Excuse me but your an ASSHOLE...

[billybones]

I hope he is not a member on this forum but if he is and he happens to read this...

I think your an ASSHOLE...

See if you can answer me this question.

What do you think gives a man the right to hit a lady???

If you consider yourself to be strong enough let me know and come and try to hit a man and see what happens...
If you don`t have the courage to announce yourself on the public forum feel free to send me a PM.




For the others that want to know the story.
I found out today that a close female friend I hadn`t seen for a while has been getting hit by her male partner behind closed doors.

I DON`T CARE WHAT THE REASONS ARE, NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO HIT A LADY.

 

[johnlou]

I hope he is not a member on this forum but if he is and he happens to read this...

I think your an ASSHOLE...

See if you can answer me this question.

What do you think gives a man the right to hit a lady???

If you consider yourself to be strong enough let me know and come and try to hit a man and see what happens...
If you don`t have the courage to announce yourself on the public forum feel free to send me a PM.




For the others that want to know the story.
I found out today that a close female friend I hadn`t seen for a while has been getting hit by her male partner behind closed doors.

I DON`T CARE WHAT THE REASONS ARE, NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO HIT A LADY.

I totally agree Billy

 

[Contrarian]

No one has the right to hit anyone.

 

[paulmack22]

No one has the right to hit anyone.

................especially a man raising his hand against a woman. Even men who emotionally abuse or exhibit threatening behavior towards their female partner need to be dealt with........

 

[Dallas]

It's very sad and makes me angry, as I think it's all too common. I have family members, a work colleague and even a couple of w/l's that I know all with partner abuse issues, I find the latter particularly tough to deal with.

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy;----- I do agree

 

[colzilla]

I DON`T CARE WHAT THE REASONS ARE, NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO HIT A LADY.

You obviously haven't met a totally evil sociopathic bitch.

I've never hit anyone... I just walk away.

 

[Purple Haze]

No-one has the right to hit anyone but we do. So if you're not wise enough to NOT let it happen anymore and stay around and let it keep happening to you then u need to come see me. I'm a great example of NOT being Wise. 1st time I stuck around for 20 years and the second time 10 years. But 50 years later I am Wise now. There are many excuses why we let it happen any many more why we don't leave. But I swear on my sisters grave it will never happen again.

 

[Barbosa]

Ayyyyyyeeeeeee they are my favorite, Sail away when you come across them or hire them as crew members,

You obviously haven't met a totally evil sociopathic bitch.

I've never hit anyone... I just walk away.

 

[Farm Boy]

B Bones
' I DON`T CARE WHAT THE REASONS ARE, NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO HIT A LADY."

Right but you can do this , apparently?

A WA couple who took their baby daughter to Bali for a genital mutilation procedure has had charges against them dropped.

Prosecutors told the District Court there was no reasonable prospect of conviction.

 

[Tania Admin]

Violence and emotional abuse against anyone (children, women, men, work mates etc) is not OK, not ever. I've survived through both types of abuse as a child and as an adult and wouldn't want anyone to go through either.

 

[BigMike]

Yep. Hitting people is bad.

 

[sunyun]

People hitting other people need to be jailed.

But people who let it go on by staying with an abusive partner or parent or child or friend need to be counseled that it is not acceptable, will never stop unless they stop making excuses for the abusive one, and themselves walk away.

I have observed this happening to an acquaintance, and everyone she knew told her to walk away, but she kept making excuses for him.

Some people do not realise how special they are, and that no one has the right to hit them. I didn't know how to help this acquaintance, except to keep saying' "Leave him, go to the Police." which she would not do.

I should have gone to the Police myself, but one of her closer friends did, but because she denied it, they could not take action.

I am still not sure what to do if I meet the situation again.

 

[Benny]

go round and knock on his door and ask him the question,...

I hope he is not a member on this forum but if he is and he happens to read this...

I think your an ASSHOLE...

See if you can answer me this question.

What do you think gives a man the right to hit a lady???

If you consider yourself to be strong enough let me know and come and try to hit a man and see what happens...
If you don`t have the courage to announce yourself on the public forum feel free to send me a PM.




For the others that want to know the story.
I found out today that a close female friend I hadn`t seen for a while has been getting hit by her male partner behind closed doors.

I DON`T CARE WHAT THE REASONS ARE, NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO HIT A LADY.

 

[Rochelle]

Violence and emotional abuse against anyone (children, women, men, work mates etc) is not OK, not ever. I've survived through both types of abuse as a child and as an adult and wouldn't want anyone to go through either.

Totally agree, Tania, there is no excuse or justification working when it comes to any form of abuse against who ever. Luckily I never had to deal with this problem myself but a close friend of mine suffered through all of it. It took her a long time to get away from the guy. She tried but always went back. It drove me mad. I couldn't understand.
Many years later we ended up talking about it and I asked her why it took her so long to get away from somebody who obviously didn't respect and appreciated her but beat the shit out of her. Hard to explain to somebody who hasn't been in the situation but bottom line was 'better negative attention than no attention" combined with very little self respect on her side to allow him to treat her like that........



R.xxxxxxxxx

 

[colzilla]

The things we do for love.

 

[DickieWu]

Somehow make me think of what people often say " Nice guy finish last " and "Great guy finish second last "

 

[Madam Jacqui]

That just goes to show how Weak the guy is,because he cant pick on someone his Strength and Size.Time for the Lady to Walk........

 

[Dallas]

Somehow make me think of what people often say " Nice guy finish last " and "Great guy finish second last "

This is a good point, reminds me when I was in my 20's and the number of times that I would be turned down for a date only to find that she'd shacked up with a guy who was beating the crap out of her, would then turn to me for a shoulder to cry on yet wouldn't leave him - can't say it did much for my self esteem.

 

[Lucky]

Raise a hand to a woman.... Gutless. A pathetic excuse for a man.

 

[Naio]

Sometimes there is nothing you can do other then try and be a friend by listening. It is hard to understand why someone would keep subjecting themselves to such a situation but there is a lot more going on then just the physical side of it. There is most likely years of verbal and emotional abuse to back it all up and the manipulation and mind games played by the perpetrator upon a vulnerable person could reinforce the need for the victim to stay. It maybe out of fear that they stay. It maybe because of children. It maybe because , like getting up and eating breakfast every morning, it become an unconscious habit, the "norm" for them. It is a cycle hard to break...and I can imagine that he won again when the friend went to the police..she will not own upto it....a lot of shame comes with that...the friend is probably no longer a friend.
Only when the time is right, will she wake up and see.....for now...its about checking that she is still alive....sad but true.....

People hitting other people need to be jailed.

But people who let it go on by staying with an abusive partner or parent or child or friend need to be counseled that it is not acceptable, will never stop unless they stop making excuses for the abusive one, and themselves walk away.

I have observed this happening to an acquaintance, and everyone she knew told her to walk away, but she kept making excuses for him.

Some people do not realise how special they are, and that no one has the right to hit them. I didn't know how to help this acquaintance, except to keep saying' "Leave him, go to the Police." which she would not do.

I should have gone to the Police myself, but one of her closer friends did, but because she denied it, they could not take action.

I am still not sure what to do if I meet the situation again.

 

[homer]

Violence doesn't solve anything if history has taught us. Any person causes harm to another really need to seek help.

I reckon your female friend needs to take time away from the prick, until he can handle himself. And if there is anything left to salvage and resolve. A lot of victims do not raise their voices enough, they need to seek help and don't let fear keep them in the closet. Assholes like these need to be named and shamed.

IMHO no person should use violence against anyone or other living things or even non-living things. It's a cowardliness uneducated act.