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mrkeys110610
okay, im with this girl I can always get her wet and horny but cant make her cum or have a good orgasm! Help me plz! wat will get her more in the mood. & wat will make her cum and have a good orgasm?
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Mr Keys. Firstly you need to find out if this girl has ever had an orgasm before,(if she's never got herself off she's gonna have a hard time directing you to what makes her feel good!!)either self induced or with someone else.You may not know this but orgasms for females are not the same as for males,many,many women have never had one,it's not inbuilt in us it is a skill that needs to be learned. There are many reasons a woman will not orgasm don't beat yourself up it's not always down to your technique. I suggest you source a copy of Betty Dobsons books sex for one and orgasm for two and both of you read them. Brillient books that may help. Good luck,let us know how you go. Scarlett:angel12:
Mr Keys. Firstly you need to find out if this girl has ever had an orgasm before,(if she's never got herself off she's gonna have a hard time directing you to what makes her feel good!!)either self induced or with someone else.You may not know this but orgasms for females are not the same as for males,many,many women have never had one,it's not inbuilt in us it is a skill that needs to be learned. There are many reasons a woman will not orgasm don't beat yourself up it's not always down to your technique. I suggest you source a copy of Betty Dobsons books sex for one and orgasm for two and both of you read them. Brillient books that may help. Good luck,let us know how you go. Scarlett:angel12:
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mrkeys110610
thanks, were definitely going to do that!
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Spunkymunky
Ask her what she does to get herself off (assuming she can) and try a variation of that......i never came at all with my ex and then i met a new guy who had a helluva lot more experience and did pretty much what i do to myself. I tell you, i'm glad it was dark cos the look on my face when i came with someone else in the room for the first time ever would have been interesting.
Basically, ask her. If she gets uncomfortable ask her when the lights are off so she doesn't have to make eye contact. Or get her to write it down. I was pretty inexperienced by the time i really found sex (enjoyable sex) for the first time and had a lot of trouble articulating what i wanted for the first few months.
Basically, ask her. If she gets uncomfortable ask her when the lights are off so she doesn't have to make eye contact. Or get her to write it down. I was pretty inexperienced by the time i really found sex (enjoyable sex) for the first time and had a lot of trouble articulating what i wanted for the first few months.
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misspurdey
the best way to find out how to make a woman orgasm is to ask her! listen to her response and when you are touching her - pay close attention to her body language.
i'm on anti-depressants & find it very difficult to orgasm in the company of others but that doesn't mean i don't enjoy sex - even without a big bang at the end!!
There are many ways to give and receive pleasure - it's possible you are both concentrating too hard on reaching that 'point' that having all the focus on it makes it harder to reach!
Keep her aroused and relaxed and enjoy yourselves - take the pressure off you both and you might surprise yourselves!!
i'm on anti-depressants & find it very difficult to orgasm in the company of others but that doesn't mean i don't enjoy sex - even without a big bang at the end!!
There are many ways to give and receive pleasure - it's possible you are both concentrating too hard on reaching that 'point' that having all the focus on it makes it harder to reach!
Keep her aroused and relaxed and enjoy yourselves - take the pressure off you both and you might surprise yourselves!!
