Hide your Infidelity or Else

[johnmatilda]

Scorned wife reveals she ate dead husband’s ashes.

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/marriage/scorned-wife-reveals-she-ate-dead-husbands-ashes/news-story/98f03b625593982592cb0fac34836721

 

[johnmatilda]

The question is, is the joke on her by eating the ashes which inevitably contained his manhood which had gone exploring which she detested?!

 

[DickieWu]

I was just wondering, did she hookup with her new man before or after she published her book?

 

[Celeste]

Negotiated Fidelity.
Polyamory.

These are real relationships that take the cheating out of a relationship.

I offered Negotiated Fidelity. You can see your affair partner because I can tell you love me and she's a fling for your ego but please stop lying and having her places with people I know you're asking to lie to me because they're uncomfortable or dropping hints. I'm happy to remain monogamous, it suits me. Don't lie, hurt or humiliate me and if you have feelings for her or both I want out.

I'm not sure I'm suited to Negotiated Fidelity as it might have been the start of me letting go or it might have been the saving and strengthening of a relationship.

Instead the lying and cheating continued and got worse covered by I love you which can become Gaslighting.

So why do men cheat when offered a solution like Negotiated Fidelity? Or why don't they find partners who want Polyamory?

 

[John Smithl]

Negotiated Fidelity.
Polyamory.

These are real relationships that take the cheating out of a relationship.

I offered Negotiated Fidelity. You can see your affair partner because I can tell you love me and she's a fling for your ego but please stop lying and having her places with people I know you're asking to lie to me because they're uncomfortable or dropping hints. I'm happy to remain monogamous, it suits me. Don't lie, hurt or humiliate me and if you have feelings for her or both I want out.

I'm not sure I'm suited to Negotiated Fidelity as it might have been the start of me letting go or it might have been the saving and strengthening of a relationship.

Instead the lying and cheating continued and got worse covered by I love you which can become Gaslighting.

So why do men cheat when offered a solution like Negotiated Fidelity? Or why don't they find partners who want Polyamory?

I guess there are many different varieties of poly. And I would imagine that as people evolve, relationships may bring in factors that haven't been considered.

 

[johnmatilda]

Negotiated Fidelity.
Polyamory.

These are real relationships that take the cheating out of a relationship.

I offered Negotiated Fidelity. You can see your affair partner because I can tell you love me and she's a fling for your ego but please stop lying and having her places with people I know you're asking to lie to me because they're uncomfortable or dropping hints. I'm happy to remain monogamous, it suits me. Don't lie, hurt or humiliate me and if you have feelings for her or both I want out.

I'm not sure I'm suited to Negotiated Fidelity as it might have been the start of me letting go or it might have been the saving and strengthening of a relationship.

Instead the lying and cheating continued and got worse covered by I love you which can become Gaslighting.

So why do men cheat when offered a solution like Negotiated Fidelity? Or why don't they find partners who want Polyamory?

Monogamy is a social construct.