Any advice for a male looking to step into the escort business?

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Macross

Hi, I am recently thinking about stepping into the sex business. But first let me introduce myself. I am 27, 6ft 80kg, relatively fit and good looking with a sense of humour. I go to the gym regularly and play basketball and tennis.

I must admit I'm relatively inexperience about sex but love it. I am straight and will only want to see women.

Anyone has advice on how to get started? Maybe Mary Anne can help answer? What are the considerations to make? How big is the market here in Perth?

Cheers.
 
J

JadeTV

Women dont have to pay for sex, the serious cash for you would be in what they call "Gay for Pay" - and the type of work you do with women is more on emotional connection - dinner dates where you'll be expected to provide intellectual and stimulating input into delivering a magical event, handbag at the next office work event.

You're better off keepin your day job i think if its just women you're targetting because that's just one segment of an entire market - think about it, so you pay to advertise on a website, or a newspaper which reaches X amount of people and already from that X amount - you're cutting out chunks of the people you could be reaching. Any entrepreneur would not be able to justify that. The clients arent there for you, you're there for them. Unless you're in the league of absolute high class untouchable escort - then yep, Greenlight go for it....

The way we market ourselves to men is different to how you would market yourself to women. i'm also just speaking from some of the male escorts I have lived with over the years who have said what you are saying and sit there days on end waiting for a job and wondering how to pay their rent.

Consider what it is you have got to offer that any woman could get from their local pub right before closing time and ask how you could charge for that? And if you do decide to do it - consider what it is that a woman would find intriguing about you beyond the physical.
Men choose a partner based on looks (subconsciously, fertility), Women choose a partner based on security (looks arent the main dealbreaker).

SO My question is - what is your main motivation for this? Are you a nymphomanic or sex addict? Or are you just going through a quarter life / midlife crisis and want a legitimate excuse to action the fact (scientifically proven) that men on average think about sex every 12 seconds?



Hi, I am recently thinking about stepping into the sex business. But first let me introduce myself. I am 27, 6ft 80kg, relatively fit and good looking with a sense of humour. I go to the gym regularly and play basketball and tennis.

I must admit I'm relatively inexperience about sex but love it. I am straight and will only want to see women.

Anyone has advice on how to get started? Maybe Mary Anne can help answer? What are the considerations to make? How big is the market here in Perth?

Cheers.
 
L

Lilly Sweetheart

You need to be so much more than a good body, big penis and a pretty face.

You need to learn the art of seduction and to make women feel at ease. There isn't a huge market for male escorts for woman only as stated by Jade.

Also you if you don't have a current partner you really need to have a think about your future as this will most definitely impact on your future partner and most woman will be repulsed by you being a current or former escort.

Can I ask why are you thinking about being an escort? And you also need to have an exit plan.
 
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JadeTV

ah yes Lily of course, relationships are hard when you're doing this....


You need to be so much more than a good body, big penis and a pretty face.

You need to learn the art of seduction and to make women feel at ease. There isn't a huge market for male escorts for woman only as stated by Jade.

Also you if you don't have a current partner you really need to have a think about your future as this will most definitely impact on your future partner and most woman will be repulsed by you being a current or former escort.

Can I ask why are you thinking about being an escort? And you also need to have an exit plan.
 
J

Jessica

Its about HOW YOU MAKE YOUR CLIENT FEEL AT EASE... and relax them, comfortable and good about themselves...listening to them off load their burdens ( if they want to) without fear of judgement...You must be attentive, respectful and considerate at all times even when you dont really feel up to it.
 
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