How do you impress a lady or guy?

[Bluegrass9]

Time to reveal all your secrets. What is your opinion of making the first date something he/she will never forget and want to be with you more.

I use to visit a restaurant once a week and always gave a $10 tip. the times I took a lady out I would take her to that restaurant. I knew they would give me great service and would give her special customer service.

I admit even I was impress just how good the customer service was and well worth my tips.
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[johnlou]

Bluegrass9 im not really into impressing Ladies but i do like to show them a good time .

this varies depending on the ladies interests

flowers are a good start

John

 

[couple]

Just be yourself.............

 

[LS1RX8]

Just be yourself.............

Exactly. I'm no guru, but from my experience, the harder you try, the more obvious it is, and the more of a turn off it is for the girl.

Just relax and do what you do, and the girl will be able to be comfortable around you, which will allow many doors to open.

 

[someguy]

How do you impress a lady or guy?

If it ever happens I'll let you know haha

 

[swingingstories]

I agree with the previous posts advising you to be yourself. Obviously, I would suggest not burping or farting at dinner, but otherwise just be real. There's no point in putting on an act that you can't sustain, or the relationship will likely be equally unsustainable.

On thing girls really like is honest communication. I'm not suggesting you talk about your deepest childhood scars, but if the conversation leads in a direction of sharing a personal experience or two (must be real and honestly delivered) then that kind of openness can be a very big catch bag.

Love
swingingstories

 

[TemptMe]

Some much is about being comfortable in each others company...Impressive and thoughtful gestures are always welcomed and remembered... but if the chemistry and charisma between the two people isn't there then it really can't be forced..
Personally I like to be treated like a lady..doors opened, entering an establishment first, chair pulled out etc.. don't get me wrong I don't expect my dinner to be paid for each and everytime lol...to be made to feel special always works a treat..

 

[Miranda Fox]

1st Date to impress .......
Dress to impress ....don't wear jeans.
Have your hair done ladies.
Light make-up
Men have a shave, after shave on etc.
Don't be late.

Don't fidget
Relax and be yourself.

 

[Bluegrass9]

Yes on time is the most important factor for me. I remember waiting 15 minutes for a lady only because she was so very sexy. Alas she still did not turn up so I gave up on the date.
I am always ten minutes early and will wait for my time, just a short walk away to ensure I am always on time. Yes to me time does matter.

If they are running late, then they should be able to need to contact you via mobile phone.

Yes I admit I did miss a lot of dates because of the ladies lateness.
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[TheGuy]

I dont really agree that being your self works for everyone. I dont know you so i cant really comment if being your self will or will not work for you.

I think most people(ladies included) respond relly well to someone who is positive and energetic someone who apears to be happy. So i try (it comes easy to me thankfuly) to be positive and happy. My theory is that no one wants to be with someone who is misrible, people have problems of their own.

Oh and remember its not what you say its how you say it