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Is No sex better than Bad sex?

asianguy77

Diamond Member
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Would you rather be abstinent rather than go through bad sex or have sex for the sake of it?

I guess, this may seem like a stupid question for guys who may consider no sex is bad sex lol
 

HappyPirate

Old Pirate...
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Ahoy, I think your question is a excellent one, personally I am similar to you, I would prefer abstinent than bad sex, but, unfortunately I cannot keep doing this, eventually I go so nuts and I need a good shag, and then you guess it, its a bad sex
Cheers and Pass the Rum
 
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Madam Tracey

Cyclone Langtrees
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Whats this abstinence business......sex with yourself can be awsome....
I love having sex with me.....you probably would like it too.
Bad sex with someone is awful ( would not go there again)....good sex with someone is this the best!
 
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iwtt69

Always though sex is like ice cream...
When it's good,it's hell good
When it's bad, it's still not that bad..
I guess I've never had bad sex before..
Or rather, I don't analyse it too much after the deed..
 
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Naughty Thoughts

I suppose you would need to define just how bad is bad. For me, I'd prefer abstinance over bad sex. If my missus isn't in the mood for whatever reason then I'm much happier with abstinence rather than have her feel she had to do it make me happy or because it was her "duty". I'd be a bit happier giving her a massage or a foot rub and a hug. But I'm more than happy to give her some space when she wants.

Back when I was single I went to a few swingers clubs and didn't play with anyone because I didn't "click" at the time. But when it came together it was good. :D
 

Roxy Rabbit

Silver Member
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Thats easy - if its bad sex i would rather be left alone with a power tool rather than deal with a frustrating situation hehehe!!! It only becomes no sex when the batteries are out, the charger is dead, the great sex is gone, and there is only a bad root left!
 

Miss Chloe

A Sensual & Kinky Affair
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I prefer no sex to bad sex. It is so frustrating to be all frisky and excited then to be confronted with a man (or woman) that doesn't know how to move!! I end up doing it myself when they leave anyway. Should've just gotten the toy box out! ;)
 

Farm Boy 2

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svengali

Foundation Member
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In my humble opinion bad sex, especially if you have paid serious money for it, is one of the worst experiences you can have and leaves abstinence wwwaaaaayyyyyy behind in the dust.

It just shreds my self-esteem and leaves me feeling like a loser even if I have done everything in my power to make it good for both parties.

That is why I have kicked the punting game - too much money, too little in the way of rewards and always the possibility of a really bad feeling afterwards.
 

Dez

...the floor is lava
Legend Member
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I'd rather go without, than have bad sex. There's no thrill otherwise and it can leave a pretty awful impression for "next time". I'd rather just be honest and admit that something wasn't rockin the kazba than pretend and have a repeat situation. The best thing about having bad sex though, is finding out your weakness and practicing to get better. Sexual growth and development is amazing :D:p:D
 

homer

Doh!
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tis a perception, your playing tricks in yer mind. If ya think yer doing baaad sex, you probably arrrrrrr. I've always had it good with miss Palmer.
 

magrov

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I prefer no sex to bad sex. It is so frustrating to be all frisky and excited then to be confronted with a man (or woman) that doesn't know how to move!! I end up doing it myself when they leave anyway. Should've just gotten the toy box out! ;)
I think you should prove this with photos :)
 

Happy2

Legend Member
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Hence I am scarred for life. *cringing moment* everytime.
Scarred for life? Your not really my mate who met the working (I use the word lady under protest here) lady from hell on Friday night are you
She calls her self a cougar but shes a Past it Panther or maybe just a Mangy Moggie
 
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