Dating older vs younger

[Ampconnoisseur]

So ive only just hit the big 30 half way through January and was wondering how often do you see someone younger or older dating a counterpart that is older or younger by lets say 20 years

 

[Lebron23]

Younger by 20 years? Stop hanging around playgrounds. He or she is 10 years old. That’s a crime. Get some help.

 

[Ampconnoisseur]

seriously go home weirdo I may have made the post but you thought of it,


what about people around 40 and 50 who date people in their 30's or 20's or vice versa

 

[Deleted member 67386]

I think age play in Sex is hot but being in a relationship might be hard as 20yr gap is alot especially when you factor in kids and old age in the future.

 

[johnmatilda]

It's ok if the man is older and the woman younger, not the other way around. I wouldn't want to be a 30 year old dating a 50 year woman. My 2c.

 

[Lebron23]

seriously go home weirdo I may have made the post but you thought of it,


what about people around 40 and 50 who date people in their 30's or 20's or vice versa

Get help

 

[mrys]

My last 3 GF's have been 30 years younger than me. Been with the current one for 2.5 years she is 33 years younger. All have been no younger than late 20's at the beginning of our relationship. Age gap relationships are clearly normal for me but society is still judgmental for the most part. It seems it's OK to identify as a fridge these days but heaven forbid if you date a significantly younger woman. Fortunately I don't give a f*ck what other people think, it works for me/us thats all that matters.

 

[Deleted member 49173]

IMO women are 'at their best' from 30 - 45yo .. so either trade-down every 15y max , OR do as per mrys above
OR keep on keepin on in TS land.

 

[mrys]

IMO women are 'at their best' from 30 - 45yo .. so either trade-down every 15y max , OR do as per mrys above
OR keep on keepin on in TS land.

The old adage of the ideal age for your GF is half your age plus 8........works a treat

 

[Ramper]

Most woman now are dating younger or older who cares. A lady I know is 56 and dates a 23 year old, she's happy he must be do who cares.

 

[johnmatilda]

My last 3 GF's have been 30 years younger than me. Been with the current one for 2.5 years she is 33 years younger. All have been no younger than late 20's at the beginning of our relationship. Age gap relationships are clearly normal for me but society is still judgmental for the most part. It seems it's OK to identify as a fridge these days but heaven forbid if you date a significantly younger woman. Fortunately I don't give a f*ck what other people think, it works for me/us thats all that matters.

This is the way.

 

[johnmatilda]

The old adage of the ideal age for your GF is half your age plus 8........works a treat

It's half your age plus 7 though I wouldn't mind the first half of the sentence for myself!.

 

[DHFH]

My last 3 GF's have been 30 years younger than me. Been with the current one for 2.5 years she is 33 years younger. All have been no younger than late 20's at the beginning of our relationship. Age gap relationships are clearly normal for me but society is still judgmental for the most part. It seems it's OK to identify as a fridge these days but heaven forbid if you date a significantly younger woman. Fortunately I don't give a f*ck what other people think, it works for me/us thats all that matters.

Well said.

 

[Channelle]

Most woman now are dating younger or older who cares. A lady I know is 56 and dates a 23 year old, she's happy he must be do who cares.

Agreed.
It's he old mathematical equation - where 23 will go into 56 a lot more times than 56 will go into 23.

 

[mrys]

Agreed.
It's he old mathematical equation - where 23 will go into 56 a lot more times than 56 will go into 23.

Very true! Fortunately experience helps to level the equation a little though

 

[IceFragmatic]

For me age is just a number