Extra services. What would you like to see as an included extra?

[Ginger Spice]

In a standard service, what services has a lady provided that you quite enjoyed?

In my standard service I offer Massage, body slide, spanish, oral on him and straight sex.

I find though that when in a threesome, that I provide alot more extra's in my services, such as ball licking and anal fingering on him etc without charging.

What is your favourite extra's for ladies to give? What special extra has a lady given you that blew your mind?

hehe

xx

 

[Ziggy Pop]

I'm not a punter, so I'm not sure if my opinion is valid, but here it is.

I think that giving extras that make your job that little bit easier, without underselling yourself can be a good thing. For me, it would come across as the woman going above and beyond to please me, and that would more than likely be incentive enough for me to return.

Ball licking is a good one. So many girls forget about the testicles, and for a lot of men it can be a huge turn on

 

[Max Cherry]

I'm not a punter, so I'm not sure if my opinion is valid, but here it is.

I think that giving extras that make your job that little bit easier, without underselling yourself can be a good thing. For me, it would come across as the woman going above and beyond to please me, and that would more than likely be incentive enough for me to return.

Ball licking is a good one. So many girls forget about the testicles, and for a lot of men it can be a huge turn on

Amen to that!

Do you ever stop being great Miss Ziggy?

 

[Ginger Spice]

Amen to that!

Do you ever stop being great Miss Ziggy?

Bias opinion

 

[Ginger Spice]

I'm not a punter, so I'm not sure if my opinion is valid, but here it is.

I think that giving extras that make your job that little bit easier, without underselling yourself can be a good thing. For me, it would come across as the woman going above and beyond to please me, and that would more than likely be incentive enough for me to return.

Ball licking is a good one. So many girls forget about the testicles, and for a lot of men it can be a huge turn on

I do offer ball licking as part of a threesome service.

 

[XLNC]

I do offer ball licking as part of a threesome service.

But not as part of your standard service by implication. Do you charge extra for that when a threesome is not involved or just don't do it? I'm just a bit confused why a threesome is necessary for it to be provided as long as you are comfortable with performing this innocuous act.

This is the first time I've heard of this being considered an 'extra' -- most good WLs do it as part of fellatio, especially if you're shaved/trimmed and clean obviously. I can understand charging a premium for rimming (and all things anal), but ball licking?? What about nipple licking (both ways) -- is that an extra too? I'm sorry if I sound a bit incredulous but this is the sort of gouging for what should be basic services that is a major turn-off when you're already being charged $400/hr.

 

[Dallas]

In a standard service, what services has a lady provided that you quite enjoyed?

In my standard service I offer Massage, body slide, spanish, oral on him and straight sex.

I find though that when in a threesome, that I provide alot more extra's in my services, such as ball licking and anal fingering on him etc without charging.

What is your favourite extra's for ladies to give? What special extra has a lady given you that blew your mind?

hehe

xx

Actually the only extra I've ever been given that's blown my mind was a long, incredibly creative passionate kiss that was so intense and deep that it felt like she had reached into the bottom of my lungs and soul skillfully prising out every emotion that I had to give, and it went for half of my two hour booking and was a high like no other, but that is very rare and is way to personal to be advertised, offered, asked for or expected, it just has to be spontaneous. Also it is accompanied with lots of hair messing which most ladies wouldn't be happy about.. but then again, a girl that can kiss like that well I'd happily have a hairdresser on standby

 

[naughtish]

I think DATY should be included as a standard service. I personally make a point of only meeting ladies who has that included.

 

[Adrianna Lush]

Oh dear! this question! !

I seem to spend most of my time with marriage counseling. ..eextra? Haha

 

[Adrianna Lush]

I guess it's fair to say that parlour girls charge 'extras' and private girls have an 'all inclusive' package to make it sound less business like.

 

[bushseeker]

Only extra a private may ask is anal or more normal its a do or dont.
standard service from a private
would be mutual french
bbj
sex in any position
kissing
cum on tits
any thing to do with arse such as fingering or rimming is more do or dont not for extra

 

[Lyla Rose]

I'd also love to hear what extras punters really loved!

I find I don't really offer many extas, because my standard service is rather inclusive and leans towards a GFE experience anyway. One thing I will offer as an extra is a striptease and/or lapdance for longer bookings. I don't do anything anal and I find those are really the more popular extras anyway.

 

[XLNC]

I think Adrianna and Lyla have the right idea with an 'inclusive'/GFE service approach. To me, that should include:

• kissing on lips (light or DFK, whatever you're comfortable with)
• foreplay (including full body caressing, mutual kissing, licking, sucking of nipples... but really, how much do I have to spell out under this to ensure 'neck kissing' or 'breast fondling', for example, isn't suddenly considered an 'extra'?)
• HJ and pussy play (i.e. mutual masturbation)
• BJ (including ball licking, if you do it at all -- sorry, Ginger, couldn't resist )
• DATY (if you allow it at all)
• sexual intercourse
• basic massage (if you do it at all)

I would not be impressed if I were asked to pay an additional charge for any of the above, especially if the hourly rate was $300 or more to begin with.

I'm not interested in anal (on me) or golden showers (on her) at all but they would certainly be a reasonable chargeable extra. I'm not sure why a strapon service or GS on him is often charged an absurdly high premium ($50 usually, though I've seen $100 advertised) -- there is minimal additional work/burden on the WL I would imagine -- but I can understand a small extra fee for those as well. Again, personally I'm not interested in this either.

Something I would consider paying a modest extra fee for would be a fantasy role play with appropriate costumes/uniforms, where the WL does need additional time and mental preparation as well as covering the apparel overhead. Haven't tried it yet but will give it a go with the right lady (or ladies) one of these days hopefully.

 

[Alexis Lily]

I think Adrianna and Lyla have the right idea with an 'inclusive'/GFE service approach. To me, that should include:

• kissing on lips (light or DFK, whatever you're comfortable with)
• foreplay (including full body caressing, mutual kissing, licking, sucking of nipples... but really, how much do I have to spell out under this to ensure 'neck kissing' or 'breast fondling', for example, isn't suddenly considered an 'extra'?)
• HJ and pussy play (i.e. mutual masturbation)
• BJ (including ball licking, if you do it at all -- sorry, Ginger, couldn't resist )
• DATY (if you allow it at all)
• sexual intercourse
• basic massage (if you do it at all)

I would not be impressed if I were asked to pay an additional charge for any of the above, especially if the hourly rate was $300 or more to begin with.

I'm not interested in anal (on me) or golden showers (on her) at all but they would certainly be a reasonable chargeable extra. I'm not sure why a strapon service or GS on him is often charged an absurdly high premium ($50 usually, though I've seen $100 advertised) -- there is minimal additional work/burden on the WL I would imagine -- but I can understand a small extra fee for those as well. Again, personally I'm not interested in this either.

Something I would consider paying a modest extra fee for would be a fantasy role play with appropriate costumes/uniforms, where the WL does need additional time and mental preparation as well as covering the apparel overhead. Haven't tried it yet but will give it a go with the right lady (or ladies) one of these days hopefully.

Sounds pretty fair enough to me...
thats about where my service is at.. though u can pretty well keep ur fingers away from inserting into me if you dont mind gentlemen...

 

[Ginger Spice]

But not as part of your standard service by implication. Do you charge extra for that when a threesome is not involved or just don't do it? I'm just a bit confused why a threesome is necessary for it to be provided as long as you are comfortable with performing this innocuous act.

This is the first time I've heard of this being considered an 'extra' -- most good WLs do it as part of fellatio, especially if you're shaved/trimmed and clean obviously. I can understand charging a premium for rimming (and all things anal), but ball licking?? What about nipple licking (both ways) -- is that an extra too? I'm sorry if I sound a bit incredulous but this is the sort of gouging for what should be basic services that is a major turn-off when you're already being charged $400/hr.

Cheeky. Look I am all for multi tasking, but holding a dental dam in place plus somehow sucking the shaft and balls is extremely difficult.

My services are all PROTECTED. I do not lick/suck etc the balls without a dental dam. So this is why it is only included in my threesome service. Getting a dental dam out while on my own is awkward and leaves the gentleman to his own devices, at least in a threesome the other lovely lady is entertaining him enough for him to not even notice nor care that I have placed a thin bit of latex over his ball sack before licking and sucking him like crazy. mmmmmm.... I know there are next to no risks of catching anything from such act but I personally dont like the idea of putting balls in my mouth. Once it's covered I love it

Im weird. I know. You will get over it.

<3

 

[Ginger Spice]

But not as part of your standard service by implication. Do you charge extra for that when a threesome is not involved or just don't do it? I'm just a bit confused why a threesome is necessary for it to be provided as long as you are comfortable with performing this innocuous act.

This is the first time I've heard of this being considered an 'extra' -- most good WLs do it as part of fellatio, especially if you're shaved/trimmed and clean obviously. I can understand charging a premium for rimming (and all things anal), but ball licking?? What about nipple licking (both ways) -- is that an extra too? I'm sorry if I sound a bit incredulous but this is the sort of gouging for what should be basic services that is a major turn-off when you're already being charged $400/hr.

Nipple licking/sucking/fondling is included in a standard service, same as body kissing and affection (YES THE NECK TOO!) I call it quits on the kissing on the mouth though... Some things I like to keep for my personal life.

 

[Lyla Rose]

I call it quits on the kissing on the mouth though... Some things I like to keep for my personal life.

I think it's super important that everyone is able to draw their own boundaries on what they'd like to keep for their personal life vs work life without being made to feel bad that it's not including in standard service. Being high class and 300+ is about the full experience. It is absolutely possible to give a wonderful experience worth that price.

I always find it really interesting what different things people keep foe their personal lives. Personally, I'm happy to do some kissing but keep all anal play and BDSM as something special for myself and my partner.

 

[Buk]

I think Adrianna and Lyla have the right idea with an 'inclusive'/GFE service approach. To me, that should include:

• kissing on lips (light or DFK, whatever you're comfortable with)
• foreplay (including full body caressing, mutual kissing, licking, sucking of nipples... but really, how much do I have to spell out under this to ensure 'neck kissing' or 'breast fondling', for example, isn't suddenly considered an 'extra'?)
• HJ and pussy play (i.e. mutual masturbation)
• BJ (including ball licking, if you do it at all -- sorry, Ginger, couldn't resist )
• DATY (if you allow it at all)
• sexual intercourse
• basic massage (if you do it at all)

I would not be impressed if I were asked to pay an additional charge for any of the above, especially if the hourly rate was $300 or more to begin with.

I'm not interested in anal (on me) or golden showers (on her) at all but they would certainly be a reasonable chargeable extra. I'm not sure why a strapon service or GS on him is often charged an absurdly high premium ($50 usually, though I've seen $100 advertised) -- there is minimal additional work/burden on the WL I would imagine -- but I can understand a small extra fee for those as well. Again, personally I'm not interested in this either.

Something I would consider paying a modest extra fee for would be a fantasy role play with appropriate costumes/uniforms, where the WL does need additional time and mental preparation as well as covering the apparel overhead. Haven't tried it yet but will give it a go with the right lady (or ladies) one of these days hopefully.

Yes XLNC your coverage of services pretty well sums up my interests. Although having my balls or nipples sucked has never done anything for me; maybe I'm strange. Ladies always seem to assume all guys like that, though i guess most do. However, having a lady run the tip of her tongue up and down the shaft of my penis is a different ball game (no pun intended) altogether...drives me crazy! as does pleasuring the lady I'm with, so long as I can see she is enjoying my efforts and I appreciate if she says, no don't do that BUT I do like this, so we are both 'in the right mood'.

 

[longjohn]

5 minutes of Anal sex that way more guys get to try it and I am sure girls would be more busier .

 

[XLNC]

Cheeky. Look I am all for multi tasking, but holding a dental dam in place plus somehow sucking the shaft and balls is extremely difficult.

My services are all PROTECTED. I do not lick/suck etc the balls without a dental dam. So this is why it is only included in my threesome service. Getting a dental dam out while on my own is awkward and leaves the gentleman to his own devices, at least in a threesome the other lovely lady is entertaining him enough for him to not even notice nor care that I have placed a thin bit of latex over his ball sack before licking and sucking him like crazy. mmmmmm.... I know there are next to no risks of catching anything from such act but I personally dont like the idea of putting balls in my mouth. Once it's covered I love it

Im weird. I know. You will get over it.

<3

Ah, OK, now that makes a lot more sense! You didn't mention anything about using a dental dam in your original post so it just came across as being a bit precious. I apologise for my indignant tone though stand by the general principle.

As you've probably gathered by now, I'm much more weird than you. You're unlikely to get over it.

... I call it quits on the kissing on the mouth though... Some things I like to keep for my personal life.

I think it's super important that everyone is able to draw their own boundaries on what they'd like to keep for their personal life vs work life ...

Yes, OK, that's cool if you have made a personal choice not to kiss on the mouth at all. It's treating it as an extra that I would object to. So I would respect a WL who says "Sorry, I don't kiss in any of my bookings" rather than "If you want to kiss me, that'll be another fifty bucks".

 

[Dallas]

Sounds pretty fair enough to me...
thats about where my service is at.. though u can pretty well keep ur fingers away from inserting into me if you dont mind gentlemen...

This is a good point and I've met quite a few ladies who say the same, not just inserting but any touching down there at all, so I never go near that area unless I'm invited, in fact there's a range of things that I avoid unless initiated by the lady.

 

[XLNC]

This is a good point and I've met quite a few ladies who say the same, not just inserting but any touching down there at all, so I never go near that area unless I'm invited, in fact there's a range of things that I avoid unless initiated by the lady.

Yes, me too. I interpret pussy play to mean external stimulation only unless invited to the inner sanctum... which occurs more often than I'd expect, perhaps because my fingers are always clean, nails clipped and I am very good at teasing until she begs me to put her out of her exquisite misery.

 

[Buk]

Yes, me too. I interpret pussy play to mean external stimulation only unless invited to the inner sanctum... which occurs more often than I'd expect, perhaps because my fingers are always clean, nails clipped and I am very good at teasing until she begs me to put her out of her exquisite misery.

Sounds like I need some lessons!

 

[Dallas]

Yes, me too. I interpret pussy play to mean external stimulation only unless invited to the inner sanctum... which occurs more often than I'd expect, perhaps because my fingers are always clean, nails clipped and I am very good at teasing until she begs me to put her out of her exquisite misery.

I like to think I'm pretty clean as I take personal hygiene seriously but maybe a girl just looks at me and starts singing that old song from the 70's, don't touch me there lol! Ironically the first w/l I ever saw was so comfortable and a roused she got me to fist her which was my first time at that and I thought omg is this how all w/ls are? yes I was naive, well her whole body shook and spasmed from her orgasms. That was so awesome that I don't really want to try anything again unless a lady really wants to

 

[bushseeker]

Gotta say in all my years and all the ladys ive seen.....
ive never seen a dental dam

 

[bushseeker]

From my times working with ladys ive found they have the wrong idea of extras... they think extras can be used to make more money sometimes.. but in fact the mention puts guys off
I made ladys far more money by advertising everything included ... and charging for it
..... and guess what? Many guys will happily pay top $$ for the idea of anal and cumming on face.... hardly any and close to none will actually ask for it in the room

 

[EuropianBliss]

I love sucking cock. Just cant get enough of it. Therefore it tends to be with me that a standard BJ ends up with me using the full box of tricks to make that BJ the best they have ever had.
Thern I jump on top and ride them hard

 

[Dallas]

I love sucking cock. Just cant get enough of it. Therefore it tends to be with me that a standard BJ ends up with me using the full box of tricks to make that BJ the best they have ever had.
Thern I jump on top and ride them hard

Ooooooh!

 

[XLNC]

Gotta say in all my years and all the ladys ive seen.....
ive never seen a dental dam

Me neither. I would have no idea how to operate one.

 

[bushseeker]

Me neither. I would have no idea how to operate one.

I wouldnt bother. I always tell them what I like and expect. At that stage I would expect them to mention dental dam
if they didnt I would forget about massaging them and going down ... not much left to do but shag... until they complain
if the encounters not fun it might as well be fuck