A guys worst nightmare!!

[bushseeker]

I went to make love to my Girlfreind before heading back to the big smoke (we are living 600k apart at present)and I had some problems getting it up. When I did she started shushing me as we were starting to get a rock up and the people she stays with are in the next room. Well that was it Failure to launch. I could never have imagined it but there it was (wasnt)
I keep telling myself
1) I was tired (big weekend drove 700k to see her arriving in the middele of the night then went out camping etc etc)
2) i was pissed (never mattered before)
3) I was really uncomfortable, we had been out for tea and i ate all mine and 1/2 of hers then there was desert entrees .....)
4)the bed really sucked (blow up)and it made it hard to get it in and get going
5) couldnt make much noise
SOOOOOO am i making excuses? - we had plenty of good times that morning and the day before
However I have heard it happens i mean they wouldnt advertise those nose sprays if people wernt having problems.
She got up reel early the next morning for work so i had no chance to rectify things..... This has left me worried

 

[Mary Anne PA]

If you want to plant the seed make sure conditions are good

Me dinks you Mr Bush Seeker should be worried. 30 years of age and old fella she not workin up to scratch.Me at least ten years ouder than you. My old fella always stands to attention when my women want a piece of action . Mornin noon or night 3 times a day what eva.Its all in the mind broooooooooooooo!!!!!!!Careful maybe she run off with otha man when you on walkabout.

 

[sioxie]

UR only a young fella don't sweat the small stuff!

Mate i wouldn't worry too much abt it esp as it was only a one off....I have seen plenty of men have this problem now and again and u just accept that sometimes things like this happen u don't blame the guy for it, if it were to happen continually then i would start to get a bit concerned it might be a medical problem......

Your girlfriend sounds like a very lucky gal to have u drive 700 k to see her i am sure she was happy enough just to see u....:angel1:

 

[bushseeker]

Mate i wouldn't worry too much abt it esp as it was only a one off....I have seen plenty of men have this problem now and again and u just accept that sometimes things like this happen u don't blame the guy for it, if it were to happen continually then i would start to get a bit concerned it might be a medical problem......

Your girlfriend sounds like a very lucky gal to have u drive 700 k to see her i am sure she was happy enough just to see u....:angel1:

Thanks for that I think the most important thing is i dont dwell on it coz i heard the more you worry the more of a problem you have. We had already made beutifull love 2wice that day with no problms Unfortunatly it will be 2-3 weeks befor ei can rectify things - I gotta make sure it doesnt play on my mind and give her a good HARD time next time

 

[svengali]

Sheesh!! You managed two bonks after 700kms driving, mucho vino and food, then, with an uncomfortable bed and people listening next door you couldn't manage No.3 and that is a problem???

My hat is off to you for even trying!!!

 

[bushseeker]

Follow up
Well she surprised me this weeken by driving over, 4 times (so far) this weekend quite long sessions and NO inflationary problems........ All is good. Thanks for the encourgement

 

[Bennyready]

hey mate,

under those conditions most guys would fail to get it hard enough now and then -- nothing to worry about!

 

[kevin-perth]

relax

Relax mate -when you are in your 50s-same things will happen-stop reading magazines about macho men-its bullshit everyone-male and female have the same -- not a problem---- its timing---- hang in there !

 

[sumguy]

Contrary to popular belief, men don't feel like having sex every minute of the day, and occasionally will turn it down...

I had to fake an orgasm once.
After a long night of drinking, I had a bad headache but despite this my partner and I began having sex in the shower, the floor of which was long enough for me to lay down on. She was cowgirl on me, bouncing up and down which made me forget about my headache because now my back was killing me as it hit the tiled floor.

I didn't want to just say stop and appear ungrateful, because she was in an odd mood that night and there's no telling what might have happened.

To cut a long story short, if your uncomfortable physically or mentally it's hard to enjoy yourself.

 

[Liquidfun]

I had a frustrating experience.. 3 hours of foreplay and he still failed to get it up. I tried everything touching, oral, massaging, music candles etc.... Did the best I could to relax him but nothing seemd to work, we wern't drunk either... He was 19. Got on the back of his new bike a week later, and we went for a ride, got back to my place so I tried again (was very horny after being on the back of a V Twin haha) just running my hands over his bike leathers and he didnt get turned on at all.

I gave up and walked off. (still waiting for a decent shag here VERY frustrated lol)

 

[viking32]

we are not machines ..that can just be turned on and off,,
i was married for a few years and at any giving moment wanted sex,,well 2 kids after things started to go wrong,,she teased me then said no then said tonight then again no go,,it became a stupid game ..theh when we final got to bed,,it was 3 sec and that was it and she complained ,,well the penetrating thing,,i am very good at forplay,,now years later i have had a few partners in my life since ..and if i dont feel up to it i go letts not do it as i am tired ..or i will do some but no penetration,just oral..to please her,,nothing worse been with some one and they are half a sleep doing it,,they bettr wait to morning they are nice ...fuld off energy..smile,,,,good to hear you are back on track young man,,,just renember its not all about getting it up..its all about how you treat her,,matey

 

[viking32]

to liquid fun,,sorry to hear about your treatment ...sounde like you guys was just not meant to be,,,and as they say it takes 2 to tango,,,he sounde very selfish or just not interested,,,lets say the first bit,,,,i am sure you had preffered him thropping then his new v twin..lol....