cum very quick

[stu2006]

No, that wasnt a typo, i did mean quick, not thick

well, here goes, and any feedback will be good.

as the title says, i cum very quickly during intercourse, and then the head of my penis is VERY sensitive for aground 30 mins to an hour. is this normal or a problem?

also, what is the average size for a guy? my doc says my size isnt too small, yet seeing some guys in adult movies i feel like im a total midget.

 

[svengali]

Hmmm!! I detect a lack of experience in matters sexual here and, possibly a younger man. Am I right?

A hair trigger is not at all unusual earlier in one's sexual career. A condom can help by toning down the sensations and it is also useful if you delay entry by spending more time on pleasuring your lady. She will also appreciate this approach.

When you do enter her, do it slowly and gently without
too much vigorous pumping - all that energetic thrusting you see in porn movies is mainly for show and, in real life, would probably leave both parties more sore than satisfied. Finally, don't let the problem get into your head too much or it will become a vicious cycle of anxiety feeding on itself. Just focus on enjoying the moment and remember that practise makes perfect.

As for your size, forget it. It is probably a cliche but what you do with it is far more important than how big it is (or isn't);D . Most of the male porn stars NEVER allow themselves to be seen on film or in stills unless they are at least half erect and most are in the upper range of normal to start with so none of us can measure up to that.

Have fun and keep practising until you get it right.

 

[Cacatous]

Yeah don't worry about size and instead concentrate on your technique and communication skills.

Ask a girl what she likes and work together on it.

As for cumming quickly, I don't know. I work on the foreplay first and I exit if it's getting a bit soon and work with my hands and tongue again. IT also has the added bonus of keeping her wild with want!

 

[maltycat]

Dont stress, practice makes perfect. As for size what you see in the movies is a bit over the top in some cases, if you can use it and also your hands and mouth a lady wont care. Be happy with what you have.

 

[stu2006]

Svengali, lack of experience is a god guess, but don’t confuse lack of experience with age
Im an ol fart at 48, but I guess never fully happy with my partner (been married twice, now separated) but lack of experience is defiantly true. So I guess rather late in life im looking to change my approach, broaden my horizons as they say.

yep multycat, hands and mouth is good, specially the mouth, as i do have a liking for oral, giving and receiving.

And as Cacatous says about foreplay, i do love lots of foreplay

 

[svengali]

Yeah, point taken.

I am older than you but started late and also have not had as much experience as I would have liked. I probably won't catch up on everything I have missed out on but it is fun trying to.

 

[stu2006]

thats true svengali,
im just hoping i can find a swingers night where single guys can go, or a lady that already goes to one, and will take me with her.