I just reviewed some of your posts, 'Shy guy'. Good luck with the organised dating scene; in a way, it would be interesting to see your reviews of such, as I really don't have the enthusiasm to try that method of meeting the ladies.
And, I prefer not to actively seek the "perfect partner" ... I think a lot of it comes down to sheer luck, and in that way is not necessarily all that different to seeking the "perfect masseuse".
Best wishes to 'Shy guy' ... I think many of the average punters here would opt for a happy personal relationship, if the opportunity presents.