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littlebighorn

I suppose you could class me a lurker and watcher and not to much of an active member. But i do read posts ect nearly every day.
I have this problem that i would like to share . It has taken me much courage to come to this stage and post. I feel there may be similiar minded male or females with the same problem.
I think about sex the whole time i just cannot get it out of my mind. I find it hard to stick with the one partner. I need to have sex two to three times a day.I always think that the next women is going to be the one. If i cannot pick up a women in pubs or clubs ect i will go and pay for it. Sometimnes i have blown my whole wage packet on a friday just for sex.If i cannot get any of those i will get a magazine and masturbate, its not the same though.
Do you think i have an addictive disorder i am not addicted to anything else.I do not think that i have an obsessive compulsive personality.
Are there any other like minded people out there ?. And should i get help? Where do i go ?. I always practise very very safe sex .
 
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Mary Anne PA

thanks for your post littlebighorn and taking the courage to post it. I feel terrible that you splurge your whole pay packet like that and probably still don't get satiated or what you feel you need.

One thing that comes to mind that may have some benefit or not, but you can only talk to them and find out is David Kay and his sex therapy and holistic therapy. He is on this forum, plus his website is www.adamandeves.com.au Have a chat to him and see if what he does will alleviate your problem and maybe save you dollars as well, otherwise you will always be broke.. LOL
And... good luck!!
 
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David Kay

Hilittlebighorn,U are normal but unbalanced please go to my web site under feedback and see the first one called Vic ,He had the same issue as you,OUR THERAPY satisfies high sex drive and will help as Serena has said LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING FROM YOU.
 
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cli-max

Problem?

You have a ......... problem?
WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE LITTLEBIGHORN?
I've waited all my life to play with you!:notworthy

:blob5: :blob6: :blob3: WOHOOOOOO!
 
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littlebighorn

Using bodies

Thanks doctor kay will check it out.

And thankyou Climax perhaps we can use each other . Maybe we can be F...K buddies until i become balanced. But then again i might not want to become normal xxxx
 
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Kelly

Since when is wanting sex all the time a problem, if you have a problem littlebighorn i must have one as well!
 
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naughtybuttnice

Too Much Sex?

Problem? Where?...LoL...Maybe I am not as balanced as I thought...hahahahaha
 
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littlebighorn

Abbey normal

Thanks gals, at least i am not on me own , in thought at least.

From one sick M.t.er F.c..r
 
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CaseyMooCow

Sigh...

I _want_ to want sex more. But I'm scared.

How does one separate sex and sensuality from love so that one can experience new things (ie swinging) without feeling jealous or inadequate or left out?
 
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David Kay

Thanks Little BIG Horn .The SEXUAL SECRETS that every MAN should know is now in your hands YOU now can become the worlds second best LOVER .Refer to me for back up.WINNERS ARE GRINNERS
 
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JaM

Casey - Open Communication with your partner I think is the key plus being aware of EXACTLY what each other is after or expecting, no assumptions. Also... respect... 4 each other. & talk openly about ur experiences after the fact so u can use them to enrich ur sex-lives together...
 
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BigBoyBlue

casey- you may well just have a high sex drive, but than as you see, alot of people on these boards are comparable.

But answers to this thread shouldnt all be light-hearted, high sex drive is one thing, but hypersexuality ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nymphomaniac) can be illogical beyond the impulse or practical sense.

Nymphomania in women has led to destructive and dangerous lies, your mention of 'spending your entire paypacket' seems extreme, if you are indeed going beyond your practical needs and not having money to buy essentials. In this extreme it could be likened to gambling, alcholism or any other beyond-control addiction.

Dont get me wrong, Im no bible thumper saying to exercise control, read the scriptures, avoid touching your bathroom areas.
But on the same token, you need to decide for yourself if you control your sex drive or if it controls you....

If you are later regretting your sex adventures, like a beast werewolf, I would seriously think about proper counselling (and not from some website either)
 
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BigBoyBlue

Footnote: For those with high (unfulfilled) sex drive, sometimes I wish they could invent an ANTI-viagra ;)
 
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JaM

Anti-Viagra

There is I think it's called "Marriage" LOL ;) .... Just kidding
 
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littlebighorn

The best thing in life and its free

CaseyMooCow said:
I _want_ to want sex more. But I'm scared.

How does one separate sex and sensuality from love so that one can experience new things (ie swinging) without feeling jealous or inadequate or left out?
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Mizz Moo, tis ok i promise. At least you have a conscience. The main thing is to get outa life what you want. Its no good just thinking and feeling guilty cos you want to expierence these things . If you supress it , it will just make you sick. You must have a very high sex drive you need to do these things like me. I know its alright to want to do these things now.I used to feel real guilty before. I just love sex and the female form. When i see a female i almost undress her in my mind. i try and imagine what she would be like in bed ,the look on her face and if she would be frigid or not. Perhaps she has supressed sexual desires. I just get very turned on by the whole thing. I get on well with females and they normally feel relaxed with me. But really sex and sensuality are different to true love.Some of us need sex and sesuality more than our off siders be it wifes or girl freinds. Its very hard to tell your partner that you love them very much but for your sexual needs you need more. Sometimes they are just not capable of giving more. So we are caught in the middle if we tell them they become jelous and if we do it behind there back we feel guilty . So do we tell them and loose them?.
Some couples are similiar and can communicate and have that relationship but most cannot.

But Mizz Moo you have gotta live your life and do what you may . Life is to short to waste.How about a coffe?? He He
 
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Mary Anne PA

the burning itch to procreate

Hello my cherubs its a very intresting subject and believe me couples have battled through the ages. My Harold was a horny little bugger and at times in my life i just could not stomach him. But i believe and "please do not try this at home" when he was in the army they used to supress the sex drive they used to put copper sulphate in the diggers tea . This i believe supressed there drive.But it is a really poisonous chemical.

When he got older he never wanted it . And me being on the game on the side made me want it more but not with clients. ( never told my Harold ever what i did}And that secret i kept even when we buried him. He was such a decent man never heard him swear. It would have broken him if i had told him.We lived together for years . When we came to Australia we married. And that was that.

But prior to that i had these urges and only had satifaction when i had sex with different people i had to do it was in my make up.
The drive only diminished when i started keeping myself busy keeping fit and doing loads of charity work. I found as long as i kept my mind on other things it helped.

We cannot change who we are we can only improve. There are many organisations that cater for these addictions in my day there were non existent.

One must remember we are just out of the dark ages sex is a very natural part of life . It is the animal instinct that drives us on to procreate. It is in our gene pool it is there to continue our species.

Well Taraa poppits my grandson is coming over fot tea.


Phanny Doubtfire
 
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littlebighorn

Mizz Doubtfire

Just stumbled upoun this Phanny. You do talk a fair bit of sense. i hope that this is not to close to the bone but do you still have these urges and if you do what do you do?
 
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melinda

I always think that the next women is going to be the one

littlebighorn said:
I always think that the next women is going to be the one. If i cannot pick up a women in pubs or clubs ect i will go and pay for it. Sometimnes i have blown my whole wage packet on a friday just for sex.If i cannot get any of those i will get a magazine and masturbate, its not the same though.
Do you think i have an addictive disorder i am not addicted to anything else.I do not think that i have an obsessive compulsive personality.
Are there any other like minded people out there ?. And should i get help? Where do i go ?. I always practise very very safe sex .
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hi littlebighorn. first step to getting help is to talk about your prob with non judgemental people so you've come to the right place.

Just wondering what you meant by "I always think that the next women is going to be the one". do you mean the one that's going to satisfy all your sexual urges, or the one you're going to fall in love with or the one who's gonna make you feel ok about yourself? :alien:
 
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littlebighorn

horny

Hi Mel thanks for your intrest and attention.Well i feel ok about my self, and really i have never had to many prob's falling in and out of love and the defintion of love is very broad. Never the less i am a very sexual person and i just think i enjoy it a lot.In the same vein i do not like cheating if at all possible on loved ones ect.So to answer your questions it is i suppose a strong sex drive that drives me.

By the way i like your cat mask do you wear things like that during sexual play? or did you put it on to mask your identity and for fun.
Horn xx
 
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Mary Anne PA

twitch in the ditch

littlebighorn said:
Just stumbled upoun this Phanny. You do talk a fair bit of sense. i hope that this is not to close to the bone but do you still have these urges and if you do what do you do?
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Heloo my pets and to you Mr Horn.Well at my ripe old age i still get a bit of a twitch im my ditch when i see a sexy young man. But i think it is more of a mental thing.
I still have an assortment of toys that bring me to heaven .Unfortunately i have to be careful of my blood pressure.
Your only as old as you feel.

So never give in folks.


Ta Ta xxx Phanny Vergeena Doubtfire
 
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littlebighorn

Thankyou Adult Forums!!!!!

I would just like to finish this post to say that within this last year i have found a remarkable women. I have met her through these forums. She is my divine intervention. My lady is ten years younger than i sexy, caring gorgeous and hard working. Above all she understands my plight and has helped to cure me. Together we went to a professional...i am cured I have found true love THANK YOU ADULT FORUMS!!!!! It goes to show if there is a will there is a way. ..
 
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Mary Anne PA

well.. I'll be a monkeys uncle... can i come to the wedding????
 
Rhett and Scarlett

Rhett and Scarlett

Virginity can be cured!!
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The best things come to those that wait..........well done and good luck for the future. Love happy endings they make me cry(Scarlett of course):love10: :tearyeyed
 
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asslover

man u dont have any problem,its very good that u r horny guy but dont blown ur whole wage packet just for sex,if u cant pick up a girl just wank
 
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