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I know as a women we do not feel like sex everyday it has a lot to do where we are at in our menstrual cycle, So our sexual peak is when we are at our most fertile , this is what nature has intended to keep women wanting sex the most at the best time to conceive.
cause discomfort that turns women off to sex. Studies vary but somewhere around half of women experience pre-menstrual upsets—irritability, anxiety, and blues—and every month, about half of reproductive-age women experience menstrual cramping. PMS and cramps tend to suppress interest in sex.
Confounding Factors
The menstrual cycle may nudge women to feel more sexual around ovulation, but many other factors also influence women’s libido:
The Upshot
While women’s interest in sex may not vary much throughout the month, if it does, women might track their own erotic thoughts and feelings, and plan romantic evenings or getaways accordingly.
Meanwhile, not many men follow the menstrual cycles of the women they’re involved with. Here’s a reason to. You’re most likely to get lucky during her mid-cycle. But always remember, the menstrual cycle is not destiny.
While the research shows a surge in women's sexual interest around ovulation, it's subtle, so I'd love to hear from women about this. Do you notice cyclic erotic ups and downs? What’s been your experience?
Open Relationships Are More Popular Than You Might Think
Sex on a Cycle?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/...latest-birth-control-pills-and-women-s-libido

https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/...ising-hormone-is-important-sexuality-in-women
https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/...hat-dogs-can-tell-us-about-sex-and-conception
cause discomfort that turns women off to sex. Studies vary but somewhere around half of women experience pre-menstrual upsets—irritability, anxiety, and blues—and every month, about half of reproductive-age women experience menstrual cramping. PMS and cramps tend to suppress interest in sex.
Confounding Factors
The menstrual cycle may nudge women to feel more sexual around ovulation, but many other factors also influence women’s libido:
- The Pill. Hormonal contraception alters the natural menstrual cycle. A few of the studies showing cyclic libido divided participants by their use of birth control pills. Women on the Pill showed no monthly libido changes, but those not taking hormonal contraception did.
- Work. Studies of women stressed at work show little cyclic change in libido and decreased interest in sex in general. But while on vacation, these same women experienced libido rebound and cyclic erotic interest became more evident.
- A long-term relationship. Compared with women in established couples, single women show a greater ovulatory spike in sexual interest. This lends some credence to an old joke among men: What single thing can a man do to destroy his girlfriend’s interest in sex? Marry her.
The Upshot
While women’s interest in sex may not vary much throughout the month, if it does, women might track their own erotic thoughts and feelings, and plan romantic evenings or getaways accordingly.
Meanwhile, not many men follow the menstrual cycles of the women they’re involved with. Here’s a reason to. You’re most likely to get lucky during her mid-cycle. But always remember, the menstrual cycle is not destiny.
While the research shows a surge in women's sexual interest around ovulation, it's subtle, so I'd love to hear from women about this. Do you notice cyclic erotic ups and downs? What’s been your experience?
Open Relationships Are More Popular Than You Might Think
Sex on a Cycle?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/...latest-birth-control-pills-and-women-s-libido

https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/...ising-hormone-is-important-sexuality-in-women
https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/...hat-dogs-can-tell-us-about-sex-and-conception