How can I get her to pose nude
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can't help you, have the same problem
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Tell her to buy a new dress, plus bra and panties. Then tell her to show you with the new purchase on and have wine and chocolates to celebrate.
Tell her she is so beautiful.
Of course you need to take a pic to remember the occasion.
Then direct her to show a little more leg, maybe undo the top button or remove the strap to show a bare shoulder. The wine and chocolate and the new dress may put her in the mood to go further than you think.
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Tell her she is so beautiful.
Of course you need to take a pic to remember the occasion.
Then direct her to show a little more leg, maybe undo the top button or remove the strap to show a bare shoulder. The wine and chocolate and the new dress may put her in the mood to go further than you think.
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This sounds very good - will keep in mind as part of plan.
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Shouldn't there be consideration as to whether she really wants to be posing??? Why would you try to persuade someone into doing it if they weren't yet comfortable with the idea of it??? I would be careful she might get more upset and resentful of your efforts to persuade her.. Talk about it and let her be the decision maker - after all it is her body you want to take photos of..
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Q. How can I get her to pose nude ????
A. You can't.
A. You can't.
Bluegrass9
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TemptMe of course it is her decision but there is no harm helping her to say yes.
Just putting her into the mood. Same when you invite a lady over and you play soft music and light the candles.
Of course if the lady says, "No!" Then she means no. No harm in trying in the hope she may say "yes."
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Just putting her into the mood. Same when you invite a lady over and you play soft music and light the candles.
Of course if the lady says, "No!" Then she means no. No harm in trying in the hope she may say "yes."
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Just for the record. I respect all ladies and wish no harm to any of them. They are all beautiful in their own unique way and should be all treasured. I am sorry TemptMe if my last post offend you in any way. it was not my intention.
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I certainly wasn't offended at all Bluegrass....really just questioning why one would try to "convince or persuade" someone into an activity they don't seem interested in albeit even gentle persuasion. I for one would take a negative view and position if my hubby tried to sweeten me up so to speak to get me to participate in something he wanted but I wasn't yet keen on. It is just my opinion of course, but to plant the seed and allow her to contemplate it and participate when she is ready or not as the case may be will produce far more satisfying effect than doing it out of obligation and then resenting it. Good luck with what ever avenue you take...
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Just one thought.
In the good old days you would find a discreet lab to get those photos processed than keep them tucked away in an album (remember those??) for your eyes only. Post them on a site like this or any other and they could be all over the world before you could say "oops, sorry dear"
In the good old days you would find a discreet lab to get those photos processed than keep them tucked away in an album (remember those??) for your eyes only. Post them on a site like this or any other and they could be all over the world before you could say "oops, sorry dear"
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I am not forcing her against her will or anything like that - i belive she wants to but is bit coy of idea since she thinks her body is not really like the superermodels type. In any case it will not end up in a internet site for sure. This is what I should have elaborated first - then lot of misunderstanings would not have happened.
anyway - she likes it , i have taken softer ones, which she did not oppose to, and keep them with me, - but my intention is to get some "serious" ones.
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It's called patience..
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Thank you TemptMe for your reply. I just needed to be sure because I do respect and like you. I am learning more about you, in your posts.
Yes patience is the answer. I am sure in time your wife will accept more the idea. Of course always to be open to discuss everything helps to receive the most out of your relationship.
It is strange how most believe their body is not as good as one wants it to be. Even some of the most beautiful are not happy the way they look. Plastic surgeons are making a fortune!
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Yes patience is the answer. I am sure in time your wife will accept more the idea. Of course always to be open to discuss everything helps to receive the most out of your relationship.
It is strange how most believe their body is not as good as one wants it to be. Even some of the most beautiful are not happy the way they look. Plastic surgeons are making a fortune!
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Try buying her a new outfit and sexy lingerie, then take her out somewhere nice. If all goes well, it should end up in something intimate, and that's when you can ask.
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i think you need to make her know that YOU find her naked body a beautiful thing, everytime you see her naked tell her how great she looks! Get her to trust you!
I know it took me 5 years to actually feel comfortable enough to take raunchy photos for my husband! I hate photos as it is, let alone naked ones!
I started off with clothed/semi clothed ones and waited to see his reaction to them, now i let him take whatever he wants
The only thing left that he wants is pics of me with another woman... only a matter of time
I know it took me 5 years to actually feel comfortable enough to take raunchy photos for my husband! I hate photos as it is, let alone naked ones!
I started off with clothed/semi clothed ones and waited to see his reaction to them, now i let him take whatever he wants
The only thing left that he wants is pics of me with another woman... only a matter of time
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Yes one must feel comfortable with their body to be willing to show it. I spent a year with my wife and two young boys in a nudist club just to achieve that. Yes my friend this is the bare facts.
My wife believes after having to see the doctor and spreading her legs so the doctor could check how the baby was going inside her made her lose all her worries about nudity.
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My wife believes after having to see the doctor and spreading her legs so the doctor could check how the baby was going inside her made her lose all her worries about nudity.
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well she will do it cos she wants to she should not ... her choice and you need to respect that .. she may change her mind later if she knows you can respect her feelings ....
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leica
It seems like you have to gradually help her to build confidence in herself. That's all it is, all females are beautiful in some way and photos can bring it out - but without the confidence they won't pose, or won't relax during the photo's anyway so they will look crap.
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