Going Down

[Cruisin']

Hi there

Just needing a little advice.

Once upon a time I was dating a russian lady, and the first time we 'got' together I started to go down on her. Well it wasn't pleasant to say the least - she was also one of the first I was with. Well since that little episode I have had problems going down on other women (if there is a little something off if you know what I mean).

Given the amount of women I have been with, I can only think of a handful I have had no problem going down on.

So as to the advice, I would appreciate any advice from people on how they overcome this problem, or other means to adjust.

 

[love2]

Hi Cruisin....You haven't mentioned if you actually enjoy going down on women or not...perhaps the first experience has put you off enjoying it all together...if you do enjoy it and the problem is hygiene maybe you can suggest a nice hot steamy shower for you both first that way you may enjoy it more knowing your both clean....showers can be a great place to start some fun

 

[growler]

Ah, cruising, mate ..... hopefully you haven't been scarred for life by your first experience. Going down on a woman can be a great experience.

You haven't said why your first time was unpleasant. Apart from the hygiene factor (which love2 addressed) I offer a few other comments;

1) No point in doing it if she doesn't want to do it. Do something else you're both happy with.
2) Foreplay - talking ,stroking, kissing, etc - before going down can help her relax (and it's fun too).
3) Best to start gentle, and respond to her cues - both in terms of body language and (if she gives them) verbal pointers. Don't bite! (unless she asks you to).
4) Vary your technique a bit: if you stop doing something she likes, she'll let you know, and you can always backtrack.
5) Don't worry about the little things. Getting pubic hairs in your teeth or in the back of your throat is just a fact of life that won't kill you - you're the one who went down there, after all.
6) Relax, whatever happens. Being crushed between her thighs is an experience - just remember to hold your breath.
7) If you get a sore neck, then it's up to you if you continue or change position.
8) If she farts (yes, it's happened to me) it's usually better to let the air clear before trying to continue.

 

[sthnswguy]

i love it, i love it, i love it

 

[sk8erboi]

Hey dude i think you may need to be a little more explicit with the problem ie taste odour and such. what makes the unpleasant and pleasant different?

 

[Cruisin']

hey y'all.

Firstly thanks for the responses.

I have to say that I do enjoy it, but I suppose it all depends on the women I was with. The first couple I tried is while i was overseas, and they were all Russians (i was living in the states though) and i think that is what put me off. It was the smell and the taste which almost curled the old stomach.

Still its not always that bad, as every once in awhile I find someone worth going down on. But still doesn't help sometimes as my sense of smell and taste is a bit more sensitive than i care to think about.

but i suppose in hindsight it has allowed me to become more talented in other aspects.

 

[kencan]

MMMMM my favourite thing about sex.I love the taste the smell the feel of it in my mouth.
Nothing better I don't think.Prefer it sometimes to actual sex.If the lady is in to it as much as you are then there is a real climax and no need for sex after I find.
I think some ladies hygene leaves something to be looked at,but by and large most ladies are very clean and smell great and taste great.
Bring it on,or off.