HJ/BJ not doing it for me. To tell or not?

[glitch69]

I have had a few experiences at whatever technique the WL was using. It was just not doing it for me. So there I am standing or lying at attention but just not getting off. I had a couple ask me to hurry up like I'm holding out. I have tried to show them how but their idea is to go at it harder and faster.
I don't think I'm a 'hard' man to please as I have had great experiences as well.
Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this and how have you dealt with it and I don't suppose you get a discount if you didn't get off...

 

[Rochelle]

Just curious, what does get you off? What simulates you? What turns you on?
When it comes to BJ and HJ is there are certain technique you do prefer?
LOL, sorry when I sound like Doc Oz's questions on sex.

 

[glitch69]

Not at all ……Dr Rochelle, maybe I need to seek professional help..do you have someone in mind you can recommend

I do get off eventually time permitting. What I like is a bit of seduction and sensuality and the lady at least pretending to be into it. For me it all starts with the massage. A nice firm massage with the occasional ‘did she or didn’t she’ intimate touches. By the time I turn over….’Oops there it is’!!! and I’m practically begging for release. [Sharp intake of breath with light bulb moment] Is that called foreplay?

Haha…getting long winded in my old age…
As for preferred technique, this old prude would like to keep that out of the public forum. But I will say this much, I would like NOT to be treated like an X-box controller, One hand on stick and the other pushing buttons. Phew!!!! Feeling better already after my rant. Thank you….now, when is my next appointment J

I digress…I started this thread to find out from the guys whether they usually let the ladies freestyle or do they do a Steven Spielberg and direct the action….Or….. maybe the ladies would like to have a say in what they prefer….to direct or act ….

All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players

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Just curious, what does get you off? What simulates you? What turns you on?
When it comes to BJ and HJ is there are certain technique you do prefer?
LOL, sorry when I sound like Doc Oz's questions on sex.

 

[Dave Magic]

Definitely tell. I know what I like when I masturbate, but its not going to be the same when I am touching someone else - I always worry if my male clients take a long time- cos I think that I'm doing it wrong and that they won't have enjoyed themselves

 

[Pepper]

I agree with Dave. Tell! We won't be offended If the situation was reversed, most guys would appreciate feedback. Same goes for us! Every one is different..There is no 'one size fits all' technique

 

[Farm Boy 2]

Just curious, what does get you off? What simulates you? What turns you on?
When it comes to BJ and HJ is there are certain technique you do prefer?
LOL, sorry when I sound like Doc Oz's questions on sex.

This may help


How to Handle a Hammer

Where to hold the hammer. Hold the hammer like you’re shaking hands with somebody. When you need more control over the hammer, like when you’re starting a nail, grip the hammer closer to the hammer head. When you need power, grip the hammer near the handle’s end.


See its easy start down low with a sort of choke hold then get to work holding on to the end

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[scarlett lee]

I've got to agree with the other ladies here. We have many talents but being psychic usually isn't one of them. If there is something you enjoy/don't enjoy don't be shy, let us know. That way everyone wins.

 

[XLNC]

As I've become older and it gets a bit harder to get hard and get off, I am not shy in directing the action if the ML/WL's efforts are not working. If time we're not a factor, I would be a lot more patient. For example, I've noticed it's no longer easy nowadays to go from flaccid to orgasm while lying on my back, so I usually sit (if on a massage table), stand or kneel to get a shot off.

Don't be reticent to do whatever it takes, glitch -- provided it doesn't cross the lady's boundaries, of course.

 

[Rochelle]

Well Mr. glitch69 my patients are usually telling me what they like. And what can I say it is the key to an imitate, sexy and usually successful appointment. But the first step is that you should chose the 'doctor' you feel comfortable and relaxed with so regardless what issue you might have you feel confident enough to talk about it.

Dr. Rochelle

 

[Dallas]

I have had a few experiences at whatever technique the WL was using. It was just not doing it for me. So there I am standing or lying at attention but just not getting off. I had a couple ask me to hurry up like I'm holding out. I have tried to show them how but their idea is to go at it harder and faster.
I don't think I'm a 'hard' man to please as I have had great experiences as well.
Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this and how have you dealt with it and I don't suppose you get a discount if you didn't get off...

I can relate to what you're saying. For me I have to be totally relaxed to get off from a BJ far more so than regular sex, and it's never happened yet with a w/l - just because it's way to much pressure to plan days in advance to see a w/l for an hour or two, travel hundreds, or even thousands of km's, deal with heaps of stress getting there, know that if it all doesn't work out that there won't be another opportunity for weeks, then suddenly expect to feel like cumming within that short window of opportunity. I usually save the lady the effort and go for regular sex.

 

[XLNC]

That's coz you live in Albury. Even Antarctica would be more convenient. At least there you could get a quickie with a frisky penguin.

 

[Dallas]

That's coz you live in Albury. Even Antarctica would be more convenient. At least there you could get a quickie with a frisky penguin.

You are right about that!.... and penguins look cute from what I can tell

 

[Happy2]

I can relate to what you're saying. For me I have to be totally relaxed to get off from a BJ far more so than regular sex, and it's never happened yet with a w/l - just because it's way to much pressure to plan days in advance to see a w/l for an hour or two, travel hundreds, or even thousands of km's, deal with heaps of stress getting there, know that if it all doesn't work out that there won't be another opportunity for weeks, then suddenly expect to feel like cumming within that short window of opportunity. I usually save the lady the effort and go for regular sex.

And surely LTs Canberra will be just as high a quality as Perth is Dallas Why not save your self Hundreds if not Thousands of Dollars ? Visit our beloved Capital (No o you notice your XLNC ?)

 

[XLNC]

In fact, the ladies say LT VIP is much snazzier than the one in Perth, while many of the ladies are imported from there.

 

[Happy2]

Yes Dallas visit with a lady you are comfortable with When she is on tour
I'm sure they would welcome a familiar head Sorry. Face

 

[Dallas]

Good advice you two, thanks. I wonder if Canberra LTs has celery sticks to eat in the lounge like perth? It's kind of a selling point for me lol

 

[XLNC]

I pre-load on celery and cucumber.

 

[Dallas]

That's a good idea! although there's something magical about walking into a brothel and while waiting for your lady to arrive, munching on a celery stick that was waiting for you! Once your used to that special touch, you start to expect it everywhere!

 

[Rochelle]

Good advice you two, thanks. I wonder if Canberra LTs has celery sticks to eat in the lounge like perth? It's kind of a selling point for me lol

Same here, Dallas, the celery sticks are the only reason why I am working there..........

 

[Dallas]

Same here, Dallas, the celery sticks are the only reason why I am working there..........

I knew that!... actually, if you take the celery sticks with you into the booking, is that considered a fetish? ..
...(w/l says to client... are you eating something other than me? ... client says... uh oh.. it's just my LT's celery... w/l says... please share!!...

 

[Sherry]

I think you need to tell the lady Glitch if it's not doing it for you. If you are polite about it, which I'm sure you would be, she will not take offence. Girls will only get annoyed when a guy is rude about their technique or starts shoving their head down on it!! Dr Rochelle is right on about finding a lady that you feel totally comfortable with.
PS the celery is pretty awesome haha

 

[Rochelle]

celery is awesome..........

 

[Miss Chloe]

Please tell me! If it's not working then it is only wasting both our time. I would rather my client leave happy than all pent up and unsatisfied.