Hugs/Cuddling

[Damonii]

Usually I spend half of the booking with a working lady cuddling or spooning. I book longer sessions to accommodate this.

In the US and Japan they have ladies who don't do full service but do long time bookings with cuddling/spooning, talking and even sleeping.

Personally I find that to be a better part of most bookings then the sex. But if you have to pay 4-500 for the hour or so anyway its a bit much for just cuddling, so you better use the "whole service" lest you feel jipped.

So in the US and Japan it's anywhere from 20 to 60 an hour for the cuddling only service. I'm wondering if we have any w/l here who would be interested in providing it?

I think I could switch to cuddle once a week and maybe full service every 3 months or so rather then full service every month or two.


Also yes I know, I'm odd. But better to ask and see if my specific needs can be catered to then to wander unfulfilled.

 

[Ziggy Pop]

I am positively sure that there would be many W/L's who would be happy to accomodate your needs, myself included.

Have you perhaps jumped online to the Langtrees website? You can view both the girls and the services they offer on there. You would be needing one who offers GFE. Good luck on your hunt, and I hope you find what you need.

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy;- Your request is not Odd, I have heard from W/L, that they have some clients and all they wish is to be spooned in a bed. Maybe contact Langtrees reception and ask for an appointment to have a chat about your needs, obviously you also wish to talk about the cost as well.

 

[ozwarlock67]

I Love hugs and cuddles.

 

[Xtraman]

Ah
Fiona from Yokine used to do that back in the early days.
Loved it
Some visits just were lying together and discussing life in general, then enjoying a great ending.
XM

 

[Maria]

Usually I spend half of the booking with a working lady cuddling or spooning. I book longer sessions to accommodate this.

In the US and Japan they have ladies who don't do full service but do long time bookings with cuddling/spooning, talking and even sleeping.

Personally I find that to be a better part of most bookings then the sex. But if you have to pay 4-500 for the hour or so anyway its a bit much for just cuddling, so you better use the "whole service" lest you feel jipped.

So in the US and Japan it's anywhere from 20 to 60 an hour for the cuddling only service. I'm wondering if we have any w/l here who would be interested in providing it?

I think I could switch to cuddle once a week and maybe full service every 3 months or so rather then full service every month or two.


Also yes I know, I'm odd. But better to ask and see if my specific needs can be catered to then to wander unfulfilled.

I enjoy a good cuddle just ask any of my lovely gentleman @Lord Spikey

 

[homer]

So are we talking about fully clothed huggies and spooning dry humpy action.

 

[Hollie <3]

Usually I spend half of the booking with a working lady cuddling or spooning. I book longer sessions to accommodate this.

In the US and Japan they have ladies who don't do full service but do long time bookings with cuddling/spooning, talking and even sleeping.

Personally I find that to be a better part of most bookings then the sex. But if you have to pay 4-500 for the hour or so anyway its a bit much for just cuddling, so you better use the "whole service" lest you feel jipped.

So in the US and Japan it's anywhere from 20 to 60 an hour for the cuddling only service. I'm wondering if we have any w/l here who would be interested in providing it?

I think I could switch to cuddle once a week and maybe full service every 3 months or so rather then full service every month or two.


Also yes I know, I'm odd. But better to ask and see if my specific needs can be catered to then to wander unfulfilled.

That isnt odd at all. It actually makes me feel valued and beautiful. I would love more bookings like this.

 

[homer]

That isnt odd at all. It actually makes me feel valued and beautiful. I would love more bookings like this.

Your such a Care Bear.

 

[Bee]

talk about "killing" the moment Homer!!!

So are we talking about fully clothed huggies and spooning dry humpy action.

 

[Bee]

Hugging...touching...being physically close ...being kept warm...being wanted and feeling another human's heart so close is magical......

 

[homer]

talk about "killing" the moment Homer!!!

LoL...how is that killing z moment miss Bzzzz....isn't that what they call foreplay?

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy;- Dammm I miss out again, but, my Rum Bottle makes up for all the things I miss out on,
Cheers and Pass the Rum

Hugging...touching...being physically close ...being kept warm...being wanted and feeling another human's heart so close is magical......

 

[Dallas]

That isnt odd at all. It actually makes me feel valued and beautiful. I would love more bookings like this.

I think the best bookings have lots of cuddle time XD

 

[XLNC]

I'm not sure anyone's addressed the OP's question whether WLs here would be willing to offer this service closer to the significantly lower rates overseas he mentioned ($20-60/hr). I'm not so sure.

Some days, I could really use the same service -- though naturally would balk at paying FS (or even RnT) rates for a hug and cuddle!

 

[Damonii]

So are we talking about fully clothed huggies and spooning dry humpy action.

No dry humping or anything of that kind, just fully clothed intimate hugs and talking.

Hugging...touching...being physically close ...being kept warm...being wanted and feeling another human's heart so close is magical......

Yes I think you understand.


To be honest its the best part of the booking for me, I don't really enjoy sex. But I like intimacy. Unfortunately, my work has ramped up which has reduced my available discretionary funds (I am a film-maker, more work = less money, alas that's the price of doing what you love). I tried to "budget" but cheaper WL do more harm then good as you know they are disinterested, or outright mocking you (worse that I speak a little Japanese, Vietnamese and Chinese so I catch a few words here and there...).

Hell I even tried dating, but that also makes you feel worse. I chatted online with about a dozen women over 2 weeks, exactly 0 showed up at our planned first in-person dates.


I think I will take the advice here and call a few places to discuss my specific needs and rates. I just fear that it will be awkward and unacceptable behaviour (I always try to follow the established rules, behaviour and common decency in establishments).

It also means I might have to be a regular somewhere. Because I feel ashamed and weird I almost never see the same lady twice, it compounds the shyness.

I'm not sure anyone's addressed the OP's question whether WLs here would be willing to offer this service closer to the significantly lower rates overseas he mentioned ($20-60/hr). I'm not so sure.

Some days, I could really use the same service -- though naturally would balk at paying FS (or even RnT) rates for a hug and cuddle!

And that's the crux of it. Although to be honest if the WL was stupendous I am happy to pay more than those rates (50-100) considering those rates are US and in the US FS is also cheap as chips.

The problem (I would hazard) is from the ladies perspective she has to spend 1 hour of her time getting paid 50-100 instead of 1 hour getting paid 200-500.

 

[Max Cherry]

Cuddling, touching, and spooning is part Of the service I offer. Clients really enjoy it, I find - as do I. Finishing a booking with cuddling and spooning etc is a great way to end and wind down, rather than "finishing" and straight away getting up, getting dressed and leaving a lady wondering what happened to her charming young escort!

Also, I can vouch for @Ziggy Pop being EXCELLENT at cuddling! Get in touch with her

 

[honestman]

Actually with further thought - I believe given there is demand, there should be a market for it. Yes, looks and the sex itself count, but more rather than not - it's what happen afterwards that matters IMO. Still keeping that "journal" with me from first punt.

Besides with everyone gets colder/up themselves, economy slowing down, thousands of jobs lost, and increasing number of the young middle poor group (I'm one) - this would work well as this could potentially increase more leads & booking/s from the lady.

However rules & politics wise I'd leave it to the ladies themselves as it can be quite an individual thing.

Dating is now sadly nothing more than a scam on bothways. Hence, we are all MGTOWs here one way or another.

 

[XLNC]

MGTOW?

 

[Ziggy Pop]

MGTOW?

Don't get me started!

 

[Ziggy Pop]

Don't get me started!

No, seriously, don't. We know what happens to threads when I get on my high horse

 

[Sir Cruiser]

Hugging...touching...being physically close ...being kept warm...being wanted and feeling another human's heart so close is magical......

Yes it is Bee, i love a good hug and cuddle, that feeling of intimacy is just a good as sex sometimes (bepp, i said sometimes)

 

[Sir Cruiser]

No, seriously, don't. We know what happens to threads when I get on my high horse

Just leave my horse alone ZP, it costs me s fortune to feed it when it gets ridden.

 

[Ziggy Pop]

Just leave my horse alone ZP, it costs me s fortune to feed it when it gets ridden.

Well, the horse isn't going to get high off regular grass

 

[Sir Cruiser]

No dry humping or anything of that kind, just fully clothed intimate hugs and talking.



Yes I think you understand.


To be honest its the best part of the booking for me, I don't really enjoy sex. But I like intimacy. Unfortunately, my work has ramped up which has reduced my available discretionary funds (I am a film-maker, more work = less money, alas that's the price of doing what you love). I tried to "budget" but cheaper WL do more harm then good as you know they are disinterested, or outright mocking you (worse that I speak a little Japanese, Vietnamese and Chinese so I catch a few words here and there...).

Hell I even tried dating, but that also makes you feel worse. I chatted online with about a dozen women over 2 weeks, exactly 0 showed up at our planned first in-person dates.


I think I will take the advice here and call a few places to discuss my specific needs and rates. I just fear that it will be awkward and unacceptable behaviour (I always try to follow the established rules, behaviour and common decency in establishments).

It also means I might have to be a regular somewhere. Because I feel ashamed and weird I almost never see the same lady twice, it compounds the shyness.




And that's the crux of it. Although to be honest if the WL was stupendous I am happy to pay more than those rates (50-100) considering those rates are US and in the US FS is also cheap as chips.

The problem (I would hazard) is from the ladies perspective she has to spend 1 hour of her time getting paid 50-100 instead of 1 hour getting paid 200-500.

As has been said, it's not weird and there will lots of peeps who would love to do something different, definitely look around and speak to the girls

 

[Bee]

Actually with further thought - I believe given there is demand, there should be a market for it. Yes, looks and the sex itself count, but more rather than not - it's what happen afterwards that matters IMO. Still keeping that "journal" with me from first punt.

Besides with everyone gets colder/up themselves, economy slowing down, thousands of jobs lost, and increasing number of the young middle poor group (I'm one) - this would work well as this could potentially increase more leads & booking/s from the lady.

However rules & politics wise I'd leave it to the ladies themselves as it can be quite an individual thing.

Dating is now sadly nothing more than a scam on bothways. Hence, we are all MGTOWs here one way or another.

I like your post but I don't understand what that acronim means..and you know something...it scares me to think that we now need to pay for human contact and kindness....

 

[Damonii]

I like your post but I don't understand what that acronim means..and you know something...it scares me to think that we now need to pay for human contact and kindness....

It means "Man Going Their Own Way" It was a term first associated with men who decided they would determine their own goals and not be shoehorned into the "get a girl, get married, have kids, provide" nuclear family dynamic that society puts pressure on people to form. It has since been adopted by numerous groups including "players" and punters to describe themselves as perpetually single by choice.

In all honesty the negative connotations associated with the term are so abundant that its better to not define yourself as such (we can blame the "bromunity" for this) much in the same way that the term Feminist has negative connotations associated with it that have nothing to do with the actual founding ideals of the movement that spawned the term.

In regards to the human contact and kindness thing though it is indeed a sad state of affairs. I can share my personal opinions on the matter though that show we don't pay for human contact or kindness rather we pay to receive them from certain people to help illuminate our own darkness.

For example, I show human decency and kindness to everyone (even in the pits of hell nightclubs). Sometimes people even show kindness back. I however want to cuddle with people that make me feel good about myself. I am unabashedly and unashamedly male, I find certain things attractive and certain things unattractive. I want to cuddle a person I find attractive, as do most of you. That involves more than their body I might point out, you ever tried cuddling someone who is super hot but speaks no English (awful).

So what we can determine from this is that we do not pay for the contact but rather we use money to bridge the gap. I may be unattractive physically to the girl but am quite intelligent and fun to talk to while she is both attractive and intelligent. I then pay the money to "make up" the difference. This leads to us both feeling like we have gotten a fair and equitable arrangement and we are both happy.

And that's the core of successful human interaction, both parties being happy with the arrangement.

 

[Sir Cruiser]

It means "Man Going Their Own Way" It was a term first associated with men who decided they would determine their own goals and not be shoehorned into the "get a girl, get married, have kids, provide" nuclear family dynamic that society puts pressure on people to form. It has since been adopted by numerous groups including "players" and punters to describe themselves as perpetually single by choice.

In all honesty the negative connotations associated with the term are so abundant that its better to not define yourself as such (we can blame the "bromunity" for this) much in the same way that the term Feminist has negative connotations associated with it that have nothing to do with the actual founding ideals of the movement that spawned the term.

In regards to the human contact and kindness thing though it is indeed a sad state of affairs. I can share my personal opinions on the matter though that show we don't pay for human contact or kindness rather we pay to receive them from certain people to help illuminate our own darkness.

For example, I show human decency and kindness to everyone (even in the pits of hell nightclubs). Sometimes people even show kindness back. I however want to cuddle with people that make me feel good about myself. I am unabashedly and unashamedly male, I find certain things attractive and certain things unattractive. I want to cuddle a person I find attractive, as do most of you. That involves more than their body I might point out, you ever tried cuddling someone who is super hot but speaks no English (awful).

So what we can determine from this is that we do not pay for the contact but rather we use money to bridge the gap. I may be unattractive physically to the girl but am quite intelligent and fun to talk to while she is both attractive and intelligent. I then pay the money to "make up" the difference. This leads to us both feeling like we have gotten a fair and equitable arrangement and we are both happy.

And that's the core of successful human interaction, both parties being happy with the arrangement.

Well put Damonii

 

[honestman]

Let's clear up any misunderstanding here.

ziggypop, I do not blame you for wishing whatever objections you wish to impose on any of us MGTOWs. I understand knee jerk reactions are common to those who are misinformed and fails to think laterally.

If you; beneath all your heart that you wish me to surrender and apologise then by all means I do so now and I am sorry to hear if this is indeed your reaction.

If you quickly assume that I am a mysogynist, rapist and chauvinist pig, then by all means - I stay silent and grants you however length of time you wish to insult me; all through your imagination when reading each and everything I post here in this forum.

I can assure you I am as far removed from a stereotypical-off-the-template of what you typically and quickly assume as a MGTOW. MGTOW is an infinitely-varied philosophy as per to the individual circumstances but we (or I should say I) still respect the diversity of relationship normalcy - in however ways they are conducted and respected throughout history.

I respect everyone's beliefs. For example - just as their choice of following a religion or none at all; if they so choose. I am a stranger yet a friend anyone yet to meet in person. But should you wish to start an argument - let's leave that somewhere else as private messaging instead.

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There. I hope I made myself clear. Fair and transparent. Shall we get back on topic.

So what we can determine from this is that we do not pay for the contact but rather we use money to bridge the gap. I may be unattractive physically to the girl but am quite intelligent and fun to talk to while she is both attractive and intelligent. I then pay the money to "make up" the difference. This leads to us both feeling like we have gotten a fair and equitable arrangement and we are both happy.

And that's the core of successful human interaction, both parties being happy with the arrangement.

This is exactly the scenario we as clients (come to think of at times I don't even like to use the word "punter") are after in any booking experience - enthusiasm, empathy and humility.

 

[Adrianna Lush]

My client today asked permission to f#ck the mattress instead of me and I happily allowed him then we had a nice 45min cuddle. Aaawww sweet.
poor mattress felt violated though.