Help....advice on cumming faster

[Arkwardx]

Hi I'm extremely new to this forum and this is my first thread so here goes.
Hi, I'm Awkwardx and I'm 19 years old situated near Perth.
Recently I lost my virginity to the love of my life, it was perfect, candles, soft music etc. One problem, we were at it for at least 2 hours and I didn't cum. Now believe me when I say this that the girl I lost it to is insanely attractive and I love her with all my heart, but the time we have spent together having sex has been a little drawn out. We have done it a few times since then with no relief from me,only from her. Is there anything I can do to change that, maybe through physical or mental ways because I want to be able to please her but still collapse into her arms at the end. So if anyone can help me that would be greatly appreciated.

 

[bepp]

at my age i wish i could take as long as u do njoy the act bit more

 

[Bluegrass9]

Interesting thread.
I retired two years ago and now find it takes me up to one hour before I can come and thats if by masturbation or sex with someone.

Before that the last year of work I was under a lot of stress I found I would cum after five minutes and that use to upset me.


Heaps of foreplay especially around the head of the penis helps things to come to a head quicker. Also changing the rhythm of the strokes either by maturbation or intercourse can help.

I agree with the above post. Enjoy because you will probably have a period in your life and will be cuming too quickly.
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[Minxxy]

Hey Arkwardx

Some thoughts of mine:
- Not advocating unsafe sex, but condoms tend to reduce sensitivity. Thus sex with no condom increases sensitivity for the man and will stimulate you more, making you more inclined to come
- Are you jumping straight into the sex? Foreplay such as a good old blowjob can help you get well aroused before you actually start having sex, so it shouldnt take you as long to come
- Are you masturbating before sex? I dont mean like jerking off and then having sex, but if you have already come earlier in the day, I find it takes longer for you to come again. So maybe make masturbating off limits for a while
- On the other side of the coin, do you know what pleasures you? i.e. when you masturbate, are there any fantasies that help get you off? Do you know how to touch yourself to make yourself come? By sharing these fantasies and these techniques with your partner, it will help her know what pleasures you and help you come.

I hope this helps. Keep us posted on how you go.

 

[Arkwardx]

Heyy bluegrass seen lots of your comments around, we do try foreplay for quite a while and really enjoy it but nothing works, I was thinking lubricant(flavoured?) to maybe help speed up the process although we are young so we make our own

heyy minxxy, was Reading your message and I think it might help lots if I don't masturbate as that can be a problem. Also, a fantasy could work so may give these a try. Me and my girlfriend have kind of an open relationship so if you want I would like to get to know you minxxy

 

[Bluegrass9]

Thank you Arkwardx it is true I have posted one or two comments on here.

Have you tried watching a sexy porno at the same time? It is amazing to watch a movie where a lady gives a guy a blow job and your partner does the same and at the same speed as the other lady.

I am nearly cumming just thinking about it. Okay not really but I should have a cold shower.
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[Arkwardx]

Sounds good will try it, cheers mate