Before, After and in Between...

[asianguy77]

For a 45min-1 hr booking (half hr is bit short), what is your order of preference after the obligatory shower/payment?

Usually a booking may include

1. Massage
2. Strip tease
3. Talking
4. Cuddling
5. AND OF COURSE THE SEX ACT

Is there an order, which you usually like to follow? Do you like to get the Sex act out the way first then talk/massage after or do you like to do that prior?

After the sex act do you still like to touch, hold or do you prefer to just use the remaining time in another manner?

 

[honestman]

The worst a W/L would ever do is to get naked straight away and proceed to massage. That to me is as mechanical as it gets. To me, naked massage -> then sex is too mechanically institutionalized as a "process", but nonetheless It's an acquired taste for many.

I have always preferred the more "organic" yet intuitive approach. A nearly naked woman is more interesting to look at than her being plainly undone.

To me, it should be as closely to be treated as feng-shui - both parties MUST provide and "lead the way" to discover energy bit by bit, but keeping mind to never fully disclose it.

To me, it is as simple as getting close together straight after the shower, cuddling, kiss (tbh, I'm not good at french, but simple lip-to-lip does it), fondle all over with her clothes still on, on the bed, or standing for a good 10 to 15 mins, masturbating in between, then only a layer of stripped out, one at a time before the actual moment of it. Missionary is all there is I could ever wanted, especially if she's still have her clothing or two whilst we're at it.

When it is all done, I always kiss her on her stomach, showered, then more cuddles and a favour.

....And if I could convince her to play some deep, intimate soulful house in the background; as we lay down and chat - well, that'd truly be something to remember.

"Begin, with the end in mind." ~ Stephen Covey.

 

[iwtt69]

Won't work as most start of the session is a shower for both parties.. means getting totally nude.

 

[Raye@Langtrees]

Honestman I very much agree sixth you on the lady being only partially dress....
Very sexy and desirable. The art of being a seductress is lost on a vast number of WLs., these
Days, Some don't no how to tease, and please,

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