Falling for a punter??

Miss Monique

Adelaide's original Plus Size Delight
Legend Member
My last 2 relationships have been with former clients and one of those relationships lasted 8 years.
This is a hot topic as many ladies feel they have the ability to control who they fall in love with and a string of other reasons.
I can only speak for myself and don't view it any different to other workplace relationships.
A working lady we must always conduct ourselves in a professional manner and lots of WL frown down upon the men they see
As long as the falling for each other is a 2 way thing.
Have a serch on the topic sweetheart as there has been discussions before here
 

ozwarlock67

Legend Member
I've been personally involved with two WL's(ironically they were sisters)
One was an alcoholic and on a number of occasions, was violent towards me.

The other hung up her condoms in 2014 when she found Jesus. We had shared a house since 2009 and I was sick of the Valium-induced mood swings.

It HAS to be a two-way street as MM said above.
 

Phoebe

Some Village lost an Idiot!
Talking Turkey Moderator
You have to got think where you meet.... You were there for a fun time , she was there for work. You frequent brothels so you are not loyal to anyone or anything except your c*ck, and she will basically go with anyone that treats her right and she feels okay with during either a lounge intro or private room one, and you both can't expect either party to remain loyal now can you? IMHO its a hard road ahead but could be worth it in the end, if you work at something it can happen I suppose. The big one is if either party has even a 0.000000000001% of jealousy in there personality it's doomed.
 

Miss Monique

Adelaide's original Plus Size Delight
Legend Member
1 bit of advice I was given when I started in the industry was: "You can't find love in a brothel". To this day I believe it 100%
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We are all different and while not in a brothel but as a private lady found love twice. No regret and 1st relationship broke down to cultural difference and second my choice. I know of a couple of successful marriages that started in this work place.
I have a couple of what I class as good friends who are also clients. Lines and boundaries always respected
 

Phoebe

Some Village lost an Idiot!
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I think it's impossible to keep a 100% rein on your feelings at all times, but I think that the way you deal with them is where most people differ. I genuinely connect with a lot of my clients, but I find peace keeping them as clients :)

As one escort friend of mine has said countless times... loads of Men can't tell the difference between lust and love, whereby a female can. :)
 

Rochelle

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I have always kept work life and private life strictly apart. Guess my mind set was so focused on it that I didn't feel temptation to go further than a work relation ship even with my closest clients.
I was convinced once the honeymoon period is over and real life kicks in, my profession would turn into an issue and even if I would have given it up, there would be always a trust issue.
 

Master Yoda

“Your path you must decide.”
Legend Member
I have always kept work life and private life strictly apart. Guess my mind set was so focused on it that I didn't feel temptation to go further than a work relation ship even with my closest clients.
I was convinced once the honeymoon period is over and real life kicks in, my profession would turn into an issue and even if I would have given it up, there would be always a trust issue.

It does... in one of my past relationships, my ex was obsessed that I was cheating (I was not) and this is while she is working in a brothel...
 

Slugger1

Legend Member
I think it's important to note that while a lot of men may feel that their lady of choice has fallen for them, it is more often than not an incredibly good wholistic service the lady is providing, rather than the genuine article that every third client believes it to be :D
So much this.
While I am sure it happens that genuine feelings develop on some occasions the majority is the illusion that is being sold. It is also good business to have customers leave feeling special so they come back.
 

Phoebe

Some Village lost an Idiot!
Talking Turkey Moderator
I have always kept work life and private life strictly apart. Guess my mind set was so focused on it that I didn't feel temptation to go further than a work relation ship even with my closest clients.
I was convinced once the honeymoon period is over and real life kicks in, my profession would turn into an issue and even if I would have given it up, there would be always a trust issue.

Sad but true, The issue is the old saying "Once a hooker always a hooker" or words to that effect. Most men would find it hard to trust an escort that retired as he would think when she's out is she seeing an ex client etc etc.. its pretty sad indictment on society on women really whom wish to leave this game behind and try for a relationship but once mention what they did before hand that becomes the sole focus of the relationship, not that he may stray himself with an escort that is all okay... Sad really where by you could meet some Rochelle and it could end up with the perfect marriage.

Why don't women in the game when they retire hook up with other women whom have left the game, makes it a whole lot easier I would say.
 
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