Is it inappropriate?

[Calebcook335]

Hi All,
I live in very small city up north and have noticed 2 of the girls from Langtrees out and about shopping but I don't personally know them.

Is it inappropriate to Say hello outside of the venue?

I have yet to visit the venue but would love to but feel bit nervous without knowing anyone and with being such a small town.

 

[Harlots_Bec]

In my opinion this is definitely a case of you should admire these ladies from afar. Especially as you have not met or booked them & you do not know if they have told their friends & family what they do and many ladies keep their work & personal lives completely seperate

@Calebcook335 most Langtrees ladies are members on here. Perhaps you could send them a message & I’m sure they may reply

 

[Shae Demasi]

Hi All,
I live in very small city up north and have noticed 2 of the girls from Langtrees out and about shopping but I don't personally know them.

Is it inappropriate to Say hello outside of the venue?

I have yet to visit the venue but would love to but feel bit nervous without knowing anyone and with being such a small town.

Appreciate you showing respect and asking, Thank you

 

[Night Owl Ciao]

QUOTE "Calebcook335"

"Is it inappropriate to Say hello outside of the venue?"

Whilst some escorts claim to be very open & even proud of their chosen profession the majority prefer to fly under the radar & as such & for the purposes of privacy & discretion it would be very innapropriate to approach a working lady in any environment at all other than her workplace & while she is on shift.
Moreso given the fact that you have never even met & I can only assume you recognize them from their pics on various websites.
I think to approach would come across as highly disrespectful, arrogant & probably even creepy.
I would be very interested to hear what your opening line woulda been though!

 

[mkp]

If they don't say hello to you, you don't say hello to them.

 

[Calebcook335]

Thank you all for the messages

 

[Ashton Reign]

I'm not going to speak for all escorts out there but... if you were ever to see me in public, please do not approach me at all. Do not even acknowledge that you recognize me, know me or otherwise. I am gathering from your original comment you have not even met the said escorts in person and only recognize them, from a website? That is definitely inappropriate in my eyes. What would you be hoping to achieve by talking to them? Discretion is always key my friend. Inappropriate contact with an escort in the real world is a quick way to get yourself black listed

 

[Osman]

This reminds me of a time about 35 years ago, I was shouted out to lunch for my birthday and it turned out to be a topless restaurant. I got on well with the waitress, but it was just a little innocent flirting, nothing more. About 3-4 months later I was at work and a girl walked in. A guy said, "Check out that girl, very nice". It took a minute or so to realise where I knew her from, then I just happened to say she was our waitress when I went to the Hackney Cellars.

My colleague said, "Why don't you say hello if you know her?". I said to him that I'd only been there once and that was some time back, and she'd have had thousands of customers since then". The moment I said it, she looked over, recognised me, and gave me a big smile and a wave then said, "Hi again, how are you?". For some reason I'm easy to remember. We had a chat and afterwards my mate said, "Oh yeah, you've only been there once right?".

The thing is, I felt bad for telling my mate she was a topless waitress, she may not have appreciated me doing that. I imagine if I saw a working lady in the street, I wouldn't speak unless spoken to, and I certainly wouldn't tell anyone where I knew her from.

 

[Calebcook335]

I'm not going to speak for all escorts out there but... if you were ever to see me in public, please do not approach me at all. Do not even acknowledge that you recognize me, know me or otherwise. I am gathering from your original comment you have not even met the said escorts in person and only recognize them, from a website? That is definitely inappropriate in my eyes. What would you be hoping to achieve by talking to them? Discretion is always key my friend. Inappropriate contact with an escort in the real world is a quick way to get yourself black listed

Thank you. I haven't done but thought I may ask

 

[English Rose]

Hi All,
I live in a very small city up north and have noticed 2 of the girls from Langtrees out and about shopping but I don't personally know them.

Is it inappropriate to Say hello outside of the venue?

I have yet to visit the venue but would love to but feel a bit nervous without knowing anyone and with being such a small town.

Always look at this way...
How would you feel if one of those ladies recognized you outside in the real world and came and talked to you (If and when you got the nerve to see one of them).. It could be awkward and embarrassing to you if you're with your other half.
Over the years I've had clients say to me if I see them away from my home not to acknowledge them... Well, the same goes for me too.
My life is private away from work. Plus, I'm never going to know who they are as I wear glasses when I'm not working

 

[Joe Ozzie]

No!
Just be cool

 

[Tania Admin]

If you said hi, in a casual way, like as they walk past and you not mention that you know they are working ladies, then that's fine. I say hi to random people all the time. I'm just friendly.

A pub situation is different too. Same scenario, don't mention you know they are Working Ladies, fine to walk up and say hi,, just remember if they dismiss you don't take it personally, as they are in their private time.

To approach, purposefully, at a shopping center,,not a good idea.

 

[Calebcook335]

Awesome thanks Tania

 

[Calebcook335]

I hope I didn't offend anyone but I genuinely didn't know I have friends back in Melbourne who are working ladies and they use their real names on social media etc.

Thought I'd ask to make sure I did the right thing

 

[Shae Demasi]

I hope I didn't offend anyone but I genuinely didn't know I have friends back in Melbourne who are working ladies and they use their real names on social media etc.

Thought I'd ask to make sure I did the right thing

 

[Calebcook335]

I have such respect for working ladies. I could not imagine putting my whole body, mind and everything on the line every day.

Kudos to you all

 

[Isabella Rose]

My personal opinion is - I don't like seeing clients I see in work out of work.

 

[Calebcook335]

My personal opinion is - I don't like seeing clients I see in work out of work.

Okay

 

[Tania Admin]

My personal opinion is - I don't like seeing clients I see in work out of work.

He has never been to Langtrees nor ever met the ladies as a client.

In the case of it being a client that a lady has seen at work, the utmost discretion and privacy needs to be upheld. If the lady chooses to say hi (providing said client is obviously on his own as his privacy needs to be respected too) then okay.

 

[Isabella Rose]

He has never been to Langtrees nor ever met the ladies as a client.

In the case of it being a client that a lady has seen at work, the utmost discretion and privacy needs to be upheld. If the lady chooses to say hi (providing said client is obviously on his own as his privacy needs to be respected too) then okay.

either or, it's still a no from me. The thought of someone coming up to me who has never met me, thinking he knows me from a blurred photo makes me extremely uncomfortable.

 

[Tania Admin]

either or, it's still a no from me. The thought of someone coming up to me who has never met me, thinking he knows me from a blurred photo makes me extremely uncomfortable.

Unfortunately you wouldn't know unless they mentioned it.
People of both sexes are approached by randoms on many different occasions.

But I agree that if they are approaching you because they know you are a worker then that is definetly not okay. It's also one of the risks of the profession as not everyone is discreet.

Some ladies put their full face photos up. Unfortunately many see this as an open invite as they haven't tried to conceal their identity.
I'm not saying it's okay but that is how many do read into it.

 

[English Rose]

This is nothing to do with (Calebcook335 original question) but i've had a few clients turn up uninvited to my home without an appointment and it's usually when i've taken a couple of weeks off because I need a break and I always leave a message on my Locanto advertisement, that i'm closed and when I will reopen). My family and friends know i'm a Remedial Massage Therapist by trade and that i've worked in the medical field but they don't know that I do my other kind of massage and that can be rather annoying at times when I have someone just turn up out of the blue expecting me to be ready for them. I do have a couple of clients who ring me up from time to time asking me how i'm going, which is always sweet of them and another who grows their own fruit and veges and leaves them by my front door....those guys are cool and they haven't overstepped the boundaries.