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Addicted to Sex

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Tania Admin

I think I'm addicted to sex i think about it a lot and when my wife is out I'm constantly going to escorts

I'm sorry no-one replied to your post before now.

Sex is a normal everyday need.

I have a theory: Do you use your heart once a week/fortnight/month? Your kidneys? Your hands? Your lungs? Your eyes?
Every part of the human body is designed to work together to balance everything and produce all the right internal chemistry to function correctly.
Sex produces feel good endorphins. We feel better mentally when these endorphins are produced. Mental health is important.
So why would our genitals be any different?

To me my theory makes sense.

My question to you is: Is your home sex life active with your wife?
If not: Is there something you could do to bring back the sexual spark?
Perhaps she has fantasies that need to be gently drawn out.

A true sex addict (text book addict) will bonk anyone for the endorphin hit. Are you really a sex addict or do you just have a normal libido that's lacking attention?
 

Dallas

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I thought I was addicted to sex too a few years ago when I was married. In my case though, I wasn't seeing Escorts, but my partner had lost all interest in sex, and as Tania said, it's a need just like every other human need.

I found the less I got it which for the last 10 years was never, the more I thought about it and the greater my libido seemed to become, almost to the point of insanity, where it was affecting my decision making at work and my motivation for every day life.

I went to see a therapist because I thought I had a sex addiction however she said the same thing as Tania said, that I was a person with a normal libido lacking attention and that I should bring my partner along to see her.

I feel that sex is like breathing and it's too important to be an optional extra in a relationship. It's just an a shame that it's not as easy to acquire as taking a breath.
 

SAO26.2

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I think addiction is defined as when someone does the behaviour compulsively. The person wants to stop, but can't, and the person does it at the expense of doing something else that's more necessary at that moment. If it's something that someone really enjoys, and does a lot, but can set it aside for later when that's what's needed, then it's not addiction ... it's just doing something the person enjoys.
 

RandyAndy987

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.i too am bitten by that bug, somedays i may visit 4 in a day and still go home and rub one out.

on the days i am strong i may resist the oppurtunity but if i get online and start looking at porn or escort adds forget it

that is a trigger once pulled
the bullet must be shot

.shockin pun hey ;-)

easier to avoid the adds less likely to go

but if you got the coin and decent company
fuk it
the company off course
i agree with the post above high price is not high satifaction
two things young one that loves sex

older one still going
because she loves sex

if its the money they love RUN FOR YOUR LIFE
 

Hussyboy

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Its not wrong to visit escorts if you have an unhappy married life. Its a basic need for all, you are just outsourcing it to others to make yourself happy.
 
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