How many women do you have on rotation, do they all know about each other ?
Great question! Have been struggling with a key word of that, “normal”, because for a part of my life I’ve been told (directly and indirectly through societal norms) that my desires were monstrous.
wow four is impressive , do the women ever ask if you are sleeping with others , or don’t think to ask this , I guess you are not leading them on saying you are seeing other girls .
Great question! Have been struggling with a key word of that, “normal”, because for a part of my life I’ve been told (directly and indirectly through societal norms) that my desires were monstrous.
I have ranges, at the higher end I’ll masturbate twice in the morning, at the office, and two or three times in the evenings. The lower range is two or three times a day.
As it happens this week I’ve gone 7 days without masturbating at all, the first 2 days were really hard but now I’m at an acceptable level of craving. In some ways it’s like a drug detox.
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Good on you pause. Don’t listen too much to societal norms , it’s all slanted with what the media want you to believe anyway. I once had a partner who masturbated in the office, had his system going and never got caught . Virtual hug for you pause.
Women tend to hug each other more and have girly chats where as men don’t really get that from male friends . I believe everyone needs hugs , it makes you feel better .
You do like to tell jokes don’t you
1. Normal is anything that doesn't I intentionally hurt others or yourself.
I agree , to hurt others is deliberately is cruel, well said .
Longest dry spell I think was 5-6 years and then younger days 1-2 years once. Just juggling things in life & bucket list things and places to go, that sex was always in 2nd place. If a gal of interest crosses my path sure I'll be keen, but other then that there's more things to learn, see and do out in the world.
I agree with you , great minds think alikeThen you have Abnorms like me Terti,
I think everyone is different in that we all have different sex drives. When I wasn't a WL , I went without for a couple of years. however, our libidos can be different all the time. A bit confusing I know.
