Hmmm can't give you a short answer here.
I do not find the act of a man cross dressing arousing, however, when I am in My Dominant / submissive relationships & I have Mine dress in slutty clothing or frock up to do some housework or whatever, it has a different connotation & is a very big turn on for Me -not because of how they look, but the act of them doing it for Me in a forced way.
I also have a partner who loves it as part of sexual acitivity, so there is a turn on there.
Sissy maids that come to serve Me do not turn Me on, but I offer them an opportunity where they can frock up & this works well for both of us. I get approached alot by guys who have never "gone there" & want to as they feel comfortable knowing that I do not judge them.
AnywaY, I know I do not represent the female population & perhaps only other Dommes/ Mistresses understand this.
regards,
Ms Magdelena