A Tale of Two Clients - An Escort Thread

[Daniel Cruze]

When you make the decision to call an escort, you are truly only ever paying for their time that they are choosing to spend with you. You can buy that time, sure, but paying alone does not create the experience, you do.

This can be demonstrated with two case studies, clients A and B.

Client A is a gentleman. He takes care of hygiene and is respectful. He is not pushy or rude. He takes his time creating an experience with the companion, and in return, is greeted with enthusiasm.

Client B is pompous and self-important. He believes he is shopping from a menu. He acts as if he has bought the companion, and treats them akin to an object. He is unhygienic and off-putting. There is no connection. The companion does not pull out all the stops.

Both clients have paid for one hour of the companions time, but each receive different levels of service. Money does not buy respect, being respectful does. Clients have a great deal of influence over how well an experience unfolds.

Of course this respect and experience building goes both ways. A disrespectful companion will be quite off-putting to the discerning gentlemen.

So let's all put our best forward when creating these magical moments together

 

[Jacqui Luxe]

Could not agree more, fantastically said! I always say to the girls that all of my clients leave happy, but the ones who chose to be rude or disrespectful will never have any idea how amazing their time could have been

 

[Annoyance]

That is true but then with the experience you give them is good that it makes the lines of client and worker blur very thin. That they want to do more then intended.

For instance you both are sharing a moment and suddenly the client decides to Dfk you, even tho you told them that isn't included at the package. Emotions play a big part in this physical connection, even tho as we're told to keep them at the door. They could be the nicest individual but everyone's definition of sex is different from another once in a bedroom service or not. And once you both are in plug and play mode everything becomes instinct.

And you know in the bedroom the moment someone denies the other guilty pleasures in the moments of passion. Is the start of a session slowly going sour. (For example above the client wants to get a deeper connection with you Dfking but you say no)

Then the session goes from client's Point of view from
(A) im glad I've book them im having a good time
to
(B) Im enjoying the moment but this could have been better.

So you see the street works both ways between escort and clients.

Clients only pay for a service, and hope for an outcome. Escorts on the other hand have power over how the session plays out, whether they agree to the clients wishes or not to make the experience fruitful for both parties involved.

 

[Madmax1700]

Good read Tks

 

[Daniel Cruze]

Good read Tks

Your welcome.

 

[Daniel Cruze]

Could not agree more, fantastically said! I always say to the girls that all of my clients leave happy, but the ones who chose to be rude or disrespectful will never have any idea how amazing their time could have been

 

[Phoebe]

Client C , Shy in the lounge, but is as kinky as fuck in the room, pays his cash for an agreed time, plus extras, and well is full onto into sex and the escort too.... gives her 4 orgasms in the alloted time, she is that drained she finishes her shift as he leaves!

 

[Daniel Cruze]

That is true but then with the experience you give them is good that it makes the lines of client and worker blur very thin. That they want to do more then intended.

For instance you both are sharing a moment and suddenly the client decides to Dfk you, even tho you told them that isn't included at the package. Emotions play a big part in this physical connection, even tho as we're told to keep them at the door. They could be the nicest individual but everyone's definition of sex is different from another once in a bedroom service or not. And once you both are in plug and play mode everything becomes instinct.

And you know in the bedroom the moment someone denies the other guilty pleasures in the moments of passion. Is the start of a session slowly going sour. (For example above the client wants to get a deeper connection with you Dfking but you say no)

Then the session goes from client's Point of view from
(A) im glad I've book them im having a good time
to
(B) Im enjoying the moment but this could have been better.

So you see the street works both ways between escort and clients.

Clients only pay for a service, and hope for an outcome. Escorts on the other hand have power over how the session plays out, whether they agree to the clients wishes or not to make the experience fruitful for both parties involved.

Can you see how that when the client pursued to DFK the provider and the provider already clarified that DFK isn't part of her service. The client is responsible for fucking up the booking and trying to cross boundaries that had already been clarified.

 

[Daniel Cruze]

Client C , Shy in the lounge, but is as kinky as f**k in the room, pays his cash for an agreed time, plus extras, and well is full onto into sex and the escort too.... gives her 4 orgasms in the alloted time, she is that drained she finishes her shift as he leaves!

Deposits paid in advance or a last minute booking?

 

[Phoebe]

Deposits paid in advance or a last minute booking?

???? Please explain

 

[Annoyance]

Can you see how that when the client pursued to DFK the provider and the provider already clarified that DFK isn't part of her service. The client is responsible for f**king up the booking and trying to cross boundaries that had already been clarified.

That is true but lines do tend to blur in the heat of the moment. I bet controlling boundaries and emotions is business as usual for escorts who do it day in and day out. But for everyone that doesn't has their own habits and sub-conscious ways for having sex, they'll say yes to all the rules but might forget them in the moment of passion.

The hazards of a escort is even tho you get a respectable client that treat you right, once you lost that physical connection building up together it changes. Then with your example Client A changes into Client B and start treating the escort like an object just to get them off. So you hope all clients that see them are open minded as they are and just enjoy the moment they have and not get attached. Which if they see you again means they have.

Then you get Client C respectable, knows the rules and treats the escort like an object cause it's a paid service they know the line. And gets the escort to work for their money doing all the work, and takes twice as much effort to get them off. They weren't rude but know it's the job of the escorts to make them comfortable and get them off and tell them accordingly what to do next and for how long.

So you see even tho providing sex as a service like it or not it isn't just black or white all the time. If we can turn off emotions during sex that'll be great but alas life isn't as simple as that.

 

[Phoebe]

That is true but lines do tend to blur in the heat of the moment. I bet controlling boundaries and emotions is business as usual for escorts who do it day in and day out. But for everyone that doesn't has their own habits and sub-conscious ways for having sex, they'll say yes to all the rules but might forget them in the moment of passion.

The hazards of a escort is even tho you get a respectable client that treat you right, once you lost that physical connection building up together it changes. Then with your example Client A changes into Client B and start treating the escort like an object just to get them off. So you hope all clients that see them are open minded as they are and just enjoy the moment they have and not get attached. Which if they see you again means they have.

Then you get Client C respectable, knows the rules and treats the escort like an object cause it's a paid service they know the line. And gets the escort to work for their money doing all the work, and takes twice as much effort to get them off. They weren't rude but know it's the job of the escorts to make them comfortable and get them off and tell them accordingly what to do next and for how long.

So you see even tho providing sex as a service like it or not it isn't just black or white all the time. If we can turn off emotions during sex that'll be great but alas life isn't as simple as that.

My Client C is not like yours.. My client C went to a parlor paid some cash, and he and her had the best fucking time ever..

 

[Annoyance]

My Client C is not like yours.. My client C went to a parlor paid some cash, and he and her had the best f**king time ever..

That'll be client D knowing what they want and finding the right AmP girl on the same wavelength to have the best Root'n time ever. And for a lower price he can go again in the same week. Forking out more money increases that expectation, cause you're paying more.

If you're paying top dollar for a escort say 1k/hr that client will have high expectations on having all their boxes ticked in that hour.

Btw i even have Client H which falls in love with an escort and tries to take her/him out of the sex industry to make them theirs. Very respectable, caring loving and wanting. The knight female/male on a white horse.

 

[Phoebe]

That'll be client D knowing what they want and finding the right AmP girl on the same wavelength to have the best Root'n time ever. And for a lower price he can go again in the same week. Forking out more money increases that expectation, cause you're paying more.

If you're paying top dollar for a escort say 1k/hr that client will have high expectations on having all their boxes ticked in that hour.

Btw i even have Client H which falls in love with an escort and tries to take her/him out of the sex industry to make them theirs. Very respectable, caring loving and wanting.

You do know what the escorting world is all about don't you?

 

[Annoyance]

You do know what the escorting world is all about don't you?

Yup I do its not all ups and downs but keeping that black and white line at all times. But the service they are providing is a sacred union between 2 ppl. Hence why it's so addictive in nature. That's why there are a huge range of clients out there in the world we have today. And why escorts get bad days too.

That's why you can't classify clients into 2 groups as there are more diverse range of personalities out there wanting the same thing but in a different way. You can also get a Client who treats an escort rude and rough, but with each visit change their attitude towards that escort. And the opposite can be said about a respectable client too.

 

[Phoebe]

Yup I do its not all ups and downs but keeping that black and white line at all times. But the service they are providing is a sacred union between 2 ppl. Hence why it's so addictive in nature. That's why there are a huge range of clients out there in the world we have today. And why escorts get bad days too.

That's why you can't classify clients into 2 groups as there are more diverse range of personalities out there wanting the same thing but in a different way. You can also get a Client who treats an escort rude and rough, but with each visit change their attitude towards that escort.

So why even have this thread.

 

[Annoyance]

So why even have this thread.

It's a confirmation to show & tell anyone who visits this thread how escorts prefer their clients to be. In hopes to spread the word, and how they like to be treated as such.

And i joined in to voice it isn't as black and white as ppl think.

 

[Harlots_Bec]

@Night Owl & @Phoebe I have moved your comments to your dedicated thread. Please continue your bickering there & keep this thread on topic - thanks x

https://www.talkinsex.com/threads/phoebe-night-owls-bitching-thread.68259/page-6#post-590972

 

[Ovlov]

Common sense to be respectful

 

[Ashton Reign]

That'll be client D knowing what they want and finding the right AmP girl on the same wavelength to have the best Root'n time ever. And for a lower price he can go again in the same week. Forking out more money increases that expectation, cause you're paying more.

If you're paying top dollar for a escort say 1k/hr that client will have high expectations on having all their boxes ticked in that hour.

Btw i even have Client H which falls in love with an escort and tries to take her/him out of the sex industry to make them theirs. Very respectable, caring loving and wanting. The knight female/male on a white horse.

why are you overcomplicating it? It always amuses me how the non-sex workers think they know it all. If you prefer to go to AMP's then that's your choice. It's not going to affect my business or a lot of other escorts for that matter.

You will encounter boundaries in your personal sex life, seeing an escort is no different. Not respecting the boundaries of an escort equates to not respecting the escort especially if these boundaries were explained in the beginning. If you don't like the boundaries, then see someone else. There's no need to overcomplicate it. What you don't like, many others do and it's our right as a sex worker to set our limits and boundaries. Don't like it? Don't book.

Every situation is different and not once in my whole time working privately have I had an issue with clients pushing boundaries because I am clear and upfront from the start. If I am not willing to negotiate my service or offer something that the client wants, I tell them to go elsewhere and it has not affected my income in the slightest.

 

[Annoyance]

why are you overcomplicating it? It always amuses me how the non-sex workers think they know it all.

Same I feel the same about a bunch of sex workers that think they know it all too. Every time a customer takes a chance on booking you it's a steep cost of faith, hoping that things will pan out well in a session. Are you going to say sure meet me for 10-15 mins for a chat for a booking, then allow them to waste your time if things don't work out and you don't get paid and they go some where else? I think not regarding it's cash up front the you're in or you're not routine, if not get out. Time is money in your world, whats the famous quote? No time wasters? How will they know you're what they really want without some sort of interaction first? In the real world greetings are an order of things without... it's plain rude, but we are trained to disregard that with WLs.

Yes you can set up your boundaries that's fine and all but don't forget it's never as easy as that, on the side of the customer. And eventually the same old story pops up... why can't they treat my body with respect? Well when you limit interactions one by one the session, it turns into a client getting a new toy and being as rough as he/she wants with it before discarding it after a 1 time use. But you're right it hasn't affected your income just the type of men that usually book you.

This forum is for education purposes for Sex workers and females the like. But if you want to see it in black and white with the wool pull over your eyes, be my guest. It might be too much of a shock to process how the real world works. What's the saying ignorance is bliss?