My belief is that 'being more willing to compromise' is not hardwired mindset, belief, or a stage of a persons evolution. That is just a life skill alongside ones like 'good manners', 'agreeing to disagree', and thinking before speaking'. Some of us pick these up earlier than others or not at all. There is no right or wrong about that. We are each issued with predestined events with infinite streams of variables that are unique.
Currently what I interpret evolution to be is 'self discovery'. One side of that is to uncover, harness, and embrace what is inside me and be free from the good opinion of others. To be independent to dogmas, beliefs, and taboos that society programs into our neuro consciousness from birth.
Of course the other side to do with that is to coexist with other sention beings individually and collectively and be part of a balance to the greater existence. As I believe there are no absolutes......balance is like perfection and the speed of light. We can work towards it, experience it, pass through it, but never really capture it. Some say we are here to learn, some say we are here to experience.
Back on the original topic......yes chances are scarce of a relationship blossoming between a WL and a civilian male. The scarcity is fueled by ideas, beliefs, rules. Ideals that are inherited as we grow up that were not issued to us when we begin a human life. So you are right.......in this environment chances against it are astronomical.
As to should it be tried? I would advise against trying it just because it is something that has not been done before. But paths will cross, events will unfold, and hearts will awaken at times no body expects.
Am I that one in a million?...........I don't know. In order for me to be that special it has to make others not special. I just am that I am. Things just are as they are. And every moment of pleasure and pain is a privilege my friend.
