Affection

[Larry83]

I think we all like affection. But how do we like it?
If i have had a busy day i love to receive affection. But if my partner has had a busy day she doesnt like much affection. But back massages always help.
One guy i know loves to be whipped to get affection from his partner.
And a girl i know loves to be tied up and teased so that she then enjoys the intimacy and cuddling with her partner.
How do other people react to stressful days?
As well as giving or receiving affection?

 

[cyphix]

Gotta say I love to cuddle up together... in bed, on the couch.... whereever.

 

[Biggirl78]

Im all for having my partner sit me down with a glass of wine, some porn on the tv and going down on me until i cum. It releases all my stress and then i usually get in a kinky mood..
I could do with that right now come to think of it..

 

[Spunkymunky]

Damn i want a partner!!
I am a big cuddle fan.......

 

[swingingstories]

Great Question. I grew up in a household that was not physically demonstrative with affection. Don't misunderstand, lots of love in our house, just parents were not physical, not lots of hugs.

I think it affected how I related in some ways as I grew up. And i determined that my kids would have lots of hugs and cuddles and just sitting with each other.

My hubby is very affectionate, one of those touchy feely guys. He always has a hug for me, just when I need it. Sometimes he comes into the kitchen during the witching hour (you know when the kids are screaming and dinner's burning) and he starts giving me a hug and right then I think "bloody hell, not now" but he perseveres and before you know it, I'm loving the hug and it makes me feel better. He knows when I don't.

But we have one unusual way of displaying affection. We call it a "button". It just involves taking your index finger and pressing the intended receiver of affection as if you were pressing a button. We then name the button eg: the sneaky button, the ear lobe button, the cheek button, the knee pit button. I know it sounds silly and I don't know how it started, but it's our thing. Funny when you're feeling blue and you get a surprise button, it always makes you smile.

Love
swingingstories

 

[Spunkymunky]

I grew up with hugs, touching and affection then when i turned 12 i went to live with other people and i didn't get hugged for a long time. It's strange though cos it feels weird when my friends, family or foster family hug me......but when my sexual partner hugs me its totally comfortable.

Lol i have issues

 

[Spunkymunky]

I grew up with hugs, touching and affection then when i turned 12 i went to live with other people and i didn't get hugged for a long time. It's strange though cos it feels weird when my friends, family or foster family hug me......but when my sexual partner hugs me its totally comfortable.

Lol i have issues

Swingingstories i dont think the button thing is weird.....my ex and i invented a word that was kind of slang for "love you" and it became our thing. He even had it engraved on a bracelet for me and even now, it always makes me smile.