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Do men enjoy watching their partner do another guy?

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perthnudist

Spoke to a friend recently who along with his wife decided they would add some spice to their relationship. After a lot of talk somehow they concluded that the female would like to try a) having sex with another male and b) have sex with a number of different males.

Now let me break it down for you so you get a better picture. Both married for 8 years, 29 years old. She was a virgin when they met, he wasnt. She was quite conservative in the bedroom apparently, tried anal sex a couple of times didnt enjoy it too much,liked to keep things simple...you get the drift.

Now he was present at both occasions, for point a) things went smoothly, a casual sex encounter, husband let her decide what she wanted to do, how far etc.

For point b) (many guys), took a bit of time for them to organise, however they finally got 4 guys together. It was at their home, the husband was in the family room, while the wife and the 4 other guys were in another room, the husband popped in every now and then to see whats happening, he wasnt too interested in watching.

Now to his suprise he walked in and saw his wife quite enjoying herself so he stayed to watched. After watching he got really angry and annoyed for a number of reasons.

1. He wanted to join in, she said for him not to touch her as shes having a good time.

2. During the session she asked one of the guys to give her anal sex, after a bit of trouble, she seemed to really enjoy it (the husband couldnt beleive this).

3. A condom broke while a guy was giving her vaginal sex, one of the men present was going to wear a new one, when the wife told him dont worry about it.

4. At the end, not only did she ask all 4 guys to go off in her mouth/face, but to the husbands amazement she swallowed (something she usually didnt want to do).

Now my friend and his wife are having serious relationship problems now etc, but my point is, have you watched your partner have sex with another male(s), and did you enjoy it or get angry etc?
 

svengali

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Nope, never and the reasons this is not a good idea have just been comprehensively outlined above.

It is one thing to agree intellectually to something and quite another to actually go through with it and live with the results. I can well understand hubby getting miffed. He has been trying to waken his wife's inner slut for years with, apparently, only limited success but a gang bang with four other guys does the trick. He'd be a saint if his nose wasn't put out of joint.

Snag now is that he has probably forgiven her, that is easy, but forgetting is not so easy.

The smartest thing these two people can do is to see a counsellor A.S.A.P. and hope he/she can help them work through the fallout.
 
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funaction

My wife and I have discussed this and I have said that "we" could have another guy but he would have to be a pretty special bloody guy. Plus all this comes with us having another girl involved at another time ;D

I have actually said, I would really prefer it to be a transexual, to be honest I like the thought of my wife having two dicks to play with, I just can't stand other guys (like guy guys), lets face facts we are all pricks.

This guy made a huge mistake though, what is the point of just letting your wife have sex with somone else, it has to be a couple thing. He will never forgive her, never be able to get those images out of his head, he should just divorce her. I will say though, it is his fault aswell as hers, if he let her do it with 4 guys without him involved, he shouldn't have got involved. These types of encounters need a) RULES (to be followed to the T) and b) The right people. These 4 guys should have stopped when they realised there was an issue, but like I said, all men are pricks so I am not surprised.
 
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Reefer

There's is a very good book called womens infidelity
its a really eye openner, its not easy from there side.
Get your mate to down load it.

Regards
 

aussie_single34

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I guess from her point of view it was a new experience and she was going to enjoy it
Like a 1 night stand... you might do things you don't normally do cause you don't have to see the person again
Less guilt less inhibitions

I've had a 3some with an ex g/f and one of her female friends
It caused alot of jealousy and hassle so I see his point of view alos

Its something they need to work out themselves
 
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SwingingM&K

Plenty of guys do. Thats what swinging is all about. Letting your partner enjoy their sexuality with others as well as you.

I enjoy watching my gf and hearing about her exploits as she does with me.

This has required us both to accept that we are not going to follow exactly the fantasy the other person has in these sorts of situations.

There are plenty of people around, male and female, who are aware of and respect couples comfort zones in these sorts of situations.

Going through with stuff like this has never caused any problems for us, just fun stuff to fantasise about when we play on our own.

Not discussing things first and excluding your partner is a mistake as the couple should be thinking about each other first if they want to share an intermate experience. If one person is just trying to get something out of the other then jelousy is going to be a problem.
 

Bad Bobby

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I just read this one aftr returning back from holidays. I love watching my partner having sex with other guys and is such a turn on. The more the merrier. She loves it as well and told me she never thought it could be some much fun. It has made our sex life more enjoyable and exciting and cant wait for some more fun. She had never had another guy for all the time we have been married and was a virgin when i met her. Cant stop her now and love being part of the fun.
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SiNGLEBLonDE

Nope have never watched any of my ex's have fun with another bloke, they werent into that
 
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summer

Work togeather!

Hi,be two I say,then neither iva feel left out!
You have to have a pretty open relationship to explore your fantasie's without any barrier's though!
truthfully,I feel don't be into it,unless you are both happy and desire's are being met!"Scacafice's for your own selfishness,your've got to think is it really worth it?
and how much does the relationship mean?
Summer.xx
 
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viking32

wow..what can i say,,,they forgot one good point,,if you have a tresome or have another partner joining you,,make sure every body getts attention ,thats very importend,,,sounde to me they where going about it the wrong way,,and i think she has lost her disire for her husbond ,,sad,,,been there done that,,,
hope he can gett over it,,i guess going to a swingers club first and just watch.and see how your partner react is a good step..if he or her walks out off there because some one talks to you and they are naked,,well then other play might not be the way for them....can write more but will waite,,i will like to have a tresome but it has to be with the right kind off people ..and for the right reasun ...too
 
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Miss Cheevass

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Can totally relate to this guys dilemma. Nothing hurts more than watching your partner doing things with someone else that they do not want to do with you, yet you desperately want them too.:sad1: I tolerated it for a while but eventually it ended our relationship.
 
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viking32

thank you for your imput ,,miss chevas....some times our exex can scar us for life after ,,what we have beeb truee,,,but i can say time heals a lot,,,so i hope you gett on top and also others that has been hurt ,,,its all about been compatible..and speak up..about wants ..wants not,,and i guess this is what this forum is all about share ..and give idears ,,,,,,,,,,from viking
 

chris

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i think the real killer would of been when he wanted to join in she said no to her own hubby because she was enjoying herself that tells me when a pwerson does that male or female they're selfish .
 
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