils advocate, what would happen if a man in a relationship decided to regularly use a fleshlight to cum?
Then roles reversed?
Personally, I've infrequently used toys when away from my partner and used them with her. A great deal of enjoyment, build up, exploration and bonding. Beautiful stuff!
As devils advocate, what would happen if a man in a relationship decided to regularly use a fleshlight to cum?
Then roles reversed?
Personally, I've infrequently used toys when away from my partner and used them with her. A great deal of enjoyment, build up, exploration and bonding. Beautiful stuff!
aaron.lee
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If its a concern for the bloke, perhaps try to compromise. Use a small clit vibrator on the clit during sex in a missionary position. Most girls cum very quickly and the orgasm appears to be more intense. Perhaps the bloke will feel better his girl hadnt been penetrated by others, toys included. Some guys are selfish.
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Xavier Jung
Definitely not cheating. Helps to understand your body more so a recommendation in fact.
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Not cheating! If the hubby thinks it is maybe join in for a 3sum 
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SilverSurfer44
How can it be. Men and women can talk rubbish,
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Cheating is say a wife buying these toys without her husbands knowledge or going to store or online without him being there, if this is all okay to do so, then why do women get so narky when husband comes home with a new motorbike, car engine, jet ski or BBQ without her knowledge..... Cheating is the act of purchasing without your significant others knowledge... Also the Husband has to ask why do you need toys ? If they have a healthy sex life..
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No way on earth!
In a relationship if you're using sex toys as a substitute for sex with the other person, because neither person has any sex drive then that's a potential problem.
But if your hubby has just decided to go out drinking with the boys on Friday night, then pull out that magic wand and go to town!
In a relationship if you're using sex toys as a substitute for sex with the other person, because neither person has any sex drive then that's a potential problem.
But if your hubby has just decided to go out drinking with the boys on Friday night, then pull out that magic wand and go to town!
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SilverSurfer44
Luckily lots or everyone has different perceptions of aided and not aided mass debates. Same as law school, poitics, or english at school mass debates
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SilverSurfer44
Mass opinions of things and acts by men to be annoying in this case. Bit like fishing and throwing a line to catch a fish. Becomes verbal statements to get reactions.
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Annoyance
Funny enough talking about sexual performance is a touchy subject between couples, no one wants to be lacking or known to be lacking in the bedroom. How can you say after half a year to years down the track that you sux in bed, so I bought these toys to get myself off.
Communication is key to any relationship with both sides understanding each others point of view and are willing to improve those odd ends to repair any part of their relationship. But in reality everyone is stubborn and fragile egos that arguments are sure to follow and spiral out of control.
Communication is key to any relationship with both sides understanding each others point of view and are willing to improve those odd ends to repair any part of their relationship. But in reality everyone is stubborn and fragile egos that arguments are sure to follow and spiral out of control.
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Xavier Jung
An astute observation.
The thought occurs what happens when AI becomes advanced enough to be part of a sex toy and one sex toy visits another...cheating?
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Annoyance
Yup it is @Xavier Jung If your having sex other then your partner it to a fair amount of ppl will consider it to be cheating. All depends on your spouse mind set.
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