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For safe, satisfying anal sex, preparation is essential. This entails having a discussion about anal sex with your partner beforehand, understanding your options, stocking up on lubrication and condoms, practising excellent anal hygiene beforehand, taking it slow, and having lots of foreplay. Would you like to try anal sex? Have problems with anal sex that you wish to try to resolve? Quite simply curious? In this post, we'll go over how to get ready for anal sex so that you and your partner may both feel comfortable and enjoy it.Getting ready for anal sex
Despite popular belief, anal intercourse involves more than just penile-anal contact. Fingers, sex objects, or a partner's tongue can all be used in anal play, often known as "rimming." It may involve anal kissing, caressing, or other forms of non-penetrative or shallowly penetrative piercing. When having anal intercourse, there is no right or wrong approach.
1. Try something on your own
It is beneficial to investigate what anal feeling feels like in the first place, regardless of whether you will be the penetrating partner or the receiving partner. If you're new to anal sex, this is extremely helpful. You can begin your exploration with a finger that has been lubricated by massaging the region surrounding your anus, testing with pressure, and slipping one or more fingers inside. Your anal muscle, or sphincter, will be movable, and you can try relaxing, contracting, and enjoying it. If you are the top partner, this will have the advantage of acquainting you with the type of relaxation and feelings your bottom partner will be experiencing. This will enable you to become accustomed to the feelings and learn to relax your muscles if you are the bottom partner. In either case, it will increase your self-assurance and familiarity with what to anticipate during anal sex.
2: Toys for sex
Many sex objects have flared bases that are made for secure anal activity. Anal beads, vibrators, and butt plugs are a few toys that ease sphincter tension and allow for sphincter stretching. Additionally, there are toys like strap-ons and dildos made specifically for the penetrative partner to utilise. There is no lack of choices, so investigate those that feel best for you and your spouse. However, if considering a non-purpose-designed anal sex toy, proceed with some healthy caution. People with "rectal foreign bodies"—household objects placed into the anus that a person could not remove themselves—are frequently present in emergency rooms.
3. Communicate with your companion
An individual should never attempt to persuade or pressure their partner into anal sex; rather, anal sex should be something that both of you are really interested in and comfortable with. You can always attempt it and stop at any time if you're curious about anal sex but feeling a little uneasy. It is not necessary to be formal while checking in with your partner, but it should be understood. Making anal sex joyful and comfortable for both of you requires having fun and open discussion about your expectations, ideas, and wishes in advance. Additionally, you should discuss using condoms, especially if you're seeing someone new.
4. Practice your "anals"
Although it is not required, doing so can be an enjoyable and useful approach for a bottom partner to learn to relax their anal sphincter. The objective is to make accepting a strap-on or penis easier and more pleasurable during anal sex. You can do this with your fingers (start with one, relax, and breathe deeply, then gradually add more) or with sex toys that are specifically made for that purpose. The fundamental toy in this is the butt plug. It frequently has a tapering design, and a flared base and is manufactured of glass or silicon. Another option is to purchase an anal trainer kit, which includes multiple plugs of progressively larger sizes.
5. Compile your resources
For anal intercourse, all you really need is plenty of lubrication and condoms. Toys are optional; you are not required to purchase them. The use of condoms is crucial in anal sex. You should use a condom if you are dating someone new or if you are in a monogamous relationship but have not yet had an STI test done on each other. Anal sex increases the risk of STIs like gonorrhoea, chlamydia, genital herpes, and HIV.
6. Practice proper anal hygiene
At the end of the day, sex is dirty, and it's likely that a few faeces will surface during anal intercourse. There is no need to feel ashamed or guilty about this because it is normal and to be anticipated. Even so, maintaining good fundamental anal hygiene is crucial if you're the bottom partner and can let you concentrate more on having fun and less on any potential cleanup. Additionally, it's polite to your partner. (If you'll be the top partner and any of your fingers will be used, keeping your nails short and well-kept is also a considerate gesture.)
7. Begin with a little anal foreplay
Your best buddies for having the most enjoyable anal sex will be foreplay and lubricant. Your main objective is to assist the bottom partner in relaxing the anal sphincter muscle, but you and your partner can engage in any mix of touching, masturbating or kissing you choose. It shouldn't seem like a chore to do this. Many people can orgasm solely from anal stimulation since the anus is packed with nerve endings.
Try gently inserting a finger that has been greased shallowly and gently massaging it as you slowly insert it deeper. A second finger can be inserted and used as a conduit for additional lubricant. If you have any sex toys, you can also use them. The major objectives are to unwind and have fun while also lubricating and relaxing the anal muscles. As soon as you've warmed up, you can move on to anal sex by starting softly and penetrating gradually as soon as the bottom partner is ready. Examine what feels comfortable for both of you and try out various positions. Simply slow down and redo some of your preparatory techniques if the bottom partner begins to feel uneasy at any moment before continuing.
