Cumming from Oral

[Fergie]

I'd like to know if there is something wrong with me.

I have I regret to say, never been able to cum from oral sex, and I have had some really really good times.

Am I the only one or is there something that I am missing here?

 

[CasinoKing]

That's not the same as my recollection. I seem to remember sorting that one out, albeit with a little help from a bullet.

I'll keep trying. Just relax

 

[madfabricator]

Maybe you just need someone more creative... Or rougher? Hehe

 

[kitty's desires]

You are definately not alone Voodoo! I have only ever cum once from oral alone and I think that was because I was so oversensitive from cumming 20+ times before hand!

 

[marstafit1]

Maybe you're putting too much pressure on yourself to cum Fergie - maybe its about relaxing and being in the moment - and what happens happens.

 

[aussie_single34]

Relax and enjoy.... if the partner is talented with mouth and fingers it should cum.... so to speak

I once knew a girl who would cum from oral.... giving oral to me that is.... ah I miss her

 

[Jackson82]

my ex-girlfriend had a ticklish clitoris, so could never cum from oral.

 

[Sir Stefan]

A technique that has worked for me with a number of Girls is to stimulate her clit with my tongue using a side to side 'rocking' motion, whilst holding finger pressure, from the inside, against the 'root' of her clitoris... seems to work for me and has sent a number of girls wild

 

[ne1dare]

A recent girlfriend was unable to come from oral.....and she was fairly uninhibited, but she just felt uncomfortable with oral sex.

The thing is, the largest sex organ is the brain, and if you THINK it aint going to happen, then it aint.

Sometimes though, just the intimacy of having someone lap at your genitals like a demented labrador is enough to bring immense pleasure. Orgasm is not the be all and end all.

Or is it?

 

[kitty's desires]

The thing is, the largest sex organ is the brain, and if you THINK it aint going to happen, then it aint.

Very true! You have to just let it happen and not try to force it either.

Orgasm is not the be all and end all.

Or is it?

lol I don't know about that....do you like cumming? I never feel fulfilled without reaching orgasm.

 

[marstafit1]

I totally agree with you kitty - be in the moment and enjoy it - no pressure on

 

[ne1dare]

Yup, I love an orgasm the same as the next person, it's just that sometimes, say I have a bad day or there are pressures building up in my head, I tend to lose concentration during sex.....oral especially.

This makes it extremely difficult, well impossible really for me to orgasm. I know it is happening and there is nothing I can do about it. My ex g/f used to have a bit of an issue with this, thought I didn’t find her sexy enough, but I still enjoyed the interaction even without orgasm. Having said that, orgasm is best….by a long shot!

 

[Fergie]

Orgasm is not why I have sex, or why i love it so much. Its about having a great time with that particular person and for me I like to please rather than be pleased (I cant believe I just said that - OMG there is something wrong with me!) so i guess that all I'm thinking about is when its my turn.

Don't get me wrong, seeing someone between my legs is one of the best things about sex, it's just that oral seems to take so long, which makes me feel selfish or guilty.

Sir Stefan- the 'side to side' motion is one I just experienced and while it didn't quite get me there, I loved it all the same.

OK next time, I will try to relax and I'll just enjoy..mmmm horny just thinking about it.

 

[marstafit1]

Hi Fergie - interesting discussions - probably where we reveal something of ourselves - i think likewise - that for me, enjoying oral is more about pleasing the partner.

Sure we all love doing it - but i think deep down - we love to make that other person feel good and to know that we can! - whether it results in orgasm or not. And of course, there are lots of different levels of orgasm.

 

[Elise Emerald Kitten]

One thing you can try is when you get close to climax, ask your partner to very lightly blow on you down there. I've done this before and it was amazing to watch the reaction. It's important to do this very lightly though. Hurricane's don't work and they spoil the moment.

 

[SexyBlackChanell]

Wow, all this talk of oral action has me on the edge of my chair! For me it is the ultimate especially if I face-sit.

Penetrative sex is great but I only recall having a few orgasms this way. That doesn't mean that sex/love-making was bad, but I don't generally reach orgasm that way. Its not always about orgasms but if it matters to me, I definitely prefer someone between my legs and not coming up for air for a very long time...!

 

[marstafit1]

Sounds good SBC - likewise sitting on edge of my chair - i enjoy the feel, taste - as well as the sight of the woman enjoying it

 

[Fergie]

Well it sbeen a while since posting here - BUT - I have news!!!

It was my birthday, i was super horny, It happened and it was FANTASTIC!!!!!!

I think the key was to just relax and understand that he's enjoying doing it just as much as i enjoy getting it.

I am so doing that again.

 

[Cathy/Diane87]

As much as i love oral sex on me i have to say i love giving it just as much if not more it makes me happy to get my partner (OFF) I dont think i have ever had a problem getting a guy (OFF) during oral sex but i do like a challenge well i did when i was single so now im not i make new challenges I know this has been said alot but it's true just try to relax and go with the flow and hopefully this will get something else flowing to. :icon_blow

 

[frankqld]

i dont know if this will help or if u've tried it b4 but if u think about the sexiest thing ever that makes you cum the most at the time ur getting oral and not the oral experience ur having at that time,then u might just might get what ur after,tryi and concentrate,after the first time it happens for you the rest will be easy.

 

[lkg4fun]

Unless its been a whille I'm not sensitive enough to come from oral eigther, I prefer to give

 

[~Dragons_Princess~]

Happy to say I don't have this problem , I can actually orgasm very quickly from oral.

 

[Demon]

The key is to relax, and want it to happen. Sex, and particularly orgasms, are mental. If you are not relaxed or don't want it to happen it won't.

Relax and want it to happen, but not in a 'it must happen' way (i.e. stressing yourself), you improve your chances. Whether with a BF, GF, or client it will be difficult if you don't have a sensual connection with the oral giver.

I usually succeed in bringing my partners to orgasms (plural intended). Those who don't are usually stressed in some way (including not liking the idea of oral), or cannot connect with me (the rest of the time together can show if this is the cause).

 

[muffdiver]

Never had an issue making a lady cum from oral and I haven't had an issue cumming from oral as this is my favourite

 

[sexnut]

Happy to say I don't have this problem , I can actually orgasm very quickly from oral.

You sound awesome:notworthy

 

[Demon]

You sound awesome:notworthy

Looks terrific as well.:love10:

 

[Jay411632]

There was a WL in Perth named petite angelina, boy she did the best bjs ever mad me cum so hard even with condom on

 

[Tania Admin]

Never had an issue making a lady cum from oral and I haven't had an issue cumming from oral as this is my favourite

I'm with you on this one,,never have I had a problem cumming from oral, nor has a recipient of oral from myself

 

[sleepymaam]

I used to feel the same as the OP and I agree relaxing and letting things go is the key to actually getting there.

 

[bushbabe]

There was a WL in Perth named petite angelina, boy she did the best bjs ever mad me cum so hard even with condom on

Jay, you are spot on there.......... she was awesome.... high on the list of the Best in Perth w/ls of a few years ago. Master Yoda and I often talk of her. Do you know what ever happened to her..... I think her BF might have been an AH.