sioxie
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I wouldnt exactly classify this as a fetish or even bdsm for that matter but i have and always will remain the dominant partner in sex. I have never felt the need to b the submissive one in a sexual relationship and dont think i would even like to try. Most men when i first meet them think i am the shy/ submissive type until they encounter me in the bedroom. I have met the most domineering controlling men who have ended up doing things they would never have dreamed of doing once i get them without their clothes on! I find it a great leveller when both are naked and there is no clothes to hide behind. Most of the men when they are over their initial shock at how they have wrongly prejudged me are excited and happy to experiment and for once lie back and be told what to do. For alot it is a change of image to go from having to be in control to being controlled and they are happy to hand over the reins. Mayb i was a dominatrix in a former life and that explains my liking of leather and stilletos?