Unique situation - looking for advice and drawing from your experience

darksibra

darksibra

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Hello all, hope you are having a lovely day
A little about myself - I am middle aged, on a wheelchair but fully independent. When I want to see an escort, I don't want sex or intimacy of any sort (nothing works down there nor do I feel anything lol). So an ideal session would look like us, being fully clothed and chit chatting. The only physical contact I need, is with their feet. Why feet, I don't really know, but it seems psychological as there is no arousal and also this only happened after my injury.

Based on your experience, do you think I am likely to across escorts that will be open to providing such service at reasonable rates, understanding that due to my disability I cannot engage in standard services?

Thanks all
 
Aussie_Deano

Aussie_Deano

Just a Punter in SA
Silver Member
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I think that as long as you treat her with respect and courtesy, as I'm certain that you would, she would prob look forward to your bookings if you were to become a semi regular! Just browse the listings and you will find that WL that you just might be one of her fav clients 😉
 
Aussie_Deano

Aussie_Deano

Just a Punter in SA
Silver Member
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darksibra said:
Hello all, hope you are having a lovely day
A little about myself - I am middle aged, on a wheelchair but fully independent. When I want to see an escort, I don't want sex or intimacy of any sort (nothing works down there nor do I feel anything lol). So an ideal session would look like us, being fully clothed and chit chatting. The only physical contact I need, is with their feet. Why feet, I don't really know, but it seems psychological as there is no arousal and also this only happened after my injury.

Based on your experience, do you think I am likely to across escorts that will be open to providing such service at reasonable rates, understanding that due to my disability I cannot engage in standard services?

Thanks all
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I also think that you may find that, due to your injury, you could find a psychological kind of fantasy as it were but because (I assume) your a para, and maybe you can imagine how she feels when you intimately caress her feet because you can't feel yours!
Just my take on it I'm an able bodied male so this is just my summarisation.
I say give it a go champ and don't ever say that re intimacy because you could just find that you and her have found a whole new way of being intimate,and if you both gel I can almost guarantee she will tell her friends, all about this new client that made her day 😏
Intimacy is something that comes in many forms and (sorry if I'm sounding like a know it all and rambling), but don't sell your self or Indeed your intimate partners short by going in not looking or wanting intimacy.
I hope this helps your mindset going looking for the right WL
Wish you well in your search champ
 
mrys

mrys

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You will absolutely find what you're looking for darksibra. There are a number of ladies that cater for disabled clients. They often have close friends or relatives who are in the same boat and therefore have empathy for and a greater understanding of each persons unique circumstances. Best wishes on your journey!!
 
darksibra

darksibra

Bronze Member
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Aussie_Deano said:
I also think that you may find that, due to your injury, you could find a psychological kind of fantasy as it were but because (I assume) your a para, and maybe you can imagine how she feels when you intimately caress her feet because you can't feel yours!
Just my take on it I'm an able bodied male so this is just my summarisation.
I say give it a go champ and don't ever say that re intimacy because you could just find that you and her have found a whole new way of being intimate,and if you both gel I can almost guarantee she will tell her friends, all about this new client that made her day 😏
Intimacy is something that comes in many forms and (sorry if I'm sounding like a know it all and rambling), but don't sell your self or Indeed your intimate partners short by going in not looking or wanting intimacy.
I hope this helps your mindset going looking for the right WL
Wish you well in your search champ
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Thank you so much, really appreciate your response,
An excellent point that the psychological connection to feet could be related to the fact that I cant feel my own.
Thank you for your pointers on intimacy too, I will definitely tailor my thinking accordingly.
 
Aussie_Deano

Aussie_Deano

Just a Punter in SA
Silver Member
Points
28
darksibra said:
Thank you so much, really appreciate your response,
An excellent point that the psychological connection to feet could be related to the fact that I cant feel my own.
Thank you for your pointers on intimacy too, I will definitely tailor my thinking accordingly.
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Welcome brother
 
Valvoline

Valvoline

Gold Member
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117
Talk to your support team if you are on NDIS you might be able to get some funding. No matter how softly you broche the topic, it's very likey you will get berated or blocked asking for reduced rate due to disability
 
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