Does your partner know that you're a SW/client?

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Billie Noire

There's no judgement here! Want to make that clear to start out :)

For those WL and clients who have partners I'm curious; do they know what you do?

If not then why have you decided to not tell them and does it ever bother you?

I'm genuinely curious to hear about the experiences, reasoning, and relationship agreements of others here.
 

Ranjeeh

Gold Member
Of course; she likes to lick the drips off when I get home. Are you real sweetie? Or are some uni student looking for free data for your degree?
 

Ranjeeh

Gold Member
I think that was a genuine question by a canberra working lady.

I'm not so generous, a 4 post person asking naive questions raises my suspicions. I question that any WL, even in a place like Canberra would ask such naive questions. Besides which, you are not a WL and have a very gay user name for a bloke, so how would you know?
 

Ozrock

Silver Member
I'm not so generous, a 4 post person asking naive questions raises my suspicions. I question that any WL, even in a place like Canberra would ask such naive questions. Besides which, you are not a WL and have a very gay user name for a bloke, so how would you know?

Billie is advertising her services in Canberra this Friday and Saturday night, so seems to be genuine.
 

Jaylily

Gold Member
I'm not so generous, a 4 post person asking naive questions raises my suspicions. I question that any WL, even in a place like Canberra would ask such naive questions. Besides which, you are not a WL and have a very gay user name for a bloke, so how would you know?

Yes i'm not a working lady you are bright, however I am a langtrees staff member. Anything else to say smart ass.
 

Rachy

Rachael Canberra
Gold Member
Of course; she likes to lick the drips off when I get home. Are you real sweetie? Or are some uni student looking for free data for your degree?

Billie is a Langtrees lady and a very beautiful and professional one at that.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with the question she has asked and your reply is just rude.
 
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Billie Noire

Thanks for the posts Jaylily and Rachy!

I think we can all agree that Ranjeeh is a jerk and ignore him from now on.

For anyone else being pessimistic, rude, and unduly suspicious I've actually been working at Langtrees and posting here for a year. I just recently decided to start a new profile with my working name to make it easier for everyone to recognise me. What nerve I have!

Back to the point of the post then?
For me, I'm engaged and have a very supportive partner. I'm curious to hear from others in my position or from those who have made the choice to keep their experiences to themselves and why they decided on that.
 

magrov

Diamond Member
Billie, I want to book you based only on this thread. My kind of girl! As to your answer: no. My partner and I have been having issues for a while now and WL's allow me some intimacy that I am lacking.
 

Ozrock

Silver Member
Thanks for the posts Jaylily and Rachy!

I think we can all agree that Ranjeeh is a jerk and ignore him from now on.

For anyone else being pessimistic, rude, and unduly suspicious I've actually been working at Langtrees and posting here for a year. I just recently decided to start a new profile with my working name to make it easier for everyone to recognise me. What nerve I have!

Back to the point of the post then?
For me, I'm engaged and have a very supportive partner. I'm curious to hear from others in my position or from those who have made the choice to keep their experiences to themselves and why they decided on that.

Billie, I am pleased to that hear that you are engaged. I hope everything works out for you and your partner. It is always good to hear that things can work out in this situation. My girlfriend is a WL, so I know what she does :) I am divorced and had tried dating sites and then met this wonderful woman as a WL. I was her client for a while and we just clicked. I used to take her to dinner and events and we just ended up falling for each other. She made the suggestion that we start dating. I am so glad she did. The relationship has its challenges, but I love her very much.
 

Lacie4U

Diamond Member
Billie, I want to book you based only on this thread. My kind of girl! As to your answer: no. My partner and I have been having issues for a while now and WL's allow me some intimacy that I am lacking.

It is nice to read such an honest reply . I don't think you are alone and I think that there are also many women in difficult/troubled relationships that seek intimacy that they don't receive at home. It is a shame there does not seem to be as many professional services available for them.
 

Lacie4U

Diamond Member
There's no judgement here! Want to make that clear to start out :)

For those WL and clients who have partners I'm curious; do they know what you do?

If not then why have you decided to not tell them and does it ever bother you?

I'm genuinely curious to hear about the experiences, reasoning, and relationship agreements of others here.

Finally a question for both sex workers and clients . It is certainly a topic I think should see many responses Billie .
 
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Billie Noire

Billie, I want to book you based only on this thread. My kind of girl! As to your answer: no. My partner and I have been having issues for a while now and WL's allow me some intimacy that I am lacking.

I love spending time with like minded people, so if you're every in the Canberra/Sydney area please send me a message.

I'm sorry to here that you've been having issues with your partner but I'm glad you've been able to find some intimacy with WLs. I love that we're able to do that for people in your situation, I think it's a really important service to have access to.
 
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Billie Noire

It is nice to read such an honest reply . I don't think you are alone and I think that there are also many women in difficult/troubled relationships that seek intimacy that they don't receive at home. It is a shame there does not seem to be as many professional services available for them.

Couldn't agree more! I think there's an expectation with a lot of people that escorting is a physical experience, but it's really an emotional one as well when with the right person. I'm sure lots of women would benefit a lot from a BFE type escort, but there's just not nearly as many available.
 
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Billie Noire

Billie, I am pleased to that hear that you are engaged. I hope everything works out for you and your partner. It is always good to hear that things can work out in this situation. My girlfriend is a WL, so I know what she does :) I am divorced and had tried dating sites and then met this wonderful woman as a WL. I was her client for a while and we just clicked. I used to take her to dinner and events and we just ended up falling for each other. She made the suggestion that we start dating. I am so glad she did. The relationship has its challenges, but I love her very much.

It really makes me smile to hear that things worked out so well for you two. I think all relationships have their own challenges, it's just that relationships with WLs have that social stigma attached to it as well. A lot of people don't really understand how a non-monogomous relationship can be fulfilling, but we know it definitely can be :)
 

HappyPirate

Head Veto.....
Staff member
Talking Turkey Moderator
Ahoy;- As I said.....I luv Billie and all she has to say
Really Great Thread, Thanks for sharing
 
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David Mann

Hi Billie,

I am happily married to a beautiful and very sexy woman. She makes me happy and she is great in bed, but I need more.

I crave erotic experiences with other people. The excitement of seeing and enjoying different bodies and personalities. I don't think I will ever get enough of it.

To answer your question...No...she has no idea, because she will not approve and she will view my sexual curiosity as a personal insult.

I would love for us to have a more open relationship, but that won't happen unfortunately.
 
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Iges148

Hi Billie, I am happily married and she knows. We used to be active swingers, but the time we had to spend on finding people we both clicked with was enormous. So we decided to have our own advantures. As a male it seems to be hard to find a likeminded female who does not instantly think I do things behind my wife's back. Unfortunately this is a reaction that I experienced too often. NSA encounters for a man are hard. So I find my encounters with lovely girls who I click with, which will generally be after a few visits.
The reason why we have encounters with others is to learn new things. I am 45, but am still learning every time and am also able to teach.. Best way to be. No secrets, total trust and heaps of fun!
 
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Tania Admin

Of course; she likes to lick the drips off when I get home. Are you real sweetie? Or are some uni student looking for free data for your degree?
I'm not so generous, a 4 post person asking naive questions raises my suspicions. I question that any WL, even in a place like Canberra would ask such naive questions. Besides which, you are not a WL and have a very gay user name for a bloke, so how would you know?
No need for rudness thanks... Consider this an official warning...
 
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jackcoates

My man had stroke so no sex but I feel I upset him It's diificult
 

No idea what to do

Legend Member
Interesting Thread.

So I can say this,

If my wifey thought I saw escorts for some extra fun.
1st . My nuts would be removed and returned to France with a one way ticket to the dump in Toulouse
2nd . My cock would not be far behind
3rd . It would cost me a fortune if I was still alive...
Punting also cost a fortune, But it's fun and I love fucking Lady's

🙎‍♂️The Frenchman 🥐
 
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