Clients & Kissing - What's safe & comfortable for you??

[Ella Jade]

Heya ladies!
I'm curious to know how far girls will go when it comes to getting intimate as far as kissing goes?
Tongue? No tongue?
What's the risk as far as STI's go when it comes to kissing on the mouth??
What's a polite way to turn a client down if you aren't interested in a kiss?

How do you guys run the kissing game?? lmk.

Ella xx

 

[Nomansland]

I am not into the whole GFE thing. I am polite respectful and I hope funny but not intimate.
So no kissing on the lips or tongue. Also concerns about STI's.

 

[markeys]

I would hate to see a WL or have sex with anyone who does not kiss, i used to always ask first(some lied ),

without passionate kissing there is no intimacy , a wank is much the same when it all done.

 

[glen]

I will go a long way for a kiss, just love it. To improve my chances with the ladies I present as tidy as possible with brushed and mouth washed oral hygine. With AMPs I reckon about 3 out of ten girls will kiss, possibly 7 out of ten with FS providers. To all those girls who kiss a BIG thank you!

 

[ozwarlock67]

I will go a long way for a kiss, just love it. To improve my chances with the ladies I present as tidy as possible with brushed and mouth washed oral hygine. With AMPs I reckon about 3 out of ten girls will kiss, possibly 7 out of ten with FS providers. To all those girls who kiss a BIG thank you!

Damn straight on all points. I love to kiss and always spruce myself up thoroughly before a visit....even with someone I've been seeing for years. It's just a respect thing.

 

[Miss Monique]

I can't imagine doing this job and not kissing. Passionate kissing with non smokers and light kissing with smokers or drinkers. The risk would be minimal very low and I know many ladies choose not to kiss as they feel it's to personal or have watched pretty women lol

 

[John The John]

I'm a smoker, but won't smoke for 3-4 hours before a booking and always -always- go mental with a toothbrush and mouthwash beforehand. Clean clothes, a good shower, all the norms. I'm also big on spending extra time with my girl, if she's up for it, in a mutual shower when I get there. After spending time in SE Asia where this is a -must- and is extremely common (never had a punt in SE Asia that didn't start with a shower) I find it eases me into the punt and its good for the girls too - let them wash you and they have some real confidence then that you'll be clean and fresh.

As for kissing, I do like it I admit. But I'll never initiate. I understand the deal here and you have to be respectful. I'm go for a bit of a cheek smooch and see where that leads if anywhere. Oftentimes I'll find that a girl who doesn't initiate a good wet kiss on the first meet will relax a bit by the 2-3-4th booking and I've had some really nice passionate kissing from girls I've seen a lot of know well.

 

[Ginger Spice]

I do not offer kissing in my service at all. The closest I get is a little peck for my favourite clients

I've been having sex long enough to know my likes and dislikes. I know I like to kiss clients bodies, and have them kiss mine. I do not like tongues, or saliva. So I do not wish for a client to use them on me. They freak me out.

Kissing is also EXTREMELY intimate, for me (which is strange considering I sometimes offer greek). So I like to save that for long term relationships only. I don't think that my not offering kissing has affected me or my client base at all. There are plenty of other lovely gorgeous ladies who offer this service that there is usually not much of a fuss about it.

 

[Bambi]

Kissing is a big NO, its unprotected and unnecessary. Pass on getting sick from spit swapping. You don't have to kiss to make it a good booking.

 

[Miss Monique]

Kissing is a big NO, its unprotected and unnecessary. Pass on getting sick from spit swapping. You don't have to kiss to make it a good booking.

Touching door knobs light switches highly touched areas of sick people. Using toilets could come in contact with body fluids, being around other people you could get sick.

Here is some info on risk of STD/HIV from kissing https://www.sexualhealth.com/is-it-possible-to-get-an-std-from-kissing-someone_question_64/

Info on getting sick via kissing https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/kissing-and-your-health

 

[mark78]

So, Ella Jade, are you a kisser?

 

[Phoebe]

If I am forking out $400 for an hour, which is $6.66 per minute I should not have to ask for kissing it should be in with that service.... rounded up Thought I would add real money for example...



Now a coffee at dome is $4.60 for example...

 

[frank mueller]

I do not offer kissing in my service at all. The closest I get is a little peck for my favourite clients

I've been having sex long enough to know my likes and dislikes. I know I like to kiss clients bodies, and have them kiss mine. I do not like tongues, or saliva. So I do not wish for a client to use them on me. They freak me out.

Kissing is also EXTREMELY intimate, for me (which is strange considering I sometimes offer greek). So I like to save that for long term relationships only. I don't think that my not offering kissing has affected me or my client base at all. There are plenty of other lovely gorgeous ladies who offer this service that there is usually not much of a fuss about it.

I believe kissing is an important part of a session with a WL otherwise it would seem a little impersonal to me but the decision to kiss or not is of course for the WL to make. Any misunderstanding could be avoided by stating in the ad whether kissing is included in service or only as an extra or not at all.

 

[Ginger Spice]

I believe kissing is an important part of a session with a WL otherwise it would seem a little impersonal to me but the decision to kiss or not is of course for the WL to make. Any misunderstanding could be avoided by stating in the ad whether kissing is included in service or only as an extra or not at all.

I think I can still give a client a nice intimate style service without sticking my tongue in his mouth

 

[Ozrock]

I think I can still give a client a nice intimate style service without sticking my tongue in his mouth

I agree that kissing should be at the discretion of the WL. If they do not want to kiss (as they regard that as being too intimate) then that should be respected by the client. The main thing is to inform the client that you don't kiss up front. Ginger is very clear about what she does and does not do in her profile, which is ideal.

 

[frank mueller]

Fair enough, Ginger seems to specialise in domination games rather than full GFE. I may give her a call when I feel like I have been a naughty boy and need some spanking...

 

[Ginger Spice]

Fair enough, Ginger seems to specialise in domination games rather than full GFE. I may give her a call when I feel like I have been a naughty boy and need some spanking...

I can still give an AMAZING standard service I just find fetishes far more interesting :giggle

 

[Ginger Spice]

If I am forking out $400 for an hour, which is $6.66 per minute I should not have to ask for kissing it should be in with that service.... rounded up Thought I would add real money for example...

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Now a coffee at dome is $4.60 for example...

You are paying for top quality service and ladies, not for kissing.
I give an awesome service, without kissing. A client assuming that since he paid $400 for me that I will kiss him is a recipe for disaster. After all parlor ladies only receive X amount from the $400. I cant remember what the rest of the money goes towards.

 

[Phoebe]

You are paying for top quality service and ladies, not for kissing.
I give an awesome service, without kissing. A client assuming that since he paid $400 for me that I will kiss him is a recipe for disaster. After all parlor ladies only receive X amount from the $400. I cant remember what the rest of the money goes towards.

It doesn't matter what the split is eg 50/50 65/35 60/40 etc etc. A client is still forking out $400 for what should be coined a WASS (Western Australian Standard Service) in Sydney for $400 you get A full GFE plus some.... and alot of parlors and clients alike expect WL over there to provide a full GFE including kissing for less than that amount too... Sorry to say but The Mining boom is over in the west back to normal transmission....

And why may I ask is it a recipe for disaster ?

 

[XLNC]

I think I can still give a client a nice intimate style service without sticking my tongue in his mouth

You don't have play tonsil hockey for it to count as a kiss.

 

[Ginger Spice]

You don't have play tonsil hockey for it to count as a kiss.

When I first started I would offer open mouth kissing WITHOUT tongue. More often then I liked tongue would be added haha.

Can you guys explain when you want kissing, what is it that you are after like making out kissing. Or would you be happy with a little peck? (Obviously as part of a standard service)

 

[Phoebe]

When I first started I would offer open mouth kissing WITHOUT tongue. More often then I liked tongue would be added haha.

Can you guys explain when you want kissing, what is it that you are after like making out kissing. Or would you be happy with a little peck? (Obviously as part of a standard service)

- A Standard service in NSW is deep french kissing especially at $400 per hour, LT's is the highest rates the side of Eucla This topic should not be even discussed at $400 Hr Kissing and tongue should be all in at that rate.

Punting in WA is like going to to a Toyota Dealer and buying a new car only to be told you need to buy the spare wheel, the jack, the wheel brace, headlights etc etc.. .....

I went out last night to all Parlors in Perth other than LT's and compared to NSW, WA is sub-par I left all of these parlors and went home... Time to change Perth you are not that special...

 

[XLNC]

When I first started I would offer open mouth kissing WITHOUT tongue. More often then I liked tongue would be added haha.

Can you guys explain when you want kissing, what is it that you are after like making out kissing. Or would you be happy with a little peck? (Obviously as part of a standard service)

You're overthinking it, beautiful!

Some WLs differentiate it by saying 'light kissing' but no DFK (deep French kissing), so open mouthed on the lips but no tongues -- that's all I need. In fact, I'm not a big fan of DFK in this business.

To me, 'a little peck' is what grandma used to give on the cheek.

 

[Ginger Spice]

It doesn't matter what the split is eg 50/50 65/35 60/40 etc etc. A client is still forking out $400 for what should be coined a WASS (Western Australian Standard Service) in Sydney for $400 you get A full GFE plus some.... and alot of parlors and clients alike expect WL over there to provide a full GFE including kissing for less than that amount too... Sorry to say but The Mining boom is over in the west back to normal transmission....

And why may I ask is it a recipe for disaster ?

If you think that bullying a working lady for her decisions in the industry will make her change them, you are mistaking. Assuming a working lady provides anything on top of a massage, oral and straight sex would be an error in judgement. Communication is important. I mean, i dont ASSUME a client would like a finger in his bottom lol

I don't know, I think because I am so used to never having the fact i dont offer kissing questioned that when it is I do get on the defensive. I switch up my girlfriend experience to a more sensual service (body slide, body caressing and kissing) that I dont see open mouth kissing as a huge missed opportunity. Or something that I would need to add to my service.

I imagine it would be life changing in a way. Not because it would be gross but i am (believe it or not) an emptional person, so kissing someone would bring emotions to a service that are completely unnecessary. I like being able to kiss someone I REALLY like and feeling my tummy flutter. Losing that, because I do it willy nilly,that would be sad. As its one of my favorite feelings in the world.

 

[XLNC]

I went out last night to all Parlors in Perth other than LT's and compared to NSW, WA is sub-par I left all of these parlors and went home... Time to change Perth....

Wow, Phoebe, I did not expect that from you. A parlour crawl.

 

[Ginger Spice]

- A Standard service in NSW is deep french kissing especially at $400 per hour, LT's is the highest rates the side of Eucla This topic should not be even discussed at $400 Hr Kissing and tongue should be all in at that rate.

Punting in WA is like going to to a Toyota Dealer and buying a new car only to be told you need to buy the spare wheel, the jack, the wheel brace, headlights etc etc.. .....

I went out last night to all Parlors in Perth other than LT's and compared to NSW, WA is sub-par I left all of these parlors and went home... Time to change Perth you are not that special...

Or time for you to go back to NSW?

 

[XLNC]

I imagine it would be quiet traumatic in a way. Not because it would be gross but i am (believe it or not) an emptional person, so kissing someone would bring emotions to a service that are completely unnecessary. I like being able to kiss someone I REALLY like and feeling my tummy flutter. Losing that, because I do it willy nilly,that would be sad. As its one of my favorite feelings in the world.

I think that is completely fair enough (and sweet) and I respect your decision. It's when some other WLs charge for kissing as an extra, when the base fee is already $300+, that I get riled.

 

[Ginger Spice]

I think that is completely fair enough (and sweet) and I respect your decision. It's when some other WLs charge for kissing as an extra, when the base fee is already $300+, that I get riled.

I believe that at LTs (not sure if its still a thing) that we must provide two extras on top of a stanfard service free of charge. I do offer mutual french (with a dental dam, because i suck the fun out of everything apparently haha), a body slide, mutual body caressing and to be honest if you want a finger in your butt ill chuck that in too My profile is a little out of date (since leaving) so it may need refreshing, but I know that times are tough, so I am alot more fair with my extra prices (inhouse) and dont charge for alot of extras that I used to. I know that although I can not change the price that a parlor charges, I can work harder and offer more (even if it isnt what some men EXPECTS me to offer) I have my own style of service and clients have fun

 

[Phoebe]

Wow, Phoebe, I did not expect that from you. A parlour crawl.

Not much else to do in The State of Excitement..

 

[Phoebe]

I dont ASSUME a client would like a finger in his bottom lol

Shock and awe honey shock and awe....