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I'm a virgin. Need advice

AdamDriversSon

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Is hiring a sex worker a good option to lose my virginity?

I know this is a situational topic, so I will try provide relevant info, feel free to ask questions below.

23 years old, I'm very hygienic, skinny white guy and feel like I can pull a girl without paying for sex, however my own insecurities have gotten in the way and now I'd like to get my virginity out of the way. Before continuing my luck out in the open sea.
 
fanb111

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AdamDriversSon said:
Is hiring a sex worker a good option to lose my virginity?

I know this is a situational topic, so I will try provide relevant info, feel free to ask questions below.

23 years old, I'm very hygienic, skinny white guy and feel like I can pull a girl without paying for sex, however my own insecurities have gotten in the way and now I'd like to get my virginity out of the way. Before continuing my luck out in the open sea.
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IMHO delete your talkinsex account and go work on yourself and lose your virginity to someone you didn’t pay for. I’m not sure about the other blokes on here, but I definitely wish I had never started punting. It’s been fun, but since I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I have not been able to close it.
 
AdamDriversSon

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fanb111 said:
IMHO delete your talkinsex account and go work on yourself and lose your virginity to someone you didn’t pay for. I’m not sure about the other blokes on here, but I definitely wish I had never started punting. It’s been fun, but since I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I have not been able to close it.
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Thanks for the honest thoughts
 
mrys

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Virginity (and losing it) is not such a huge thing for guys. Don't over think it. What's more important is the acquisition of life experience. By all means call on a sex worker if losing your virginity is that big a deal psychologically. Loss of virginity is unlikely to make your next encounter any easier though. Work on the (root :) ) causes of your insecurities rather than the symptoms would be my advice. You will find long lasting solutions with that approach.
 
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fanb111 said:
IMHO delete your talkinsex account and go work on yourself and lose your virginity to someone you didn’t pay for. I’m not sure about the other blokes on here, but I definitely wish I had never started punting. It’s been fun, but since I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I have not been able to close it.
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Agreed
 
glen

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What suits one person may not suit another. For me I would try to avoid a WL first up, you will always remember your first, better to be a moment shared, not a commercial transaction. WLs are great, but you can fall into the trap of the easy encounter.
 
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So helped a guy out years ago and I found it’s very much a person to person thing, if it’s entirely an insecurity things than paying for it might help but with that in mind you really need to ask yourself what do you need? I was shy about sex and didn’t start having it till 19 but when I finally did I realised how less awkward it can be but I don’t believe paying for it woulda helped me but if you go that route you may wanna choose the right lady and not some quickie at a Asian bait and switch so you can feel comfortable being a little awkward.

But if I had a choice I wouldn’t go the escort route, they’re good for some fun times and quick releases but nothing beats the true honest thing
 
stovo82

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23 is a fairly old virgin. Go and hire a prostitute and become a man.

Take steroids and become a muscular white guy. Skinny white guy is unattractive. It requires too much time and effort to get jacked. It is easier just buying sex workers.
 
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Lingus

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AdamDriversSon said:
Is hiring a sex worker a good option to lose my virginity?

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23 years old ... feel like I can pull a girl without paying for sex, however my own insecurities have gotten in the way ...
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Obviously, we have a contradiction at play ... it seems a fact that you can't pull a girl, so how about you go talk about those insecurities with a health professional ... start with a visit to your GP and maybe get a Health Care Plan up, which might include a few subsidized sessions with a psychologist.
 
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I just looked up Adult Ads Australia to see if there was an ad still there, unfortunately it’s gone. It was a blonde lady claiming to be a genuine doctor who enjoyed working tricks as a side hustle. May have been a perfect first punt. Somewhat questionable but then I’ve been with nurses and one paramedic.
 
Hornyguyperth

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Lingus said:
Obviously, we have a contradiction at play ... it seems a fact that you can't pull a girl, so how about you go talk about those insecurities with a health professional ... start with a visit to your GP and maybe get a Health Care Plan up, which might include a few subsidized sessions with a psychologist.
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In my experience doing this, they haven't helped at all.

Best off watching stuff on YouTube. Search Alexander Grace on YouTube (lives in WA)

He has tons of videos and if you actually put in the work and follow his advice, I reckon any guy would succeed.
 
Fifi

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Hornyguyperth said:
In my experience doing this, they haven't helped at all.

Best off watching stuff on YouTube. Search Alexander Grace on YouTube (lives in WA)

He has tons of videos and if you actually put in the work and follow his advice, I reckon any guy would succeed.
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Better just Go to see my girls, (Vanessa, Selena or Jessica) they will teach you how to be a real man babe! Trust me! 😜😜😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
 
Fifi

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AdamDriversSon said:
Is hiring a sex worker a good option to lose my virginity?

I know this is a situational topic, so I will try provide relevant info, feel free to ask questions below.

23 years old, I'm very hygienic, skinny white guy and feel like I can pull a girl without paying for sex, however my own insecurities have gotten in the way and now I'd like to get my virginity out of the way. Before continuing my luck out in the open sea.
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fanb111 said:
IMHO delete your talkinsex account and go work on yourself and lose your virginity to someone you didn’t pay for. I’m not sure about the other blokes on here, but I definitely wish I had never started punting. It’s been fun, but since I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I have not been able to close
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fanb111 said:
IMHO delete your talkinsex account and go work on yourself and lose your virginity to someone you didn’t pay for. I’m not sure about the other blokes on here, but I definitely wish I had never started punting. It’s been fun, but since I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I have not been able to close it.
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Lingus

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Fifi said:
Better just Go to see my girls, (Vanessa, Selena or Jessica) they will teach you how to be a real man babe! Trust me! 😜😜😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
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Suddenly, we're all virgins again ! ... thank goodness Mother Fiona will take us in with the Redcliffe Sisterhood, to remedy our aching souls ... :excited:
 
stovo82

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Paying for sex teaches you how to respect women as a commodity. Male clients fully respect the women they purchase for sex.
 
mrys

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stovo82 said:
Paying for sex teaches you how to respect women as a commodity. Male clients fully respect the women they purchase for sex.
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I'd like to think you're right stovo. It's like most things in life....... I think the majority of men do the right thing but there's a minority who don't for whatever reason. All one has to do is look at the cancer that is DV. If they can't respect their partner what chance does a WL have.
 
fixherleak

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Me personally a female's appearance and the shit they wear has always attracted me too much for me not to try to make something shake, even since back in the middle school days, lol, but like everyone has been saying, everybody is different due to past experiences, morals, and values. Ultimately, it would be up to you and your goals upon losing your virginity. If you are the type of person that would rather wait for a special relationship or a wife, I wouldn't worry too much about losing it, but if the only thing holding you back is insecurities, the only way to get over it is to say you don't care anymore. It's just like starting out when learning to drive; there's no other way to start driving but to get in the car and drive. And as for if you should hire a sex worker or not, I don't see anything wrong with it for a few reasons: one, the reality of it is that if the chick looks good enough that you would smash anyway without knowing she was a sex worker to begin with, you got what you wanted; you just went a faster route to get there lol and two, the typical female these days, even without paying upfront they usually want something from you anyway, whether it be love, a relationship, a husband, a movie date, or whatever you usually end up exchanging for it or paying down the line at some point....

Furthermore I will say you are missing out on one of the best experiences as a human. There's a reason why all living things on the planet do it. That alone should make you forget all about the insecurities. Just wanted to throw that out there lol
 
jboy799

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I wouldn't let it bother you. If it it's what's getting in the way of your normal relationships then don't make a big deal of it and get it over and done with the quickest way you can.
 
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AdamDriversSon said:
Is hiring a sex worker a good option to lose my virginity?

I know this is a situational topic, so I will try provide relevant info, feel free to ask questions below.

23 years old, I'm very hygienic, skinny white guy and feel like I can pull a girl without paying for sex, however my own insecurities have gotten in the way and now I'd like to get my virginity out of the way. Before continuing my luck out in the open sea.
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The problems with sleeping with an escort is much the same as drugs! You find a good one and its easy to become addicted! Mate give tinder a crack you have nothing to lose.
 
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