Help.... Do I suffer Premature Ejaculation?

[kucingemon]

Hi..... I am new to this so still little bit embarrased in using this forum.... but here it is......

I had a long time girlfriend but it went pearshaped recently....All we ever had was just straight sex.. (not that I want anythin else).. never BJ, 69 or any of the other kinky stuff.

After reading few post from this forum I braved myself to got to a bordello. (I was very nervous.... yes it is my first time) .....After pickin this particular lady... had a shower ... the WL started to give me a you are silly......... but It wasnt like 2 minutes I straight away cum........ the WL was very nice... and tried her best to cheer me up ( as i felt less than average after that)..... She gave me massage and cuddle and talk for a bit....... then wif like 20 mins to go she asked whether im ready to go again..... I thought... yeah what the hell........she start suckin... but within 2 mins i cum again....So I spent $200 for 2X 2 mins you are silly............Left the establishment feeling very very sorry of myself.

I am of an asian background. mid 20s... normal 178 cms tall and I do carry few pounds on me... but not classifeid obese...I weigh 90 kgs....

I never had this problem with normal vaginal penetration....Even when I watch porn and mastyubate i can last for a good 15 mins or more.
Is it just oral??????

Or do i suffer from premature ejaculation?

Please give me advice.......
Has any working lady encountered this proble before????

Thanks

 

[johnlou]

hi kucingemon and welcome to the forum
i would say what you experienced in a big dash of nerves .

i would wait a week or so and then make a booking with the same lady. this way you will not feel so out of place and nervous.


good luck
John

 

[GWarr1or]

i reckon its normal when you are young , now nearing 40 in a few month's i feel i can go allnight , which i need to get fitter to do

but its all good

 

[Broosta]

'I had a long time girlfriend but it went pearshaped recently....just straight sex.. (not that I want anything else never BJ, 69 or any of the other kinky stuff.
....Left the establishment feeling very very sorry of myself.

Do I suffer from premature ejaculation?'

Ah kucingemon, after many, many many moons of my own life I can say the root of your problem is nothing more intense than simply being young.

Your sex drive is like a brand spanking new rocket soaring thru the pleasures of human experience. To wit, you do not suffer/have or are about to be afflicted by PE.

Young cock (if you'll pardon the expression) is meant to be a cum gun.

Enjoy! that's what the moon and the stars are for.

As a young male - with lots of experience yet to shape your true and full sexuality - you are bound to jump the gun of your own and other's expectations. Be realistic with your own desires and realise eventually that you will understand quality will win out over quantity.

All it takes is a generous taste of sexual experiences and finding the right partner. Be she a working woman or a social contact. ccasion14

 

[asianguy1983]

hi kucingemon,.........

I think i have to agree with broostas post.....

No need to panic yet.......

Would seeing a General Practitioner an option or you would be too embarrasing.....

 

[femalepleasure]

Hi kucingemon,

Try to get your lady friend to not apply so much pressure to the most sensitive areas, usually the corona of your penis. This can still be very pleasurable and prolong your experience.

Regards.

 

[chris]

i say thank your lucky stars not many guys get to cum twice in a session , just dont panic your young enjoy the pleasures to cum

 

[asianguy1983]

sorry femalepleasure... Whats a penis corona???? sounds like a beer....

 

[SelfCtrl]

So which bordello did you go to?

 

[action83]

what establishment did u go to?

 

[jessysmithpoo]

'I had a long time girlfriend but it went pearshaped recently....just straight sex.. (not that I want anything else never BJ, 69 or any of the other kinky stuff.
....Left the establishment feeling very very sorry of myself.

Do I suffer from prolong ejaculation?'

Ah kucingemon, after many, many many moons of my own life I can say the root of your problem is nothing more intense than simply being young.

Your sex drive is like a brand spanking new rocket soaring thru the pleasures of human experience. To wit, you do not suffer/have or are about to be afflicted by PE.

Young cock (if you'll pardon the expression) is meant to be a cum gun.

Enjoy! that's what the moon and the stars are for.

As a young male - with lots of experience yet to shape your true and full sexuality - you are bound to jump the gun of your own and other's expectations. Be realistic with your own desires and realise eventually that you will understand quality will win out over quantity.

All it takes is a generous taste of sexual mastery and finding the right partner. Be she a working woman or a social contact. ccasion14

jep. just try the stuff. as a youngster you just have to try and do! while you grow older you also get wiser

 

[gstah007]

get a docs opinion mate.

 

[Batman23]

Good tips in here. Has cleared up a few things

 

[Janet]

Yes, it is super common and normal to have a faster ejaculation when meeting some one new, whether it is inside a bordello, a working girl, OR outside anywhere. Of course, a first visit in a bordello increases the general arousal. There is no reason to run to some Physician. I would see this as an "over the top" step. As others wrote, practice a few more time or possibly visit the same lady again and go from there. The expectations and any upbuilding worries about it, your fixation on it will get you into a circle. "Forget" about it when you meet some one the next time and accept as a normal part of nature. Only if the problem persisted for monts or years to come and would cause some sexual problems within a relation ship, whereby your partner remained chronically unsatisfied it would be an issue to be addressed.

 

[Rachael]

From working in the sex industry i have alot of experience in this field. also i dated a guy once who had real significant issues in this department. I find that the more aroused a guy the quicker they come. most people underestimate the importance and value of foreplay. Most guys come within five min the first round. But second time round they last much longer. Sort of getting a load off lol. Talk to a doctor if you have any concerns.

Racheal

 

[lillian.tan]

Kucingemon,

I believe that this happens more often than you can imagine actually...

I do not think that you suffer premature ejaculation..

I think that you were just having an " electric shock" then.... similar kind of feeling when all you ever had before was vanilla ice cream then all over sudden you get a rainbow paddlepop...

Mind you though... the way I see it, oral is much more sensual in so many levels..

I would say not to worry and would encourage you to have more variety... ^o^


Kisses

 

[Onwithit]

Well, I say it's to do with the excitement of meeting a new, great looking lady.
Although, after you've seen her a few times, it takes a little longer to cum..

If you've been with her for frippen years, it's takes you forever to cum & that's where you have to imagine your doing it with someone else, just to get relief...

& some of what "Broosta" wrote rings true.

I personally, try thinking of Oil leaks (under cars).
It usually stops me from cuming too early & might work for other guys?

 

[panders]

Would any one hazard an opinion on what is an average ok legnth of time and what would constitute a concern (if repeated over time) as premature ejaculation, opinion from WL and punters alike would be interesting?