Special connection with a Working lady
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I did with one for about 9 months on and off. It had highs and lows .. initially there was, as in most fledgling relationships a mutual feeling of an obligation to impress the other. I knew when we started to see one and other outside of her work she had a drug habit. As time went on I tried to help her kick this habit.
Eventually it wasn't any kind of jealousy that crushed it for me. I never lost sight of the reality I was just a client. The relationship had trust as a foundation initially we could say exactly how we felt. At the end she was just wanting money then not showing up when she said she would. When questioned she would say she spent the time alone. She was back at work because she had to be with her habit escalating.
I tried to help but when that trust is gone in any kind of relationship there is no more point.
Eventually it wasn't any kind of jealousy that crushed it for me. I never lost sight of the reality I was just a client. The relationship had trust as a foundation initially we could say exactly how we felt. At the end she was just wanting money then not showing up when she said she would. When questioned she would say she spent the time alone. She was back at work because she had to be with her habit escalating.
I tried to help but when that trust is gone in any kind of relationship there is no more point.