First time and tearing. Help!

[Twilight]

My guy and i want to have sex but both are a bit concerned as i have never had sex before and i am really small and tight. I think we will have a lot of trouble just trying to get it in. He had a past experience where he was interment with another girl who was small but not a virgin and his foreskin tore. He said it was really painful and he bleed a lot. I have even tried using my fingers to try and stretch it out but find it real uncomfortable and too scared. Also if you know, it is common for a guy to tear while having sex and the best way to prevent this from happening.
Any advice or suggestions would be really helpful. Thanks

 

[johnlou]

hi Twilight , welcome to the forum


your BF needs to consult a doctor on this problem


John

 

[Tannerone]

Hi Twilight,

Your guy should wear a lubricated condom. This will both prevent him tearing and hopefully help to ease his way in. Take everything slowly and easily at first. If it is painful, stop and try adding more lubricant.

Tannerone :love76:

 

[cocatmotor]

It's terrible, Ur BF had better have a circumcision